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About Ladyplume
Always searching for long-term friends and possible lovers who are creative, intelligent, articulate, geeky, and open to new experiences.
I'm a kinky, curvy, smartass, switchy woman. Yes, just another queer-friendly, pansexual, cis-gendered girl who is positive towards sex, kink, bodies, races, genders, sexual orientations, and cultural differences. Diversity is sexy!
ABOUT MY POLY SIDE: I already hold several people close to my heart ... although there's room for others. I have a longterm partner-in-crime with whom I share d/s kink, service, friendship, and love (http://daggerandplume.tumblr.com). My relationships are based on polyamory (ethical non-monogamy), and love, kindness, respect, transparency, honesty, and acting with integrity are important to me. I will not nurture a relationship with anyone who does not share these values with their partners.
Why all the 'relationship' references? Because I do not do casual ... not casual sex or casual play. I like my emotions engaged and my commitments established so we can go D-E-E-P into each other's heads and hearts and bodies.
ABOUT MY KINKY SIDE: Within my committed relationships, I love to share power exchange and kinky play with my partners. I am quite the switch, with my energy changing depending on my partner. Sometimes I hold dominant energy with topping alpha males & femme girls (and sexy folk in between). Other times, I enjoy submitting, bottoming or even switching with certain dominants who intrigue me. Occasionally, my inner girl or cat even peeks her head out.
What I love about kink is extreme sensory overload and intense power exchange. I enjoy giving (sadist) and receiving (masochist) sensations, pleasure, and even pain. Diverse, kinky things turn me on (http://thesmellofsexandleather.tumblr.com). I practice RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink).
WHERE I HANG OUT: My online friends are kinksters who I know in real life in the northern Virginia/DC/MD region. We've met through:
- local educational events (classes, munches, Black Rose)
- East coast kink conventions (Dark Odyssey, The Floating World, NDD/s Boot Camp)
- play parties and local play spaces (Kracken's Lair, BBN, Grove Lane Studios, The Crucible)
- social media that I use (Tumblr, Twitter, FetL)
- or through my friends.
I rarely accept friend requests if I haven't corresponded with you or met you personally. If you wish to be the exception, then I encourage you to send me a kick-ass message about what we might have in common besides my age/sex/location.
SOME OF THE THINGS I AM INTO: Accents & diverse world experiences, aggressive sexual dominance, alpha males, being a BBW, biting , bondage, boots, breath play, cigar play, co-topping, covert public play, daddy dominants, deep tissue bruises, duct tape, emotional maturity, face fucking, flirting, geeks, genderfuckery, hair pulling, high heels, hoods, humor, inflicting pleasure, intelligence, intense eye contact, kissing, kneeling with my head on his thigh, knives & knife play, laughing while playing, leather, leaving marks, lingerie, "Make me", massages, mummification, pearls, pervertables, pin-up girls, polyamory, power exchange, properly-warmed-up-and-escalated impact play, resistance play, rhythmic caning, riding crops, rough body play, scratching, seduction, sensory deprivation, sensual play, service-oriented submission, stomping, switching, tattoos, teasing, touching, twinsets & pearls, uniforms, writing erotica, your scent on my body.
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You may contact me here, although I rarely spend much time on CM. You will have more luck contacting me through FetL, where I am fairly active as a facilitator or participant with local (NoVA) munches and events for kinksters. In all cases, I assume that you will contact me with a polite message of introduction before I consider responding. At the minimum, please take the time to explain your interest or what we might have in common.
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Will you be there too? I'm excited to attend Dark Odyssey's Winter Fire convention in Washington, DC (http://www.darkodyssey.com/winterfire/home.html) next weekend .... If you will be there, feel free to drop me a line through the Attendee System. I'm always looking to meet new friends & find like-minded people. We can grab coffee or pursue similar interests in real life. |
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Woo Hoo! I am excited to be attending Dark Odyssey's Winter Fire convention (http://www.darkodyssey.com/winterfire/home.html) in WDC in 2 weeks ... my first foray into public kink interactions. If you will be there, feel free to drop me a line through the Attendee System. I'm always looking to meet new friends & find like-minded people. We can grab coffee or pursue similar interests in real life. |
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It's not hard to attract my attention: send me a message that shows what a creative, intelligent, fascinating person you are. Responders who have actually read my profile and can communicate mutual interests are most likely to succeed. Capture the interest of my mind, and the rest of me will happily follow. Responders who send 1-line messages, rude comments, or inappropriate pictures will be thoroughly mocked and blocked. |
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Thanks to all who have welcomed me to CollarMe. I am starting to find my place here ... settling in and making some friends. I value mental chemistry above all else, so it is a delight to find a few others who are genuinely searching for another person (rather than a fetish/kink/BDSM role) to decipher. |
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