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| It might seem strange to say this, here of all places, but I'm primarily looking for a 'vanilla' relationship but with a very big PLUS of kink.
I am 54 and relationship free. I was on IC for many years and explored my submissive and dominant sides in a number of long lasting 'extra-marital' relationships. No longer wishing to live a life of parts I would like to find a woman who I can connect with on all levels, from vanilla to D/s and back again where the boundaries are fluid. In other words I am not just interested in play but in leading a life that I know will be ultimately fulfilling.
Over the years I have been Dominant and submissive – and I think of it as truly a kind of switch – as I am wholly in one state or the other. To some extent my Dom/sub side is a reflection of who it is I connect with and I respond accordingly. However, I have come to realise that my default or comfortable position is that as one of a submissive. However, it does take a clever and intuitive woman to dominate me and so my submission is not automatic. But I know that if found my submission is profound, real and inescapable. A spiral of submission that I am unable to release myself from – a captive of my own mind – with the influence and control of another.
I have a long-standing love/hate thing with orgasm control and chastity and my only interest in pain is not for pain’s sake (I’m no masochist) but as a demonstration of power that one has over another.
I am a strong man and certainly know my own mind. I live and work in the real world and would love to find a woman to share like-minded deviant natures – albeit a Yin to a Yang!
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| Age: 56 |
| Lansing,
Michigan |
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