Not interested in men who can be my Father/Grandfather. I absolutely do not have "Daddy issues". I also was not abused as a child.
(if you are over the age of 60, you will go to my bulk mail folder.)
Absolutely NO women. I'm not interested in YOU.
ALSO, NO MALE SWITCHES OR MALE SUBMISSIVES.
(Yes, The pictures are me, I have no reason to lie about myself or what I look like. Why the hell would I need too?)
Hi! I'd like to introduce myself now if you are still reading.
My name is Kai.
I'm 33 years old.
I'm a Cancer.
I have been in the lifestyle since I was 14.
I am a teacher/dance instructor/ RN
I teach special education.
I'm interested in a man who is confident in himself, someone who is strict but yet caring, Someone who can have a vanilla life outside of the home, someone who is financially stable ( not willing to support a man). Someone who has a sense of humor, compassionate, trustworthy, etc.
I was married, I am now a widow, I have been a widow since 2006. My husband died while protecting our country...
Yes, it was a D/s Marriage.. you may see rings on my fingers in my pictures but please note i am a widow.
If you are not interested in an LTR leading to marriage, please do not message me.
If you have been committed to a psychiatric hospital for suicidal thoughts, bipolar disorder or schizophrenia.. please do not contact me.
My limits are as follows, they will not be pushed at any point:
- CHILDREN
- ANIMALS
- SCAT
- NEEDLES
- ANYTHING ILLEGAL.
- ANYTHING CAUSING BODY HARM.
- SOMETHING THAT INVOLVES ME BEING HURT AND HOSPITALIZED.
My Perfect Dominant
- Someone who is funny and outgoing
- Someone who has a great personality
- Loves the simple things in life
- Someone who is strict but yet firm
- has a sense of humor
- Someone who would rather cuddle on the couch rather than going out somewhere
- Someone who knows what they want out of life.
- Someone who can be independent.
Hobbies:
- Cooking'
- Crocheting
- Dance
- Drawing
- Gaming (Tabletop, Computer, Console)
- Inline Skating
- Lego Building
- Painting
- Pingpong
- Reading
- Scrapbooking
- Sewing
- Singing
- Yoga
- Bungee Jumping
- Back packing
- Basketball
- football
- softball
- volleyball
- Camping
- Canoeing
- Hiking
- Jogging
- Geocaching
- Kayaking'
- Metal Detecting
- Mountain Biking
- Photography
- Mountain Climbing
- Skiing
- 'Skydiving
- Surfing
- Swimming
- Bowling
- Pool
- Gymnastics
- Airsoft
- Archery
- Horseback riding
- Baseball
- Paintball
- Racquetball
- Table Tennis
- Target shooting
- People Watching
- Travel.
I have been in the lifestyle for manyyears, and this is not my first go around on CM. I've been here before but I close my profile because I am disgusted with the flakes, fakers, and just complete idiots.
If you are going to send me a copyand paste message you might get a smart ass response.. or I may not respond at all. Write something original fools!
if you wanna get to know me more, please message me. I don't bite I promise. :)
I look forward to getting to know you.
