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Undergoing chemo and radiation therapy isn't too terribly much fun. Although in a short while I should have the "Bruce Willis" hairstyle down pat! I'm going to miss my mustache the most .

Miscellaneous ramblings - - or topics for further discussion

I often teach seminars to physicians and hospital engineers. The first question that I try to answer, for everyone in the seminar, is ?WIMF?. What?s In it For Me, why am I sitting in this room, why did I spend the money to come here, why am I spending my time here?What?s in it for me? The success I have in answering these initial questions will determine whether I can successfully continue the seminar as well as motivate the attendees to learn.

Well, developing a ?relationship? is a lot like teaching a seminar. Each party initially comes into the ?meet and greet? phase with the question of ?MIFM? and depending on how well this is answered, the decision is then made on whether to continue further. It?s probably hard for a submissive and/or slave to realize the amount of physical, mental, creative and emotional effort that a dominant expends on making relationship work. So remember you need to answer this question satisfactorily for me also.

I have to laugh when I read where someone writes ?I?ll let you do anything you want, I have no limits, it?s not for me to tell you what to do? or some such statement. Not only isn?t their brain engaged and running, but now not only do I have to think for myself ? I?m being expected to think for them also. I realize that one of the first principles of the ?healthcare community? that I adhere to is, ?do no harm?. Yet I hate to hear anyone voluntarily abrogating their potential wellbeing to the whim of someone else, outside of a ?healthcare scenario?.