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Female Dominant, 20, Corvallis, Oregon
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Female Submissive, 20
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Transgender Dominant, 36, Boston, Massachusetts
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About LadyoftheDarkk
I'm a tall BBW Domme who doesn't discriminate, and is looking for new friends in the lifestyle. I am a poly and have an established stable. I'm a sadist with a very heavyhand and those that serve Me must be able to handle what I can dish out. I'm also a voyeur, and love to watch things. I am into dehumanization, and love pony and puppy play, I'm into breath play, bondage, mummification, whipping, flogging, spanking, cock and ball torture, breast torture, nipple torture, clothespins, and many other things. If you want to know more, contact Me.
***Update, 7-1-06***
I've met quite a few from this site.. some have been good, some have been interesting, some have made Me cringe... one in particular has made My heart soar. he knows who he is, adn how I feel about him, and no more needs to be said. The point of this update is...
I am looking for real submissives. Not the ones who play at it when they feel like it. I am a lifestyle Domme. My pack (the group of subs that I own) serves Me and serves Me well and I am hoping to add a new dimension to it. If you are not looking for a new lifestyle, if you are not looking for submitting fully and completely, if you are just looking for some fun in the sack, if you're just looking to get off or play around, then do not reply to My profile. If you are real, not playing games, and looking for One to give yourself to that is loving, caring, and can take you to new depths of submission through pain and control, then you may reply.
And to My ones who have now come to this site to be with Me... remember that you are My loved and cherished ones and I will always be watching and protecting you. Look out for each other as you have in the past, and Oour family will continue to be strong. |
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So, I've been browsing the profiles just because I'm bored, and I have to say, I'm truly surprised at how many believe that all there is to being in a D/s relationship is sex, whips, chains and handcuffs. I don't know, I guess I'm just old fashioned, because from what I've been trained and taught, that's not the case.
BDSM stands for "Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism", which is different from a Dominant and Submissive standpoint for one very key reason... in a BDSM relationship, true control doesn't have to be given up, verses in a true D/s relationship, the submissive gives up control of all aspects of their lives to their One.
BDSM, while loads of fun, for Me doesn't hold a candle to the true Dominant aspect of a D/s relationship. While yes, I am a Sadist, that's not the best part of a D/s relationship for Me. It's the mental aspect. It's knowing that you Own someone so completely, that their very existence is unfulfilled if they're not pleasing Me. When I have a submissive who stops and thinks, "Will this please my Lady?" before doing and saying anything... THAT is when I truly reach My blissful level.
I've heard folks say all of the time, "oh, you can't handle me cause I'm a really tough submissive to crack." And to that I say "bullshit." Cause if one truly wants to submit, and they want that One they're going after, then there wouldn't be a problem with submitting, they'd just do it.
A true submissive knows a true Dominant just by the presence they exude, and doesn't challenge that Dominant's authority "just cause they're feeling bratty or frisky". So for those who think that's what being submissive is about... about trying to force a Dominant into spanking by being naughty or disobeying, or they think that a D/s relationship is all play, all day, every day, without the normal chores and responsibilities of everyday life, or if you're just looking for a way out of a situation, or looking to relocate to get out of your parent's house... don't look this way. Don't even bother clicking on My name.
I've said it once, I'll say it again. ONLY TRUE SUBMISSIVES LOOKING FOR A REAL TIME, FULL TIME, LIVE IN SITUATION NEED APPLY.
I'm not looking for anything online, I've got what I need in that department. I'm not looking to be anyone's green card, or place to crash. I want the real thing.
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So, the biggest question on all of Mine's minds is the question of whether or not one whom has been stolen from Me by a sub stealing Dom/me, or one who allows others to influence their judgement by listening to their lies about Me, could actually be considered a "good sub" or not.
The arguments that were placed out there were, "if they were actually a good sub, would they have allowed others to talk shit, or would they have defended their One to the utmost, even removing said person from their lives in their One's defense?", which is a very good argument.
If one is truly Mine they way that they're supposed to be, then there would be nothing and no one who could separate them from Me. I look at the ones who have stood by Me for a long time... like My knight who has been with Me for almost 9 years now. He's been with Me through all of the up's and downs, and would defend My honor with such ferocity that no one would be able to stand before him.
So, what does this mean for the future?... I don't know yet. But this I do know... any who attempt to be Mine better be true. 100%, if not more. I will not stand for anything less that complete loyalty and truth from them. They have to want to come to Me and be Mine, not for their own selfish wants and desires, but because they want to please Me utterly.
So, I wonder if anyone else can truly handle the challenge or not? We shall see. |
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Well, I know he big question on Eeveryone's minds is whether or not the gang bang took place... the answer is no. What actually took place was a release because the one I had was untrue and disloyal. One thing I could never understand is when one has everything he's been looking for in a Domme, why look somewhere else? I mean come on... I'm cute, sexy, I know how to work a whip and a paddle very damn well, I'm fair,I treat My subs with respect, I'm patient with newbies, and I love to smile and have fun... what moe could a submissive want?
I know that alot of submissives want cruel Dommes... I just can't do that. I've seen what can happen... I have freinds who were with cruel Dominants... I've seen what can happne when play goes wrong and that's so not Me.
Because I'm so heavyhanded, I won't even play when I'm drunk or upset... that's a standing rule I put on Myself because I know I could truly do seriuous damage to My ones, and My relationship is more than just the pain and the Dominance/submission with My ones. I could never do serious harm to one that I love, and I won't collar one unless I love them. *shrugs and sighs* it's just that simple.
Well, that's enough ranting and raving this morning... will try not to forget about this thing in the future LOL |
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I've never used this before... I'm hoping I'm putting this in the right spot...
I am currently trying to set up a gang bang for one of My boys and I'm looking for well endowed, D/D free Males in the Austin Texas Area who would enjoy getting a piece of him. He's got a great ass and mouth, and I'm looking to have him used as a cumdump for a day, maybe a weekend depending on the number of applications I receive. If you're interested, please contact Me by e-mail wih pics of face, bod, and package.
I am also looking for a few girls to enjoy him as well... must supply own strap on. |
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