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Karbear55

Karbear55

A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out." Walter Winchell If you don't want to take the time to read my profile, please don't take the time to write to me. At present I am just living each day as it comes. I would love to have a D/s relationship, but am in no hurry to make a mistake. I need the right one and so am playing life by ear until that comes along. I am a BBW in a wheelchair. I have been in this lifestyle many years. I love all my friends here dearly. I am married to a terrific man. We are both submissives which is strange to some but works for us. I have learned that to be a submissive, I don't have to be a doormat. It is the strength inside of oneself that makes a submissive a good submissive. Being someone's doormat only ends in abuse and self deprivation. Dominants and submissives are people. They all have faults and failures. A true Dominant or submissive learns from experience and has respect for the other side of their kink. Without the one, there can't be the other. They are honest, trustworthy and open. They talk and resolve issues as they arise, don't push them to the back of the closet. Once that trust is broken, it's very hard to reestablish. Lying is a deal breaker for me. Deception and omission is the same as lying. I never do that and don't tolerate it. I am looking for an experienced and sincere Dominant. I first of all am not a slave by any means. I am very independent and head strong. I have been the head of my own house for many years. I have been in this lifestyle for 12 years and know many people and have made many wonderful friends. From all sides, I most resemble a bottom/masochist more than anything. I have many sides to me though. I can be strong, funny, happy, sad, confident and then again not so confident. I love hard and with all that is in me. I need a strong Dominant who can be strict, but can see when I need to cry, or vent. Someone who cares more about me than themselves. Because, believe me when I say, if I love you, you come first. I will please you, but at times, because I am human, I am sure to displease you. This isn't intentional, it is just a fact of life. Pull my hair and I instantly melt backwards into your arms. Come from behind and kiss my neck and nibble and bite and suddenly a submissive woman is laying in your arms and yours to command. Run a blade down my body and I shiver in ecstasy. Whisper what you want from me and I will melt to your will. I adore floggers, canes, crops, nipple torture, clit torture, whips, quirts and the list goes on. The crack of a whip sends shivers down my spine and brings a smile of expectancy to my face. I will growl and buck, lift my hips towards your lashes, begging for more until finally I melt into a heap done and happy, I never love halfway or lightly. When I love, I love wholeheartedly with all of my being. Never give your heart away to someone who won't take care of it.