Karada

I had started a long post about the nature of the dom/sub relationship, then abandoned it; the whole thing reeked of needless pretention. Allow me instead to distill myself to basic facts, for your reading pleasure..

: What I am :

Male. Dominant. Adoring of the subs under my control.

: What I am not :

Evil. Cruel. A Sadist. Seeking to restructure a woman's life to suit my own particular needs.

: What I like :

Ropes; particularly japanese-style bondage (hence the ID; `karada` is the name for a certain kind of body harness). Belts, when warranted. Wax. Blades, but only under certain limited circumstances, as a tool to heighten sensation - not to harm someone.

: What I hate :

Pretention (see reason for redacting original post). Drama. Deep psychological issues that no amount of therapy can fix. The need to humiliate yourself. The need to suffer in order to feel loved. Leave that stuff at home.

: The ideal partner :

A woman who enjoys giving up control to someone she trusts. A solid submissive, ready and willing to please, and to be pleased in turn. Someone strong and independant, who can still be made to kneel, if given the right touch by the right person.

If you're still reading, I congratulate you.

I am a single male - no relationship ties, no missing partner, no estranged spouse. My psyche is mine alone - no repressed memories, no other lives, no religious fixations, no childhood abuse, nada. None of it.

I am exactly what I advertise to be; a dominant male in search of a playful, submissive partner. I would love to get to know you long before we take things to a physical level; how am I to control you if I don't know you at all...? (sure, the ropes /help/, but our games are 99% mental; the ropes are a style, a medium, a personal affectation. They alone are not sufficient.)

I am experienced and confident in what I do. If you are the same, perhaps we can find a mutually beneficial relationship together..