LaDiva

Searching for the seemingly impossible, the proverbial needle in the haystack, but I am starting to think that MY needle may well be in another haystack entirely!
This is my dilemma..........I seek a submissive male, AGED BETWEEN 40 -58 , for a traditional one on one devoted monogamous and loving relationship incorporating many vanilla elements but fundamentally a female led D/s relationship. So far so good, simple enough one might think....here comes the kicker, at least so it seems for this site, I have no interest in BDSM, my ideal is pure D/s, female supremacy, worship and devotion.
I love to tease, that is my take on torture, sweet torture, I believe in the need for male chastity.
I also enjoy verbal humiliation.
My style is bossy and controlling, but I am not cruel and twisted.
Are there any sweet subbies out there in cyberspace who seek D/s without the inclusion of the more extreme BDSM play etc? I really am uninterested in submitting to a subs personal needs, these DO ME subs just don't do it for me.
By that I mean cross dressers and those that get off in latex, rubber etc etc etc, as these things are not a fetish of mine, I will not indulge them. I have listed what I like, nothing else is on the menu, I am at the mild end of the scale!

SO..that's what I want, about me then.........
I am rather gorgeous, sorry but it is true, considered HOT in vanilla terms, am sexy with an hourglass figure that is very top heavy.
I am well dressed, well groomed, refined, poised and classy as well as bright, smart, confident, assertive and have a reputation for not suffering fools easily. I detest vulgarity and coarseness, I am feminine and sensual and need a partner who desires the intimacy of a sensual D/s connection as opposed to an abusive one.
We all know the ratio of Domme to sub on here and can calculate the odds of forming an online friendship, I would guess only about 1 in every 30 will elicit a response from me, let me help some of you save your time and fingers, I prefer guys who are easy on the eye and look after themselves, the same rules apply online as in the real world, attraction is the key to any connection. If you send naked pictures or pics of you engaging in your kink or fetish I will ignore you, it is offensive to be so overtly sexual to any lady, leave alone a Mistress you hope to endear and impress. Offering you respect, or lack of it, is the first impression you will make on me.