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The smell of leather, the increase in breath rate, slight moans, and squirms, the flutter that runs over the skin as I lightly brush over a sore spot. I am learning that I really like this dance-linking pain with sensuality, pleasure and connection.
Who I am ......
Ever evolving and learning , however there are a few constants. I am poly, friendly and approachable, flirty, enjoy pushing and getting my way (if I deem you worthy of the effort) , a touch sadistic, very compassionate, stable ,and well educated. I have many interests , and feel that a good sub is one who shares at least some of them.
Some examples...
outdoor activities (horses, hiking, things near or in the ocean, tall majestic redwood trees, taking walks), sciences, psychology, politics, animals, art, taking classes, community service, cooking, amusement parks, going to events, meditation, spirituality, mental masturbation, video games, risque movies, reading
Who I am looking for....
(1)Friends who I can be around without having to hide myself
(2)play partners- for anything more than light, casual, public play you must also fit into category (1)
(3) longer term relationships - hard to look for this , but for someone I click with and who is already both a friend and play partner it is a possibility
I get seduced by people with friendly, easy going temperaments
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PLEASE READ : Some emails I have received make me wonder what people think this lifestyle is all about. I know that definitions can be individual and tricky-so I will define them here as I see them. Welcome to my world! I would appreciate any emails from prospective subs to be from someone who has reflected on these points, and responded accordingly
What is a Dominant?
A Dom/me is not a leather clad god/dess who talks tough and puts on a show of power. A dominant is someone who receives the power, and the burden of another, and who takes responsibility for the well being of this other. The power exchange can last an hour, a day or a lifetime.
A Dominant should have his/her house in order, and have a plan for how to proceed into the future. The Dominant should be educated on issues of relationships, safety, technique, and should realize that s/he does not know everything or have all of the answers -thus leading to a lifetime of continued education and learning. We should not be afraid of being who we are , or should we be afraid to define our Dominance and style of leadership accordingly.
Leadership comes from what we have to offer to another. Those who have little to offer make poor leaders.
What is a submissive/slave?
One who wishes to unload the burden of power from themselves. Someone who wants to be cared for, and who wants to please the Dominant of their choice.
A good sub/slave is someone who values him/herself. Why would anyone want something that has no value? One who values him/herself is selective about who they wish to serve, and they are interested in learning whether that Dominant is really the right one. Please keep this in mind before you send an email offering me your complete submission.
I am not as interested in all of the things you are capable of doing unless you are truly open to putting yourself in my hands - for an hour, a day, or even a lifetime.
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