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At the moment, I live in the Highlands of Scotland, but am thinking of moving to Glasgow or Edinburgh or the North of England.
Whilst I am living here, meeting will not be easy... though it is not impossible. It just needs a traveller's mindset and a fat(ish) bank account.
So, mostly, at this moment, I am looking for people to communicate with... especially those who are comfortable using Voice Messaging via Whatsapp. I've also just downloaded Kik, though I am not conversant with it yet.
Who am I looking for?
A woman who likes to be dominated, but also who likes to dominate. I want to explore both my dominant and submissive nature, my male and female side. I do not feel entirely comfortable thinking of myself as being solely a "man", even if that is what my genitals suggest. I am sensitive all over my body, and as interested in sensuality as sexuality. I don't mind receiving gentle pain, and am only interested in giving pain if it is a huge turn on for you. I am not a sadist.
I am also of "sapiosexual" persuasion... turned on by intelligent women.
I describe myself here as "bisexual", but that is not strictly true. I would say that I am more hetero-flexible, willing to play with couples, but much more turned on by women than men, in general... I do hope, one day though, that I will find a (gentle) man that will undo me. I would really like to be fucked.
I am open to exploring all sorts of things, but I draw the line at skat or non-consensual play and I am not interested in being disempowered or humiliated.
Another thing that you should know about me is that I am polyamorous... for those who don't know the term, it means that I am capable of loving more than one person... so if you are the type who needs to own or possess, I am probably not for you.
Outside of the world of kink, I am interested in many things. My biggest turn on is travel. I have spent a lot of time in India and Thailand... and whilst I was there I studied yoga, tantra, meditation, massage and healing. I could rock your world with a tantra massage, which is both sensual and healing. I am a Care Worker. I often look after people who are dying. I love photography, but am strictly a happy amateur, still using auto... but I have an eye for a picture or a composition. I am lucky enough to live in one of the most beautiful countries in the world, and so take lots of landscape photographs, but I also love to take portrait shots, and would love to meet up with exhibitionist women who want to be photographed naked or in kinky clothes (not interested in porn though, I am an explorer rather than a wanker). Occasionally I make electronic music. I sometimes write poetry, but not as often as I would like. I used to be more enthusiastic about it, and have three published poetry books to my name. I believe in "God" (but not the big, beardie fascist in the sky that the church folk believe in). I am a flexitarian (which means I am mostly vegetarian). I could teach you breathing techniques that will give you highs that are up there with sex and drugs. I am in my mid-fifties (at the time of writing this profile, Feb 2018), but I look like I am in my forties and, aside from some uncanny wisdom, behave like I am in my thirties. I still sometimes go clubbing. I occasionally like to partake of happy pills and powders, though they are no longer the driving force they used to be. I love a girl who can tell me lots of stories. I love women of all different persuasions. The only thing they need to be is interested and interesting. If "whatever" is part of your vocabulary... well, you've probably not read this far anyway.
Maybe that is enough for the now? There is more... but it is beginning to feel like I am writing a book.



DragonsLilKitten
 
 Age: 26
  New Jersey