Hey all, I'm really new to this whole scene so even though I have some fantasies in mind, I think I should start off with something pretty basic. If you're curious about what else I might be into, just ask!

So I've never experienced a proper dom/sub relationship in the bedroom. I am primarily interested in the power exchange, and don't really need all of the stereotypical scene stuff like titles, leather, and tribute. I AM interested in a relationship where one partner takes what they want from the other, uses them sexually, while the other partner's reward is more the feeling of accomplishment from doing a good job. I can see myself enjoying both of these roles, but I have never really been dominant and certainly would not know how to be a "Dom," so I think it might be best to start in a submissive or switch role where I can learn about the flip side of that coin by observing my partner.

Discretion is a primary concern for me, so I am not posting a face pic on this site. If you contact me, I will send you one. If we're both interested, we can meet up somewhere public to make sure we at least get along as people. I would like to find an ongoing thing so that is pretty important to me.?