JustYESMistress

10/29 OK UPDATE:
I am not interested in cam, online, over the phone chat sessions. READ THE PROFILE BELOW THEN IF YOU FIT MY NEEDS AND YOUR NEEDS Then feel free to contact. Please don't waste my or your time. thanks.

First, move on if you're looking for a love/sex relationship. I am happily married and not looking for 'Mr. Right' I got him!!! I am not here for tribute or gifts of a monetary nature. I am not here for SEX!!! I am not here to yank anyone's chain so don't yank mine!!! I am in control of those who wish to be controlled. I love to play, mostly in public arenas, and I love to satisfy masochistic needs and wants. I love studying the human responses from what I can inflict. I love the power of play and where it can take the right subject. I have been in the lifestyle for about 13 or more years. I have played in public that long also. So let's just move onto what I am looking for so follow me down a little further and read and if it is something you are interested in then, who I am will become evident if you are worthy.

I am looking for both/either a boy and/or a girl who are interested in the possibility of becoming an object in future play parties, conventions, dungeon parties, and hopefully (if the chemistry is there) competitions. What I mean by becoming an object is I am looking for someone who wants to feel submission and be submissive (when the times arise) I am not looking to Fu** you in the arse with a strap-on, I am not looking to make you sissy (though in the future that may interest me with the right submissive at some point and time but not right now) I am not looking to have sex with you or have a sexual relationship with you. It will be strictly BDSM and friendship. I am looking for someone to WANT and NEED to explore their submissiveness and let me be the one to work on it with them. I am looking for public play so if you are shy of the public but want to try that is fine! But if you are afraid of being seen and not wanting to be then, I don't need you, sorry. I need someone who is somewhat young (24 to 35), in good health and in decent shape, disease free (not saying sex will be involved but fluids could be), and can fund his or her own way. I will play with you but I will not pay for you. I need someone who can travel on occasions. I am needing someone who is serious in being trained and who is trainable. I am needing a patient subject because there are some new things I will want to try on them as well as touching up on some skills I have been unable to do for a while. I need someone who will be mine when they are with me but when they are not can handle being their own person (I may give a task or mission while you are not with me but I will not expect constant contact and you have to be cool with that...some are and some need it) I cannot do that at this point so I need someone who can handle living their own life and sliding in time for me one or two times a week. I need an intelligent person that can talk of more than just BDSM; they would be my friend as well as my subject. If I turn you down please do not take offence, you just may not be what I need and that does not make you a lesser person, I just have an idea of what I am looking for and hope I can find it here. More details in private conversation if I contact you back then you are welcome to turn me down also.