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Pan Female Switch, 38,  Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
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UPDATE 9/14/2010: I am no longer looking.

Yes, I'm a Switch. I've lived as a submissive for many years, however I'm looking to explore and nurture my Dominant nature.

I'm looking for someone that will learn and explore with me--someone to journey with.

I am the sort that lives with no regrets, so I move on and take with me the important aspects that make me who I am today.

I'm also easy-going. I certainly don't expect for anyone to bow at my feet, worship my boots or buy me gifts before I even get to know the person. However, if you are so compelled to give me something, I do love cheesecake!

I'm not looking for a fuck buddy. We all have one or two of those, right? I want to meet someone who is interested in getting to know ME and has a true heart for the lifestyle.

I'm also not looking for a lifetime commitment. If it happens, that's great. If it doesn't, at least we've each made a new friend.

I love to laugh, so expect humor from me on a regular basis. I do also know when it's time to be serious.

Still reading? Still interested? Send me a message and start getting to know me!










Last Online:


 Female Switch

 Oklahoma City 


 5' 2"






Actively Seeking:

Friends Only


 Art Galleries

 Coffee Shops

 Going to the Opera



 Musical Theater

 Renaissance Faires



 Body Worship




 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Being Massaged


 Hair Pulling

 Knife Play


 Mental Bondage


 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control




 Theatrical Scenes


 Wax Play


 Online RPGs

 Puzzle Games

 Role Playing Games

 Alternative Medicine








 Lifestyle BDSM

 Old Guard


 Alternative Music

 Eighties Music



 Rock Music



 Anal Play

 Breast Play


 Local BDSM Community

 Public Exhibition


 Role Playing

 Sensory Deprivation

 Speech Restrictions


 Arcade Games

 Board Games

 Card Games


 Historical Shows

 Horror Movies


 Science Fiction


 True Crime

 TV News

 Web Surfing


 Body Art

 Cross Stitch



 Blue Grass


 Classical Music

 Electronica / EDM

 EMO Music


 Heavy Metal Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Industrial Music


 New Age Music

 New Wave

 Nineties Music

 Opera Music

 Pop Music

 Punk Rock Music


 Seventies Music


 Bar Hopping

 Corner Time



 Comedy Shows


 TV Sports

 Country Music



 Show Tunes

 Curious About:

 Cane / Crop Discipline

 Electrical Play

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Fire Play

 Gas Masks

 Needle Play

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Suspension Bondage




 Candle Making



 Soap Making




 Housework Service

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Online Chatrooms

 Romance Novels



 Hard Limits:




 Humiliation / Degradation


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Journal Entries:
10/7/2010 5:35:54 PM

"Here come real stars to fill up the upper skies,
And here on earth come emulating flies,
That though they never equal starts in size,
(And they were never really stars at heart)
Achieve at times a very star-like start.
Only, of course, they can't sustain the part."

Robert Frost

I feel like this describes my definition of a Switch. A Switch is a person that is either Dominant or submissive at heart, but is able to do the opposite when the mood strikes them. They cannot LIVE as the opposite, but while they are doing such, they are able to please their significant others.

Switching is not a curse. A Switch is not a failure. The ability to Switch is a gift that not everyone possesses.


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