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About kermudgeon
Honesty Trust Obedience Respect
Hello! I go by Kerm. I have always been a Dominant.I became aware of my nature and the desires that feed it over 25 years ago. Reading brought about my enlightenment. I identified with the fictional writings of Anne Rice, The Secretary, and the Story of O for inspiration in recognizing that dominance of a good girl is an act of passion and love. I have experience binding, spanking, flogging, and controlling my sexual partners.
I am interested in finding a girl to practice Shibari binding techniques, spanking, flogging, obedience, compassion and happiness.
Hello! I go by Kerm.
I have always been a Dominant.I became aware of my nature and the desires that feed it over 25 years ago. Reading brought about my enlightenment. I identified with the fictional writings of Anne Rice, The Secretary, and the Story of O for inspiration in recognizing that dominance of a good girl is an act of passion and love. I have experience binding, spanking, flogging, and controlling my sexual partners.
I also feel that there is a difference between punishment and correction. I believe that a correction is required because it is my greatest desire for my girl to be perfect and realize her potential at my hand. I keep in mind that perfection does not require more than the girl can give. I see perfection like finding the sculpture in the marble block. The marble is not perfectly white or of homogeneous density. It takes listening to the stone and feeling how the shapes reveal themselves to the artisan in order for the marble to reveal the prefect .
When correcting I follow a hands-on experience. Working with the girl. talking about hopes and dreams, working thoughtfully though trauma and avoidance, and providing a safe place for her all coming together to nurture her need to serve.
Punishment is the absence of my interest or presence. She should not want to be punished to get my attention. She should want to be good and obedient because she HAS my attention. I want my girl to know that pain is to heighten her experience. Mixing that with wanting her to avoid my hand is a conflict of interest. With my bare hand and to show my interest and attention to derive pleasure.
Lastly, communicate, communicate, communicate, openly and honestly.
I am interested in binding techniques, spanking, flogging, whips, obedience, and being a part of the BDSM community. |
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