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ABOUT ME: We live in a world where we create an exquisite dance between shadow and light. I strive to be the maestra that combines the notes of pain and pleasure with the rhythms of timing and release in order to create a symphonic orgasmic experience in your physical, emotional, spiritual and mental being. Would you surrender your body to become my instrument?

This journey is not for the weak-minded or the faint of heart. As a Domme, I thrive on this power exchange and the sweetness of a submissive’s aching need to surrender their all to me.

I can be rather sadistic. I thrill on the act of breaking you down by controlling your body and releasing your mind to fly free - truly free; if only for brief periods in time. My inner Tigress feeds on whimpers of pain and physical suffering coupled with soft coos of delight found at pleasure's edge.

Ultimately, there is a sacredness in the reciprocity that occurs between a Dominant and a submissive that defies description and goes well beyond what my words could ever even begin to capture.

COMMUNITY: I have been fortunate enough to have some very remarkable people in my life that I look to as examples of how I would like to carry myself in this lifestyle. They are wonderful teachers and mentors and I know I still have much to learn from them. They are a support system that goes beyond measure and I am deeply grateful to have each and every one of them in my life. What a glorious, special group of people!

WHAT I AM SEEKING: What follows are some thoughts on things I am looking for and things that are deal-breakers and hold no appeal for me. Some things are still in the lab and being tested and figured out.

If you are a submissive male and there is something in my profile that piques your interest, I am traditional enough to expect that as a male you will do the courting. Yes, I am a bit traditional and old-fashioned in that regard.

I do like to think that I am friendly, open and approachable; yet sometimes my introversion can be mistaken for disinterest. Please, if you are interested take the time to seek me out and draw me into conversation with you.

The following thoughts are put forth as a result of having received correspondence seeking engagement. Please do not waste my time or yours petitioning my attention if you are seeking any of the following:

I am not interested in an online relationship. I'm seeking something in real life only.

I am not interested in sissy boys or forced feminization. Sorry - that is just not my kink.

I am not interested in adult babies - again, no judgement, just not my kink.

Some things that are important to me:

I am active in the local community and do much of my socializing in the lifestyle, so I am interested in meeting someone that enjoys going to lifestyle events.

I am very interested in exploring TPE; this is about the whole package for me - not just the kinky sex.

I am definitely more attracted to the alpha male that would be submissive only to me. To the outside world his submission would appear as his being chivalrous and old-fashioned in the way he takes care of, caters to and defers to me. Yet he and I would be crystal clear about the underlying dynamic.

For those that are interested in the origin of the screen name:

The koru is the Māori name given to the new unfurling fern frond and symbolizes new life, growth, strength and peace. It is an integral symbol in Māori art, carving and tattoos. The circular shape of the Koru helps to convey the idea of perpetual movement while the inner coil suggests a return to the point of origin.

WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

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6/12/2012 4:13:07 PM

TONIGHT!

 

Fem Dom Night at the Tampa Bay Phoenix Club

 

Apologies for the late notice, but if you're looking for an opportunity to get out and about join us tonight at the Tampa Bay Phoenix Club:  12850 91St. North, Largo, FL. 33773

 

Mistress Spider will be speaking on Sensual Seduction with open play after that.

 

The club will be open until midnight

 

If you have access to , here's a link to the event:

 

https://.com/events/108907/v2

 

~Koru

 


1/8/2010 2:18:32 PM

Exploring Opportunities with Discernment

Lots of opportunities to try different things are offered up to each and every one of us on a daily basis.  It can sometimes be challenging for me to be critical and selective; to choose wisely those that really have something of significant value to offer.

The BDSM creed of "Safe, Sane and Consensua"l goes a long way in helping to sort the wheat from the chaff.  Yet, a healthy curiousity, discernment and wisdom are also important components for me as I seek out new and different experiences in a  healthy and happy way.

I've seen my share of the pitfalls of bad choices.  I hope that in 2010 I learn to make better choices as I continue along in this journey.

~koru


1/3/2010 11:11:41 AM
Last night I attended the DAMM and sun meeting at the Phoenix Club.  It was followed by Sir Richard's whip class. 

Having a fascination with whips, I'd recently decided I'd like to try one out sometime - you know, just to see how it feels to wield something so incredibly powerful.  So, as the meeting broke up, Sir Richard started playing with a couple of new whips that he just got.  Long, bullwhip-type whips made with a new type of fiber that has incredible tensile strength. 

I asked if I could give one a try.  Sir Richard was very patient in instructing me on what to do - and I think it was my second or third stroke I actually got a very nice resounding CRACK!  The little girl inside me was giggling and jumping up and down inside with an "I did it, I actually did it!" euphoria.  On the outside, I had to play it a little cooler than that, though.  It would be very unseemly to be holding a whip and squealing like a little girl.  Surreal, even.  So, I maintained a bit of my composure. 

We moved on and talked about the mechanics of the whip, the fall and the cracker.  Then we moved on to the snake whips, smaller and from what I understand a little easier to control and gain precision with; especially in smaller confines like a dungeon.

I played around a little with a snake whip while Sir Martell watched over me as Sir Richard was becoming busy with another student.  We went off to the corner to practice.  Sir Martell brought out his different whips and let me have a go with his bullwhip - I think it is a 6 or 8 footer.  Well, CRACK, CRACK, CRACK......and I was addicted!  (Yes, kids, CRACK is addictive.)  I began to fantasize about a former lifetime as a Calamity Jane-type. 

At the end of the class, Sir Martell suggested I borrow his bullwhip for a month to practice with and just see how I do.  

So, I'll be off to Home Depot to buy some fashionable protective eyewear (read goggles) so that I can feed my addiction. 


12/31/2009 3:49:08 PM
Heading over to Tampa Bay Phoenix Club to bring in the new year with fellow kinksters.  I'm sure 2010 is going to be a really GREAT year!

Be safe, and best wishes to everyone for an exceptionally Happy New Year!

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MISTRESSUE
 
 Age: 35
 Ontario, Canada