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Female Submissive, 36, st clair shores, Michigan
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Female Submissive, 60, DFW, Texas
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Female Dominant, 55, Thunder Bay Ont.
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About LadyRedhawk
Time for an overhaul. Life changes, we learn more about ourselves and so things here should change as well.
I want a boy toy, a pet, one that will tend to the house as well as myself. I prefer a cuckhold as no boy of mine is putting his little thing in me, if you are lucky I will let you play with yourself while I watch. And if you are really really good I will let you watch while a real man actually fucks me.
To take and tie as I see fit, to hold in bondage as my own, to push to limits agreed and with time perhaps more. To be that one he craves to touch, not just with a whip but with words..
I have been blessed to have learned fire play taught to me by the late Lord TZ of DSSG in Hamilton. I also have an affinity for bondage of many types, from rope and basic shibari which were taught by the amazing Midori, who is one of my personal heros in the BDSM and sexual education world. Recently I was lucky enough to sit in on a workshop on CBT presented by leather men. Although CBT has been a big part of play for me over the years who better to learn from and expand my knowledge even further then from the men who have the bits and play with the bits.
I am a sensual sadistic Dominant that loves to hear the gasp for air that comes from a subs lips as they try and suck in that much needed oxygen as the blood rushes through their body. The goosebumps that form on the skin and the sounds and excitement pulled from that intimate moment in play that just connects.
I am a woman that enjoys the feeding thrill of a quivering, wanting body at my feet, to watch their face as they look up at me. To see the pleading look in their eyes for just one touch, a kiss, a bite, anything to full fill that longing they hold inside to give over.
I am the toy maker with a wicked sense of fun, there isn't a store yet that I can find something to turn kinky. I build canes, paddles, leather gear.
I am a friend, a lover and a sensualist.
I demand no titles from those that are not mine, and I give none to those I have just met. I am a Human being as are you, let us start there. Those who must use titles I prefer Ma'am and from my property Mi'Lady or My Lady.
I am a web published author of erotic literature.
I am a woman always growing. I do not know everything, and never will, but I do strive to continue to learn and grow with each passing day.
Reality:
I am a polyamourous Lady. I have both a Dominant Wife and a Switch BF.
I will not answer one liner emails. If you want my attention write something worth reading.
I am looking for a good house boy/footman. The term footman does not referr to a foot fetishest. Someone that can blend into the family and make life easier tending to the household, as well as be my private toy to play with. As one person put it to me I am looking for "Laura Crofts Butler"
I am looking for someone that is local or willing to travel here to me and possibly to other cities for large events.
Please do not address me as Mistress, I dislike the term. If you must use a term Ma'am will do nicely.
I prefer my males to be manly and my females to be feminine. Though I have now learned a certain blend of female clothing on a male comfortable with themselves and their body is pleasing at times. Learning to make it work with the body given them.
And yes those are fangs you see in the photo, sterling silver and sharpenable fangs.
NO WHERE in my profile does it say I want you naked at my feet all the time.
NO WHERE does it say I want only to play and play and play and have no actually connection. You will learn basic protocols FIRST. You will learn how to communicate with me FIRST.
I AM NOT A PRO DOMME, therefore I AM NOT your personal fantasy fullfillment person. I have requirements, desires and needs. You want exactly your fantasy, find a good match or pay someone.
I am NO Man's hidden little secret, so if you are stepping out on your main relationship without their knowing I am not interested. D/s is about trust and you made your vows, the other person is trusting you to keep them. |
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I belive there has been a miscommunication in the world of D/s. I belive there was a memo sent around to submissive males stating the world revolves around them and that all Dominants need to supply everything a sub craves.
The Dominant must create the proper atmospher to make the desired mental effect happen (no matter that to set up a personal dungeon would cost alot of money).
The Dominant must provide all toys, floggers and other items dreamed up in the fantasy of the submissive, including the personal items like a butt plug for each one since that is a one person use item. (please spare no money in making this happen for the submissive)
The Dominant must be avaliable at any time that the sub might be able to have a free moment to sneak away from work or other family obligations.
The Dominant must enjoy with great enthusiasm all things that the submissive feels each kink deserves. Nothing should be taboo or off limits to a Dominant in giving a submissive what they need.
Dominants have no desires, needs or wants other then to create the fantasy in full for the submissive.
Oh wait... I see here at the bottom of the memo. This goes out to PRO Dommes that get paid well for their time to give the fantasy being created.
Submissives - lifestyle Dommes are not your personal beck and call girls. Please remeber this when you are searching and in your eagerness to share your fantasy, push away someone who might have been interested if you were not so demanding.
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Dear Submissive:
Why contact me, email, chatter back and forth on MSN and set a meet time then never show up??
Can anyone tell me why there are so many of these types around? Two out of three interviewies did not bother this weekend.
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There are many things to consider when contacting a Domme. First of all read their profile over carefully. Make sure what you are looking for and what She wants are similar in basis or things are just going to go down hill quickly.
Be clear with your intentions. Are you looking to actually eventually belong to someone as property or are you just looking for play? Are you looking to learn, and grow?? If so let them know that and what area that interests you.
Learn and know yourself and what you want to experience. You may be taking your first steps from fantasy to reality or have been part of the lifestyle for some time. No matter the experience knowing what you need and what you want from encounters are important.
Be willing to understand there may be no actual play when you first meet. There will be lots of questions and negotiations first before anything of that sort will happen. Unless you are going to a Pro Domme who is there to create your fantasy, the Domme you are talking too has their own personal wants and desires that she is going to put to the front.
Take your time. This is not a race to the finish it is a journey through life...
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What is it you consider play? Is it a simple touch and if so where? Is it a look that lingers and then continues into more? Would you be happy to just sit and be, quiet at her feet, by her side, as she continues her daily life? Do you want to be naked waiting for her to inspect your body, take it all in as if her eyes can own each part of you as her look makes you hers? If her hand reached out and touched your hair would you smile or pull away? Tell me, what do you consider Play?
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Ah so many profiles complaining that the Domme never answering back. There are many things that would help. One read the entire profile of the person you want to write to, this will help make sure you don't go spouting off about something they dislike. Two actually write more then Hi Mistress, that usually gets deleted. Three answer back the messages sent to you.
Yes I tend to hunt the younger ones then myself, if that is not your thing, just say so. So submissives also don't answer back the emails they get. That is the way life is.
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Ahhh form letters. You have got to love it when you get a general "OH Mistress you sound perfect for me please take me on" letters. You see the moment that I see the word Mistress I know they have not taken two seconds to read to get to know anything about my profile or myself in what I am looking for.
Form letters... the reason for delete buttons. |
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I wonder sometimes if wanting more then just a :fuck me spank me" submissive play toy is asking too much. Then I think to myself, hell no. I am not here to provide a playful fantasy service, I want to find the right slave for my household. I demand honour and integrity in the being of the person.
Want to have me reach over and run my fingers gently down your face. Ever so lightly caress your lips with the tips of my nails?
Earn the right then to be that dear to me! |
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Will be travelling this weekend to Montreal for the Grand Openning of the Royal Penthouse. Looking forward to meeting up with friends and making new ones. |
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Service Oriented Submissive wanted.
I travel to Montreal occasionally now and would like something pretty to display that will properly fetch drinks, keep people from knocking into me, and basically be there for my needs. |
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Just back from the Montreal International Kinky Festival long weekend. Let me just say that Montreal you sure know how to throw a party!!
This was an amazing weekend of personal growth and understanding for me as well as meeting alot of amazing new people.
It hit home for me just how much I miss the service of my Personal Service Submissive and that is something I search for primarily in a submissive that is applying to me.
It looks like travel and workshops will be something that fills my future often now.
Thank you to Lady Victoria (my second personal hero) and her gryphon for reminding me of what matters. Thank you to Slut Tammy for showing me a different side to cross dressing and making it work in a new light for me. And thank you to so many other people that just made this weekend a time of growth and reflection at the same time.
See you next year! |
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A submissive should expect to supply some of his own toys - especially insertable toys. This is just common sense.
Dominants put alot of money into fetish wear, and other supplies, to expect the same of the submissive is only fair. |
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