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Here below is the latest realisation of the actuality of this site ... or rather the bulk of (people ??) that dwell here ...
This sub has today kindly given me permission to reproduce in full her perspective ...
Primarily fantasists in my experience.
Many desire to "discuss" BDSM..in intimate detail given the opportunity..yet when it comes to the reality of actually meeting and proving themselves even to be human or of the gender they proclaim, then they vanish like the rainbow when you chase it. |
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I've just found a sub who thinks exactly as I do here ! ...
There really is not point in putting on a journal or profile all the nuances of a person. people complain about fakers, wanna bees and players and yet some profiles are chuck full of useful information that any one can use to play with another s emotions. my thought, keep it simple, allow the person making contact to search for what they want and explore the possibilities. only then are the unwanted discouraged or exposed. Just a thought |
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a sub has just sent me this ...
"I don't have the foggiest who you are though ... The danger of sites such as these is that people can portray themselves however they like. And often I have found on this site in particular, they do so!"
hence my profile is not that misleading I hope?
but this sub knows how to find out much more about me ... perhaps ... because ... as I know ... she is real too :)
I wish all subs here were just the same ... in their honesty ...
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I recently came across a new term here ..."flirty banter" ... very useful .. perhaps it should be added to the profiles of those that are here merely seeking that ? :) .. so more serious people don't waste their time! |
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The true submissive doesn't need to play silly games with me here ... she just has to be ... who she really is ... fortunately there are a few here ... who are really ... who they are ! and they know who I am too ... that is so wonderful but so very rare ... |
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Recently some subs seem to be very annoyed if I don't play with them here ... as they wish! ... if I don't talk with them here ... as they wish!
Ah yes, they want to be humiliated .. but not too much! ... I need to be strict ... but not too much ... I need to see their needs ... but not make it quite so clear to them that I already know them !
Otherwise they are not pleased! So who is supposed to have the need to please I wonder ... in these dialogues ?
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Well a sub has just written to me wondering how can I possibly be expert in all my loves/likes etc?
To which I reply that someone can only become expert in those things that they enjoy immensely ... and then doing them a lot .. over many years ...
So I still enjoy them even now! |
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There has been a lot of discussion about dress code .... which of course should be decided by me.
However a lot of subs keep trying to pursuade me how much better things would be if they were wearing a corset and high heels ..
This is because the subs gain a higher level of sexual awareness, so they are really trying to satisfy their own desires (as I know they covertly admit).
So I reiterate, corsets and high heels have their place according to the activities in progress ... but they are not ideal as a universal dress code .... sorry subs/slaves!! |
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Have found some really interesting minds to explore ... genuine .... absolutely no doubt at all ... it's wonderful to go in there and find out everything ... is really just what I love .... |
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I keep getting drawn into existing M/s D/s problems, where my advice is requested. Here there is little I can do, as I can only really be an observer in such matters. Sometimes this upsets subs I know, but it's not my role here to sort out such affairs. If the Dom is either lacking in training experience or obviously dishonest then the sub finds the relationship unsatisfactory. In this situation there is little I can do directly and the sub must take her own decisions in such matters. |
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Everyone is now demanding photos from me, without even writing anything else! Well I'm not here for people's photo albums: I have pictures, but only for those that show a genuine interest. |
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well a sub has written to me saying she thinks I am trying to build a harem here in my home ... but I would have enough responsibility in training one slave ... why would I want another and how would she feel about it ... so it's nonsense of course ! |
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whoops I called someone here a sub ... when she was really a slave! she didn't like that at all!
so for some here it really means a lot, but for others they can't see much difference ... and some have even argued with me about it (see earlier entry) |
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This evening a sub was confused about my profile ... and the term "friends only" .... did I have a sub/slave vacancy then or not?
So let me clarify this point .... at the moment I seek a sub/slave for up to 24/7 service ...
but I'm also prepared to talk with others who are only seeking friendship! |
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well this evening I received this comment from a sub ...
i have to say i don't believe in the existence of slaves, i think that's just someone's way i've trying to say they submit at a deeper level. But surely you either submit or you don't, otherwise it's just playing, ie...i will submit to this but hmmm i don't really want to submit to that, what would be the point. .........................
so what do all the "slaves" here think of that??
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After talking with a sub here about my home and all the bdsm equipment in it ... I was asked if I was a Professional Dom!
So I had to explain that it was purely for pleasure and that my bdsm gear had been acquired over many years ....
So hope that's clear to everyone now! |
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