I'm a lesbian.  So what?  In the kink community, how is that considered to be so strange?  I've been active online and now in my local area and I still can't find a compatible woman.  Am I looking in the wrong places?  Am I so outnumbered that I should throw in the towel altogether?  Granted, the vanilla scene for lesbians around here isn't great either, but it's got to be better than spending a year single, trying to find that kinky element that's been missing.  Sure I've had play partners, but for me play doesn't always equal sex or a relationship.  I'm really hoping to get to the next level someday, but tonight it seems as though the odds are against me.  Still, here's hoping that my luck is about to change...