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Update: I am happily involved with a wonderful Dominant, so no longer looking. I'm still open to friendships.
I'm a highly educated professional with my own business. My entire life has been one of service and responsibility to the needs of others. Control and leadership positions have been thrust upon me from a very early age.
I would like to finally be able to express the submissive tendencies that have been underlying all these years, to have an opportunity to "let go" at least for brief periods of time. I hope and suspect that D/s will be a pathway to that objective.
As some have figured out, my nickname, borboleta means butterfly in Portuguese. And no, that is not my native tongue. I've noticed a lot of variations on the subject of butterflies here and assume the common theme is breaking out of one's shell (chrysalis) into a new, brighter life. At least, that's my reason for the name.
I have interests in many areas, from all of the sciences to literature, languages, psychology, etc. Love to have fun conversations about weighty topics (politics excluded; too much drama there). Am devoted to my 5 cats and their dog (yes, the dog is theirs).
I am married, so require someone who understands the need for discretion and possible time constraints.
Feel free to send me a note if you are interested in conversation or more. I can't promise immediate response, but I will reply to any polite and reasonable notes. I am always open to making friends of any persuasion. I have met a lot of nice people here, despite what some may say, and can always use a new friend as I start upon this new road in my life.
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Best wishes of the season to everyone. In particular, I wish all a New Year full of love, health, happiness and prosperity.
I'm currently corresponding with a man who I anticipate and hope will be my new Dominant, so please consider me unavailable for anything other than friendship at this time. I'm very encouraged that this relationship may work out. |
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Well, if at first you don't succeed...
I've updated my profile once again to reflect the fact that I am once more available and looking for a Dom. |
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Sometimes when I read the words of people who write evocatively about the lifestyle and what it means to them, I feel sadness that I did not begin this journey many years ago, when life stretched out endlessly ahead of me. I'm just a little envious of those who are traveling this road at a younger age (or maybe I just envy them their youth?). On the other hand, I know that I never could have embraced this side of my personality during my teens, twenties, even thirties. I guess it took everything that has happened to me over my life to finally bring me to this place. I should not be sad that it took so long; I should be happy that it has happened at last. |
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I spent WAY too much time this weekend getting too know people on the message boards. There are a lot of good people on there, not that I'm surprised. I was raised in a pretty sheltered environment so I'm learning to look past the tattoos and piercings and even language to the real people inside. It's enlightening.
On the other hand, I had another email today from the idiot who harassed me the other day. Now he's also being insulting, so I've blocked him. I KNOW I shouldn't let vermin like him bother me, but it's easier said than done. I'll just keep thinking about the good people I've met here. |
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So, is this "Be Rude to Strangers" day? It's not on my calendar.
I've been on CM for a month. Maybe I've just been lucky to have met only decent people here, despite the complaints I've heard.
Apparently my luck has run out, because the last 24 hours has brought a number of notes from people criticizing various aspects of my profile, sending rude replies to my polite declines, and so on. WTF? Do they walk up to strangers on the street and criticize their clothing or posture?
Now I see what the complainers have been talking about. Sad.
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OK, this is the third time I'm trying to update this journal. I keep getting interrupted. The big question is whether or not it is even worth doing. Will anyone read it? Like a tree falling in the forest, if no one reads it does it really say anything?
I need to express my new protocol for handling emails on this site. I really don't have time to spend answering mail that is not relevant to me. Examples of that type of mail are:
These will be answered if it is made clear that you are looking just for friendship:
- Mail from people who live more than 50 miles from Bucks County PA looking to meet
- Mail from men much younger than 45 or much older than 60.
- Mail from subs looking for a Dom (definitely not me)
These will be deleted without comment:
- Mail containing less than a single sentence, especially from someone whose profile contains little more than that.
- Repeated mail from people whom I've already told that I'm not interested.
- Illiterate mail and profiles. Typos are one thing; repeated errors in spelling and grammar are a big turn-off.
Additionally, I have just begun a relationship with someone who I hope will be my Dom, so I'm not looking for anyone else at this time.
Thanks for reading! :-)
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This has been a really rough week at work. I am exhausted. It's all I can do to check my mail, but I haven't the strength to write. This should improve by the weekend and I'll have time to catch up on my replies. Thanks for understanding. |
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For those who expect an immediate response to their notes, please be advised:
1. I receive twenty or so notes every day.
2. I have an off-line life that occupies much of my time.
These factors result in my sometimes having only time to quickly review notes, but not formulate a suitable reply (instant replies only go so far).
All reasonably literate notes will be answered in due time.
I thought patience is one of the characteristics of a good Dom
If you haven't the patience to wait 24 hours for a reply, you are not the Dom for me.
Thank you for understanding. |
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