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| I currently live with someone, and am seeking "friends only" ... Suprise me with something non-pervy and you can expect a similar response. Perv at me and expect your message to be deleted.
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Wisdom comes from learning experiences over the years. I hate to admit my age, and hate even more that I'm starting to actually express and have a mature attitude here and there. I just feel like such a kill-joy / buzz-kill some days.
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Ah, I miss the days of youth when non-monogymy had the form of reckless lack of commitment and being with any / everyone that came across my path without sufficient regard for safe, sane, consentual...
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Once upon a while, I even had less regard for my partner's feelings than I had for my own emotional health. My life was anything but drama free, and everything was about "fun".
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Times change, as have I...
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In a healthy long-term, stable poly relationship, communication is the cornerstone, and opening up / expressing the things in each others lives freely.
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If something "might be an issue" even the remote chance, one had best discuss it up front / openly. I know I made more than just my current partner jealous before with reckless, careless behavior.
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The moral of the story: If the poly life and associated energies / learning experiences aren't helping you and your primary (your main, close partner) then it all amounts to drama, resentment and jealousy (...and helps noone involved become a better person) |
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| Age: 27 |
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