I've been involved in BDSM is some form or another for over 10 years now and after a short hiatus, I'm now looking for a sub to train. I'm kind, but firm and I believe in pushing boundries as I know people are capable of more than they think possible. I'm hoping to find someone out here soon. I know that doesn't paint a whole picture of me, but that's because I left a buch of things out. I love to laugh, to enjoy life and it's finer things. Talking with someone over coffee, looking out at the mississippi and just relaxing. I'm all about being honest and real. Without that, there is no trust ,and without trust, this does not work. Get to know me and you'll see I'm worth the effort.