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Female Switch, 19
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Female Dominant, 51, Charlotte, North Carolina
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Female Dominant, 38, Indianapolis, Indiana
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About LadyAlexIndy
Note: Only interested in nonsexual part-time service/play submissive or slave. Must be in central IN.
I am a passionate edgeplaying amateur, who delights in my partner's surrender of control, their suffering for my pleasure, and their obedience. I offer in return passionate love, strong friendship, and intelligent and thoughtful domination and leadership. I am not a Cruel Bitch: I am a Lady who has gentle Knights and Maidens to serve me with their bodies and minds. I ask only that they always behave to the honor of the house, in daily vanilla life and in the scene in general. I call them to my council table to offer wisdom and perspective for my consideration, send them forth to slay dragons and solve riddles, and bring them home again to serve in kitchen and bath and bedroom. And, of course, to suffer beautifully for my pleasure. I only desire real-time, real-life relationships from friendships to passionate romances and all the variations thereof.
To me, there is nothing better than learning, and I am often to be found with my nose in a book reading or frowning at a screen as I work on one of my books, or researching something that interests me. I love to work out recipes from tasting the finished dish, and am teaching myself Spanish just because I can. My husband and I are starting a cabinetmaking business.
I have a co-Dominant husband, a submissive boyfriend, and a live-in TPE slave girl. I always welcome conversation with my fellow dominants or those of any orientation about getting into the local scene, or how we manage the polyamory side of things.
I am looking for a service submissive to do some part-time helping with housework and yard work. I am also open to someone willing to trade work on these tasks for non-sexual play. I prefer someone within 25 miles of me, to make it easier on both of us.
Applicants must not be allergic to cats.
I do not "train" people, and definitely cannot do it over the internet. I am perfectly willing to talk about acquiring skillsets, and where and how to do it, but that is different.
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My new girlfriend is trans.
I don't love her because she's trans. I love her because she's smart and sarcastic and witty and opinionated and strong and has the most wonderful eyes and laugh, and submits with a grace that takes my breath away. I can't wait for the day that she wanders out of her bedroom with hair all frizzy and heavy-eyed, inarticulate til she's had coffee, and waves a vague good morning at me here in my house. When she sets the table and makes sharp, fun conversation over dinner, and then clears the table and does the dishes without being told. When she brushes my hair and paints my toenails, and rubs the cramp out of the arch of my foot. When we curl up on the couch watching a historical documentary together. And when I can look at her and say, "Get in my bedroom and get naked."
Now, don't get me wrong. I have a strong sex drive, and I like to fuck the people I hurt and dominate, and I'm very fond of cock. But the fact that she was a girl who happened to have a cock wasn't an element in why I found her attractive. I was entirely prepared to accept a non-sexual service relationship, and get physical with her in touches and hair combing and back rubs. I was entirely prepared to accept a relationship (hell, I could have kinked this quite happily!) in which she makes me come and doesn't get to herself. Or I could have accepted if she was stone. I love her, not what's between her legs.
But when I sank down on her hard cock and kissed her, drowning in each other's eyes, I was overwhelmed by the joy that we could have this connection, and make love tenderly with kisses and whispers of love, of how beautiful we each saw each other as, and...of course, being us, with bites that left love notes written in flesh across her breasts and shoulders. I didn't need that to love her, but oh, how sweet it is to have that, and to know going forth that I don't need to fear hurting her with my desire to have her be mine in all ways possible.
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My household is currently full. Should this change, I'll let you all know.
I do not do cyberplay of any sort with random people.
I AM open to friendship and conversation with other dominants and people looking to get into the local scene in real time.
I wish you all all the best of luck finding what you seek here! |
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Having found myself a submissive and a masochistic play partner, I'm at polysaturation. I might consider a service submissive who is interested in a non-sexual service d/s relationship, but otherwise, I'm done looking. Edit: Found her! |
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Found him! and here on Collarspace. So don't give up hope, it does happen.
Currently seeking: new play partner/friend/lover.
Must be: masochist experienced with heavy play. Must be LOCAL TO ME (within fifty miles) and willing/able to come to the play venue I use on weekends. Must be okay with polyamory and being a secondary/tertiary partner. Liberal politics and religiously tolerant.
Preferences: I like intelligent, witty people who can discuss things well. Gender isn't an issue, though men presenting male are slightly preferred. I like bi men, though if you are "straight but not narrow" that's fine too. I'd love it if the person had a foot fetish.
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I am not submitting when I have your cock in my mouth. It is between my teeth. My very sharp teeth. And if that fact hasn't occurred to you yet, it will when I very gently and and precisely and hintingly bite it, in a way that causes a man to suddenly lie very still. That's right. You're a good boy. I don't need to restrain you. Now, let's see what it takes to make you whimper....
I am not submitting when I am in missionary position underneath you. You are inside me. I can use you up for my pleasure, outlast you and look around for more. I'll stroke you with the muscles of my cunt until you give me your orgasm, and you won't get it until I let you. It's such hard work to hold back. Such a good boy to try so hard for me. Next time there will be cane welts for me to run my fingers over and press my nails into, making you gasp helplessly into my mouth as I laugh and nip at your tongue. And I'll make you come despite the pain and maybe, maybe pretty boy, maybe because of the pain.
Do not be fooled. I am not submitting. |
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What I like
I like confident people, intelligent, witty, good at what they do, and proud of their work. People who aren't ordinary, people who never stopped learning, people who understand my love of books and ideas.
I like men who are tall and broad and solid, and don't care about an extra pound or two. I like women who are strong and curved, but I love you all, short and tiny or scarred and striped with babies and living. I love long hair on all genders, but I'll take you as you come.
Cause I like small cocks to suck and the bigger ones to torture and fuck, and small hands to fist me and large hands to cup my breasts, and teeth to nip and bite, and man or woman or something else, the sight of your pupils blown with desire and your breath ragged and desperate is going to make me want to make you feel, make you open, make you yell, make you come. I want to open you up and look at the secret of your soul, wordless, and know you. I want to hurt you, see you obey me, and laugh with the joy of this dark game between us, and at the end of it all know that we part friends.
This isn't too much to ask for.
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Meeting Up
When you contact me, I'm going to tell you to meet me at a club I go to. Some people don't like it, and I'm going to address the usual reasons here.
"I don't want to do THAT. I have to be private. Can you just come over to my place?"
Dude! This is 2014, no woman in her right mind is going to go do stuff at the house of some guy she just knows from talking to him over the internet!
"I'd really just rather meet for coffee." Blame my unwillingness to meet you for coffee on other submissive men, who have consistently and repeatedly stood me up for coffee, lunch, and dinner. I am going to the club anyway; I will not miss you if you wimp out and don't show.
"This really needs to be private." Which is why you sign an agreement when you go in and aren't allowed to take in cameras or phones with cameras. We ARE private.
"I don't want to do stuff in front of a lot of people." Okay. We don't have to do anything at all on first meeting. And we can play privately in one of the rooms there. But understand, I do like public play out in the dungeon there, or with a bedroom door open, and if you want to make me more happy, that's one way to do it.
I get that it can be expensive, and I understand that. On the other hand, that $25 is a lot less than you'd pay to take me out to dinner. And you get a night of free food and drinks, free pool, get to meet interesting likeminded people...and there's a really nice dungeon and a lot of bedrooms if we like each other like that. I have to say, it's really addictive being in a space where you don't have to pretend and keep up a facade all the time. I think you'll like it too.
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