justtakesone


justttlooking Male Dominant, 35	Justthe2ofusin Dominant Couple, 47, Lothian, Maryland	Justthe2ofusnu Dominant Couple, 51, morristown, New Jersey

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	About justtakesone I have an active and full life outside of my kink interests. I'm interested in spending time with a woman I can relate to both in and out of the bedroom. Please note that although I am naturally submissive, it doesn't just happen because you are a woman. The same elements of attraction and chemistry that exist in all relationships are also necessary here. I also do not feel the need to go into great detail about my kinks in this introduction; rest assured I am very open-minded and would enjoy exploring whatever turns you on. Lastly, I do not have public pictures as I am a local professional and cautious, however I do have pictures I can send for the right person. Hope to hear from you!

Admittedly, I am still learning about the difference between the reality of BDSM and the fantasy. I have these intense, emotional, and complete submissive fantasies, but I am thinking in reality BDSM may often miss this mark, just as so many conventional relationships miss deep connectedness. Does that mean we should give up? A wise person recently said to me that BDSM relationships are like any other. To me that means a deep connection between a dominant woman and submissive male such as myself is possible, but that it takes the same amount of work as any relationship. I feel like I am ready to give my best to a strong woman, to be emotionally available, to have mutual respect, to enjoy each other, and to let my natural submissiveness fit together with her natural dominance. Ok enough for now ;)

I was thinking today how few dominant woman there are relative to submissive men, and how that makes each dominant woman that much more sought after. So in some ways, even though he would give anything and do anything to be close to her, it is hard for him to gain the attention of the kind of woman who expects and deserves this from men. But rather than forget all this and go the easy route, I find myself just wanting to submit even more, to go farther in my adoration, and in general to work harder for her pleasure and joy. I have to believe that someday if I am patient there will be a use for me.

I was just thinking how being submissive drives away vanilla women and have to wonder if they have been brainwashed not to be served by men or something. It seems like it is the most natural thing in the world for me to do what a woman tells me ... and hard to understand why a woman wouldn't like that. Must be cultural brainwashing. Has to be ;) The revolution will not be televised!

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