Krauss

 A little more about me:
What kind of information am I seeking?  Well, once long ago- I went to a houston dungeon run by Rusty Hayway.  During the day, it was run as a toy shop.  Anyway, Rusty made a suggestion that I loved for a mind game- in short he suggested I start by showing a large hunting knife and how sharp it is.  Then drip wax on my sub, after blindfolding her, and tell her I'm going to shave it off of her body with that knife.  What she couldn't see was that I was actually using the back of a butter knife.  I loved that idea, it was so simple and yet I hadn't come up with it.  So it is things like that I am looking for.  Who's Top?  We both switch, but because my wife doesn't like the play as much as I, she preferes to be on top most of the time.  I'm fine with this as long as the play is fun; however, she is afraid to go as far as I would like her to.  (She knows this, I've told her).  I would love her to make friends with someone that might make suggestions to 'push' her a little farther so my limits might be challenged.  Mostly what I'm looking for is a few friends that would like the same.  Someone to email to when things are good or bad, and someone that would like a person to listen when they need.