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About Kaitykat
I am a collared submissive in service, looking for (reasonably) local submissives willing to be members of a "pride." While complete commitment is a requirement of my Dominant, exclusive or full-time commitment is not. Experience is acceptable yet unnecessary; my Dominant has spent over 30 years in this lifestyle and training is something we enjoy doing.
Although I have listed a number of athletic activities as "likes" I am frequently not able to participate in them because I suffer from lupus and fibromyalgia. I do them when I can; I just can't do them very often. I am not in need of a full-time caregiver although sometimes having one available would be a Godsend.
My Dominant and I are the ministers of a polytheistic worship circle -- I don't like to use the word "Pagan" if I can avoid it as we welcome and value all faiths. We feel that which path you use to seek the truth is not as important as that you choose some path. We are very interested in exploring how BDSM can, and does, affect one's growth as a person and as an enlightened being. We both enjoy and welcome discussion on this topic. |
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And how things do change in several months . . .
After 2 years of first intermittent and then nonexistent Internet access, I am finally back in the computer world and plan to be active here once again.
I was graced with a lovely daughter on April 13, 2009, and Lord Draqo has indeed been a wonderful father to her -- he voluntarily changes poopy diapers, even if I'm right there and can do it myself. The man is a pearl beyond price and I love him with all my heart & soul.
We're still looking for submissives to add to the pride -- they need not be full-time, or even lifestyle. Just a couple of willing subbies to take the load off of me, as it were, when I'm having bad days. |
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Heavens to Murgatroyd, how things do change in a few months!
My Dominant and I are still looking for submissives to add to his "pride" (what can I say? he's a man of large appetites) . . . though that kind of went on the back burner at the beginning of September when we were given the wonderful news that after 6 months of trying, I am pregnant. Although Lord Draqo was told many years ago that he could not sire children and I had perforce to look elsewhere to manage it, he has been wonderfully supportive and has decided that no matter who the sire of my child is, he will be the father ("father" being a social and legal term, rather than a biological one).
Unfortunately, my mother (with whom I was living) did not share our joy and gave me 48 hours to move all of my possessions out of the house . . . I am now living on the charity of friends (Lord Draqo's own living situation being such that he simply isn't able to have me move in with him and his wife) and sometimes weeks go by that I can't get Internet access even to check my regular e-mail, let alone log onto this site. *pouts*
But it looks like things will be getting better soon; the best news is that my lupus has gone into remission as a result of the pregnancy and it may stay that way for a while -- meaning that I may soon be able to get a job!!! *grins* |
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To quote the immortal Jerry Lee Lewis: Goodness gracious, great balls of fire! A couple of weeks ago I was approached by a guy claiming to be a dominant, who suggested that even though my Dominant and I are looking for additional (female) submissives, he & I ought to hook up -- and that, in his words, "what (your Dominant) doesn't know won't hurt." What an idiot!! This yobbo claims to be a dominant, yet he apparently has no clue about the concept of trust that is the bedrock of a D/s relationship. It's a good thing that the Code Duello is so far out of fashion, because if it wasn't Lord Draqo (my Dominant) would have called this guy out without a second thought. (He used to belong to the Society for Creative Anachronism.) A remark like that proved to me, beyond the shadow of a doubt, that although Lord Draqo gives me permission to explore relationships with other Dominants, this Perrier parasite is someone I have absolutely no interest in exploring anything with. I mean . . . if he encourages me to do stuff behind my Dominant's back, how can I trust him to honor my safeword if I have to use it? On the other hand, here on this site I've been contacted by a Dominant up North, and he has been extremely polite; he agreed wholeheartedly to my request that Lord Draqo check out his profile and/or post a message to him, for safety's sake, and now I have Lord Draqo's gladly-given permission to interact with him in any way I wish. So things balance out . . . as they will tend to do. |
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I've been on this site a week and I've already fielded a couple of curve balls. I'm not entirely certain why Dominants keep checking out my profile, because I did say that I'm collared and seeking additional female submissives for my Dominant . . . *shrugs* Oh, well. At my age, I suppose I ought to feel flattered that so many are at least interested enough to take a look. |
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