I have had some great conversations on CM (plus a few BS conversations as well). A delightfully devilish sadist recently observed that most submissives cannot tolerate the pain she delights in dishing out. It is true that most submissives can't handle pain. I believe this is because most submissives are not turned on by pain, but instead by humiliation or obedience or something similar. Since I receive no particular pleasure from submission in that way, I can only observe and may I have it wrong. On the other hand, since my fetish is pain, I am best matched with a woman who derives pleasure from giving pain. I am on CM to find that woman and I am willing to offer my body as a canvas to a skilled sadist. |