B4 anyone asks, LAcouple means Lewiston/Auburn, ME. ?Not Los Angeles.

We are not really into BDSM but we dont know where else to go that might have what we want to find. ?We are VERY shy and thus could be categorized as submissive I guess but we are no slaves that is for sure.

We are SWINGERS that are full swap, we are not BDSM people or whatever its called.

If you are a couple, you both play with both of us. ?The male half must be straight or risk being eliminated from the gene pool. ?The lady should also be straight to slightly Bi-Cur. ?I do not go down on women but my man loves it.

If you are a single lady, then you should be STRAIGHT or only slightly Bi-Cur. ?I am not goin down on a lady, but my guy loves it.

If you are a single male, then just gtfo of this profile. ?We do NOT like single males seeking us out. ?We will find YOU. ?There are 50 billion of you out there and there is NO shortage of single males. ?If we need you, we'll find you on craigslist.

We just want to find some ladies/couples that are more outgoing/forward than ourselves (we're both very shy) to help get things rolling. ?We are not ones that will initiate anything, but we are more than happy to follow someones lead. ?We are not into tie us up and whip us into shape kinda stuff. ?But for couples with men, I (duh the woman side) do like rough sex ;)

So I think ideally we would like to find someone who is willing to leave the whips and chains and pain inflicting devices at home but is able to bring along their dominant personality.

We are NOT here to be treated like dirt either. ?The first person that says "Ok slave, lick the floor I walk on" will swiftly find out how fast my fist can reach your face. ?We want RESPECTFUL people, not people here to tell us we are lower than they are or whatever.

For ANYONE that we plan to meet, we do NOT play on a first meeting. ?We will meet you for dinner first, then we will go home, talk if over, and contact you again to setup another date if we feel there is any interest. ?We are extremely shy and this eliminates the added pressure for us. ?Once we've met and we are comfortable with you, then we'll be more open to your dominant personality.