So, first of all. Why am I here?
I'm here to talk, to make new friends and to meet interesting people. I'm not seeking and looking for anything else. I'm already taken and happily so and yes, my other half knows I am here. So, no drama, no secrets nor bs no games for me. I'm just looking for interesting chats, really.
But while I'm here, I can't resist the urge to mention something about me myself then. After all, ain't that the reason of the whole profile text. To introduce yourself? Having been on this site before and knowing what 99% of these profiles are filled with, let me make a couple of points clear.
I am not a Dom, Master, Sir, Daddy, lord or whatever it is that your average dominant person in these sites uses to call himself.
Why do I say so?
Man doesn't have to (and shouldn't) give a title to himself.
And titles... They are just empty words. They categorize you, they claim you to be something that you have no right to claim to be and they do not give you any right to act like an arse as so many of those which use those titles seem to think they do in sites such as this one.
What counts are the actions, behavior and the real you. Not just some made up BS where you claim to be the most hardest, cruel, the most skillful master ever without even understanding what any of that bs you're pretending to be means. Abuse is abuse and it just makes me sick every time I see it being mixed up with D/s ..Which is something that happens often and which is sad but true.
Something what I have seen way too many times, men say that they can't understand women, yet in the very same sentence they claim to be dominant towards them. Excuse me but this just makes me laugh out loud every freaking time I hear it (although I must admit, the joke is getting a bit old). How can you dominate and control something that you can't understand?
Yeah, I'm experienced. Yes, I have been here before. Again yes, I have been in bdsm based relationships, played those shallow games of Dom sub relationships, seen it all, been there, done that and lived it. But what does any of that matter? While I agree that experience brings you certain amount of knowledge in practicality (you know how to do a knot or two, which safety measurements to take into account, what to do and what not to do and last but not least (actually the most importantly) you know what you're doing), it doesn't make you any "better" in it what you do as 99% of it comes from the mental aspect of it all. You either have it and you are what it takes naturally, or you're not. ..But what you can't do is to pretend to be something you're not and actually succeed in it.
There we go with my two cents :). I will most likely update further, but just wanted to put down a few words while creating this profile.
Now if you'd fancy a chat without any ulterior motive behind it. Please, let me hear about you :)
Oh and what's the story behind that photo which I have added to my profile. The answer is, look at it and think. I'm sure you can see it yourself :).
I'm in Bdsmhellas.gr as well.
