UNDER CONSIDERATION!! I am fairly new to this lifestyle but I know what I want and need. Submission and Dominance is not all about sex, its about the trust, knowing that your Dom is paying attention to all the little noises you make, your reactions to things, what you like, what your limits are and pushing them to see what is too far. I want a Dominant male who can be caring, respectful, patient and knowledgable. I am a complex, amazing, lovable, humorous woman who will try my hardest at everything I do. But, I'm only human, I make mistakes and need someone there to be understanding but firm and help me correct and learn from my mistakes. I am looking for a male between the ages of 20 and around 39. If I recieve a message, I'll look at it and possibly reply if you are respectful. I will not wear slutty clothing in public because you want me to, I have a very relaxed, comfortable style and plan on keeping it that way. Trust, Truth & Commitment My new motto for BDSM. :) What I view as the perfect D/sub relationship: I picture being submissive to a Dominant man who knows all about the lifestyle, who doesnt only care about causing pain or being served but also about the strong, trusting bond, whos intelligent, trustworthy, caring and sensual but firm and demanding when need be. someone i can be comfortable around and be myself around family and friends as well. Someone who will enjoy cuddling and being sweet just as much as being served.