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	everything in red i figured was something of importance I'M A SHY FEMALE NEW TO IT ALL BUT BEEN INTERESTED FOR A SHORT WHILE. I WILL NOT POST MY PICTURE BUT IF I GET COMFORTABLE ENOUGH WITH U IF I CHOOSE TO MEET WITH SOMEONE FROM HERE I WILL SEND U A PHOTO.I'm VERY SWEET, VERY BASHFUL , 22 YEARS OLD WITH A PLAYFUL SIDE. i understand that my profile will be under suspecion because i do not have a picture.... assume what you may like i can not hold nothing against anyone for their opion... but still i remain standing on my judgement....no picture will be given at this time... im new and i am unsure of myself in this beautiful strange world, i am at a time in my life where i am looking for my place.... i am young and i can be naive and this i know for sure... i will not let someone misuse me because of my lack of knowledge and my ignorance.... i have found a liking for small vanilla pains because of that i find myself here waiting to have someone gently introduce me to this life that my young, growing, unsure mind is convinced it needs... ILL BE AS OPEN AS POSSIBLE JUST FEEL FREE TO ASK ME QUESTIONS... IM LOOKING TO TRY ALL SORTS OF THINGS CAUSE I REALLY DONT HAVE AN IDEA AS TO WHAT ALL MAKES ME TICK... I AM WILLING TO PUT MYSELF OUT THERE FOR THE MOMENT AND FIND WHAT EXCITES ME. CAUSE I REALLY DONT HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS CAUSE THERE ARE SO MANY THINGS THAT I WANT TO DO AND TRY. AS OF TO DAY I GUESS YOU COULD SAY THAT THIS IS THE VERY START OF NEW ADVENTURE... ~~~~~ more will be added as i make my little discovieries~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~i have no experience in this lifestyle~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ for those who do not understand my hesitation.... i have literally just fallen off the vanilla band wagon...a lifestyle of this sort would be frowned on in my family and i do not wish to include my family in on my sex life regaurdless of how erotic it is i wish to maintain my privacy... i am very much wet behind the ears and i am unsure of what i am expecting to find out about myself... but i do know that i enjoyed the honest vanilla touch when it came to little nibbles and spankings and having someone tease me into an orgasm and because of those small delights i have chosen to explore . ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ME~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 5'6-5'7 average height shoulder length black hair 34 c long slim legs 100lbs petite goregous brown eyes 24" waist small ankles chocolate complection long eye lashes 32"hips ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ playful open easy going curious sweet a lil tomboyish intellegent new always smiling bisexual kind still very girly honest spoiled soft hearted willing a lil rowdy shy creative soft spoken 420 friendly stubborn ~~~~in the vanilla~~~~~~ SEXUALLY I HAVE BEEN... nibbled on fore play hands tied in the shower slightly strangled in the car unfortunately thats all i have experienced ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~not~~~looking~~~to~~~relocate~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~eventually i will want to meet~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~so the closer you are the better~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I KEEP COMING BACK TO MY PROFILE TRYING TO FIGURE OUT HOW TO EXPRESS WHAT IT IS THA I AM LOOKING FOR BUT MY WAY OF THINKING ABOUT IT SEEMS TO BROAD.. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~IM NOT LOOKING FOR SOME ONE TO TURN ME OUT ALL IN ONE NIGHT~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ SOME THINGS ARE BEST ENJOYED SLOWLY BUT ITS MORE THAN JUST WANTING TO TAKE IT SLOW.... I HAVE TO ADMIT IM A LITTLE SCARED CAUSE IM NOT SURE IF THE LITTLE THINGS I HAVE EXPERIENCED IS UP TO PAR FOR THIS LIFESTYLE BUT I AM CURIOUS I WANT TO KNOW MORE...THEREFORE I CHOOSE TO LEAVE MYSELF OPEN I LOOK AT THE PICTURES AND WATCH THE VIDEOS, MY FAVORITE SITE IS KINK.COM AND IT EXCITES ME TO SEE SOME OF THE THINGS THAT I SEE LIKE THE DIFFERENT TYPES OF BONDAGE ESPECIALLY WHEN I WATCH THE WATER BONDAGE.. AND HERES THE KICKER ...I LOVE TO SWIM ALTHOUGH I AM NOW WHERE NEAR TO BE CALLED A GOOD SWIMMER AND I HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO REALLY HOLD MY BREATH EXCEPT FOR WITH ONE HAND HOLDING MY NOSE * SO IF YOU CAN SEE WHY THAT IS A LITTLE SCARY THEN MAYBE YOU SHOULD TAKE AN INTEREST... WHEN IT COMES TO THE BITTING I REALLY LIKE IT BUT TO SOME OF THE THINGS THAT I HAVE SEEN ON VIDEOS WHAT I GO THOUGH IS JUST NIBBLES FROM MY VANILLA LIFE...BUT IT STILL TURNS ME ON TO WATCH . THE THING IS IM TIRED OF JUST WATCHING AND THINKING AND IMAGINING I WAS RAISED TO THINK ITS WRONG FOR A MAN TO LAY HIS HANDS ON A FEMALE AND I FEEL LIKE I AM WRONG FOR GETTING WET WHEN I AM AT THE MOVIES AND COME ACROSS A SCENE WHERE THAT SITUATION OCCURS... and i like all sorts of name calling ~~~~~~~~~~~DO TO MY UP BRINGING (I THINK)~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I FLINCH AND MOST TIMES END UP CRYING WHEN I AM HIT...BUT I LOVED IT THE FIRST TIME WHEN I WAS MUCH YOUNGER AND HAD SOMEONE SLIP THEIR HANDS AROUND MY NECK WHILE WE ...WELL U KNOW IM SPOILED IN MANY WAYS BUT VERY INDEPENDENT IM AM USE TO GETTING MY WAY ALTHOUGH I NEVER REALLY TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THE KINDNESS OTHERS OFFERED ME I CAN GET A LITTLE OUT OFF CONTROL WHEN I GET TO THINKING TO MUCH BUT I WAS USE TO ALWAYS HAVING MY FAMILY TELL ME WHAT TO DO CAUSE I AM THE BABY...THEREFORE I KNOW (I THINK) THAT I WANT SOMEONE TO BE ABLE TO HAVE CONTROL OF ME IM BRATTY BUT I KNOW THAT TO THE RIGHT PERSON I AM SUBMISSIVE OR AT LEAST THAT HOW I AM IN MY VANILLA LIFE CAUSE WITH THE WRONG PERSON I USUALLY BE THE ONE WHO,IN LACK OF BETTER WORDS, WEAR THE PANTS I WANT DISCIPLINE BUT I ALSO WANT TO FEEL LOVED AND WANTED I KNOW I CAN BE A SENSITIVE PERSON AT TIMES, THATS WHY I CRY SO EASILY i was asked what qualities that i dont like in myself...i had to think about it cause i like me and i love the little things that i do but still i gave it some thoughts ~sometimes i get fustrated cause i cant stay on task i easily lose focus ~i am very forgetful at times and that henders me in many ways ~i am carefree at times and dont realize that i could be putting myself in danger at times ~still being young i am naive ~i procrastinate sometimes, i put a task off for a while when it should be top priority now that i have put some thoughts in a few qualities that i dont like in myself maybe i can use the good advice given and start trying to figure out what new experiences could be of some help read the small print i will not respond back to all messages in my inbox which is constantly full (only been up here a few days) please dont see me as being rude its just that i am at the moment a little choosy and a little scared....i want someone with experience but i have to admitt the oldest person i have ever been involved with in my vanilla life was 10 yrs older than i and although i am not a health nut i wouldn't mind someone some what in shape and it would make things easier if you i can find my self attracted to you through personality, looks, possibly through sheer authority apologize if this seems shallow in any way WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.

7/23/2011 8:27:28 PM

this is my second journal entry

july 23 2011

well so far my introduction to the lifestyle havent been completely what i have wanted...got a little slow start to it and on top of that i have the worlds most nosiest brother... and it drives me crazy i want to blame him for it starting slow cause he done came across my the site and my info....that was my ignorance for not signing out so he's on my back cause of my choice of lifestyle...i know he loves me and i am his baby sister and he's trying to look out for me but because he cant give me what i want i think it would be indeed best if he stayed to his own buisness and left me to my own...

but as for what i have found i find myself enjoying the connection i have made..now i just got to find my sd adapter {#}

7/16/2011 1:35:16 AM

this is my first enty

saturday july 16 2011

this is my introductory....the part about me in the vanilla

i am a 22 yr old bisexual female....i grew up being the baby of the a large family and i continue to be treated as so. i grew up well sheltered from the outside world but had demons in my family and past...i grew up raped and molested since the age of 4 up till the age of 13 and this will be the first time i have been so "public" about it. the first time i willingly gave myself away was at the age of 13 to a guy who was much older than me and much to big for me to handle but i enjoyed it to the fullest...i have alwaysed been like that...i love those i cant handle at least in the vanilla life when it came to sex..

with the fast beginning that i had i have always remain to be sweet and well mannered my parents who was traditional and strict made sure of that although i was never a trouble maker...i am a smart girl, growing up going to school i was the little black girl who use to wear one big pony tail that alwaysed raised her hand at each question...i was an A, B student uptill highschool where my grades dropped to a B,C average.. but reguardless if i was in elementary middle school or high school i was always a favorite among the teachers and staff, but not so much among the student body. i was always teased and picked on for being a goody good and for wanting to be so smart.. i defended myself alot growing up and got use to patting myself on the back after my father passed

i always concidered myself to be a pleaser cause sexually i was just ssomeones play toy and they just so happened to say "i love you" but now i know they didnt mean it but i alwyas got overly excited and extra creamy when i would go down and i would feel fingers get tangled in my hair as they would try to shove more into my little mouth than what i could hold or when i would be under a strong body that would hold me down by my wrist cause i would run from it and when they would moan with pleasure from being inside of me it made me want to rock my hips with them even though i was getting tender and it was really starting to hurt...i just wanted to hear the pleasureable sounds they would make and i alwaysed loved it when they would tell me that i did something so well.

i cant honestly say when i first got into thinking that i liked the "little" pain that i recieved but i can say that i didn't get in to bdsm untill i was about 16, 17 and a black and white picture of a lady with shoulder length light colored hair, naked with only a corset on and rope tied around her hands and feet popped up while i was looking at some porn and ever since then i have only painfully watched videos and looked at pictures of it that would make me wet...my family on the other hand, had they seen me looking at itwould have made their disgust for it known....and yet i was and am still tempted to venture out and see for myself what it would be like to have someone put a crop to my backside or have someone rough me a little and tie me up spread eagle cover my mouth and teach me something that i may never want to forget....

i want to experience something and i am not sure of what all i want to experience but i did not want to keep just looking ...no this is what i want to do and this is my first step