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I've been active in the scene for some years, but spent the last few out of the country, and on returning to San Francisco I've found most of my old play partners have moved on to other things, so I'm looking to meet new people to play with. I'm married, but free to play with other people. While I like to have long term play relationships, they will always be secondary to my wife and kids.
I'm a dominant sadist who prefers to play with women. I'm the author of a book on bullwhips, though in the dungeon I'm more likely to used canes. I love to bite and scratch, I'm pretty good at bondage, I have a bunch of other technical skills, but I feel these are secondary to the emotional connection between the top and the bottom. That's why I like to play repeatedly with people and form a connection - it makes the dance so much more intense if you have a regular partner.
On I'm "misterajc", and there's a shopping list of my favorite fetishes there, but clearly I'm not looking for someone who shares every single one! In fact, I can put together a good scene if someone matches two or three of them. I love to push my partners hot buttons, so I'm open to doing stuff that isn't no the list, too, if it will have a profound effect on my partner.
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