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About justhonest
Who I am?
Combine 1 part sex appeal w/ 2 parts self-confidence. Stir in some brain matter. Take out the ice, shake well & serve hot after stirring in the right amount of hot spice.
Seriously: I am definitely 150 % female (with quite some male tendencies though), pretty smart (too smart for a girl?) but at the same time very caring, sensitive & sensual. I can be very gentle & extremely romantic, but can also get pretty adventurous, daring, dominant, aggressive, provocative, freaky & wild. I really love life, have a lot of energy & drive. I always try to make the best out of everything, prefer to be more an optimist than a pessimist.
I am very outgoing, extremely open-minded & unconventional, liberal & tolerant. I am independent. I am willing to accept you as the whole person, with ALL your personal aspects, positives & negatives as well, and I am expecting you to do the same! So, I think you could call me a real free-soul. I am always looking to explore & experience different things, inside & outside the bedroom.
I am very down to earth, have a lot of (black) humour & love to laugh. I am fun, not easy! I like to be active, physical & sporty, choose to live rather on the healthy side. I have travelled the world quite a lot. I love movies (favourites: fantasy, sword&sorcery, thrillers & action), books, music, dancing, art, motorcycles, anything creative & brainy, good food (and yessss, I can cook too!).
My sense of style is highly developed & I am good to go with some old torn-up jeans & a simple white T as well as dressed-up like a million-$-woman on 5-inch fuck-me-instantly high heels. I am about 5'7'', with a well presented nice voluptious hourglass figure & very smooth cinnamon-tanned skin.
But, maybe more important, besides my physical features, my main characteristics are defined by pride, a high self-esteem, self-confidence, passion & compassion, devotion, a high sense of responsibility, true loyalty to 'my people' and... absolute fearlessness (mostly it is ,-)).
Nevertheless, I have to warn you: I am not a 'safe' person. I am a true female A-type & at times I have a tendency to be pretty headstrong. That's one reason why I get along best with male A-types, because only if I truly respect you my submission comes naturally. I can have a ferocious temper though, which might be dangerous to arouse. I am aware of the fact that in the wrong moment & time I potentially could be capable to ... k.i.l.l.,-)) But, that dangerous & savage side of my personality is definitely controlled & focused by my high sense of compassion & integrity, my willingness to assume responsibility for everything I do (or don't do) & my strong will to strictly follow my very own rules & extremely high ethics & morals.
I also seem to have a natural tendency for fixing problems - whoever created them. I love problems & see them strictly as challenges, since they will never let me run out of work! For me, it never matters whether or not a problem is 'my fault' or my direct responsibility. What matters is that there is a problem which needs to be solved, and I dig in to do just that & actually thrive on it each & every time.
But most of all, I am someone who knows who I am & what I want & how to get it. Naturally, at the same time - being at least partly human, LOL - I am no more free of self-doubt than anyone else. But, I know what I believe in & where my interests & my responsibilities lie, and so I am constitutionally incapable of doing one inch less than my own sense of duty or my own high standards or believes require of me. I would never choose the easier route. I believe that swimming against (main)stream is something really good - you definitely develop the right kind of muscles inside & outside!
Be aware - i am not looking for that 24/7 thing.. just not me! I do have a vanilla life as well and really like, enjoy it - beside my kid has nothing.. nothing at all to do with that lifestyle, neither i will introduce the lifestyle to my kid. Finally its a decision my kid will do of his own when able to.. at this time... nope ,-))
... and also - i definitly do not respond to notes without pic - even your words may sound gentle, indeed they may are LOL !
SOME MORE BASIC FACTS ABOUT ME A-Z
Favourite activity:
humans.. and my kid ,-)) senseless to say LOL
Body type:
Voluptuous, but toned
Character type:
Female A-type!
Ergo: Male A-type for acceptance/submission needed!
Daily diet:
Keep it healthy but tasty?
Perfect date:
Sensual - A decadent dinner so good we could eat it with our bare hands, both of us satisfied but eager to see what's... beyond the dessert tray?
Disabilities:
None. If you wouldn't count being female! LOL!
Ethnicity:
Up for discussion.
Maybe: Dropped from an Alien space ship into the middle of Europe?
Exercise:
Regularly when time allows but not daily
Faith:
Spiritual
Favourites:
Anything active, physical and/or brainy, anything which makes me laugh, anything which tastes good, coffee & chocolate, cigarettes (addicted!), good sex, beach & ocean, the sun, dancing, love & life itself...
Humor:
Clever & sometimes very sarcastic & black.
Nothing's better than a quick-witted comeback!
Relationships:
Married/Divorced/Remarried/Separated/ Available?
Sexual orientation:
More Hetero than Gay?
If it is not Angelina Jolie or Sharon Stone herself hitting on me, LOL! Guess that makes me BI? Or at least open to whatever!...but definitly i am a firm believer in monogamy!!
Turn-ons:
Thrills, dancing, flirting, power, brainiacs, boldness, candlelights, thunderstorms, martial arts, good sex, tight butts, nice titts, muscles, touching silky skin, beautiful eyes, big dicks, dangerous things( from time to time), motorcycles and so much more..
Turn-offs:
Bad sex, players with tendencies to brain-fucking, lies, abusing my trust, dishonorable & unloyal people, disrespecting me
Favourite weather:
Must be HOT, so that I can get that reptile part of my blood into gear
Why currently single/searching/open to experimenting:
Picky & adventurous? No, guess I just know exactly what I want & need, contrary to people who only know what they don't want & need. And I am not (any more) willing to compromise on that.
My ideal person:
Looking for really attractive cool people with true quality & substance. Yes, I am greedy & demanding enough to only want & accept the complete perfect package:
BODY, BRAIN, HEART & SOUL combined!
No compromising, as mentioned!
In a man I want somebody who is real & knows how to treat & please a real woman. Tall, tanned/dark & handsome & well presented, active, sporty/athletic with a high energy level, endurance & stamina in & outside the bedroom, smooth, smart & intelligent, confident & relaxed, honest & trustworthy, decent & discreet, mature, with attitude, humour, good manners, taste & style, who knows the world & the street & how to take care of a lady & also business, whenever necessary. And therefore has not completely lost the male dog in him.
I'm easy going & enjoy having fun but don't have time for 'bad sex' or abusive relationships! Interested in men who have themselves together, not the fake 'Wannabees' who shake their fists & let self-pity consume them until they are nothing more than another angry frustrated man or woman acting it out by speeding with their overpowered car-toy on the next highway or endlessly bitching over guys mistreating them.
Don't take me wrong, I'm not trying to be ugly, just being REAL!
Looking for someone with more than a big dick, a nice body & a high sex drive, someone with an education, a j.o.b. & a career, independence, pride & self-esteem, attitude, class & style plus the drive & desire to achieve more in life than just fucking around & being a player or everybodies hoe.
I am only interested in real encounters & real conversation & exchanges with real people, no fakers wanted, no wham bam thank you m'am, because that's not for me. You should know how to treat a woman with respect & will get the same in return.
I am always open to meet really cool people, and this site is no exception. I am looking to meet interesting, truly attractive people for whatever comes naturally. I like adventure, being dined & wined, going out & to the movies, travel, shopping, enjoy all the fun things in life & I strongly believe in equitable fun.
I admit that I am primarily looking to meet someone really cool who can be a great companion, friend, lover, hanging buddy, etc... And if we wanted to explore other interesting aspects of our sexuality, I want someone who is comfortable enough to let his hair down & EXPLORE ALL THE POSSIBILITIES... and maybe what's beyond.
But, as long as I don't grant an exclusive to anybody special, I am open to meet quality people who are comfortable, non-pushy, and interested in enjoying the company of good people. I have had a pretty good amount of 'lifestyle experience', and I have learned that I usually enjoy it much more when I really like the people & feel comfortable with them.
But, still, a permanent co-pilot would really make that flight truly memorable... and some recent encounters make me definitely consider an exclusive joint flight schedule with the right person! For quite a while I was not into actively seeking that option, but life's funny & you never know what or who comes along... And be assured that, when I love I do it with my full heart. Cash that & take it to the bank, LOL!
It's just that I am not a standard person, therefore I am not looking for a standard relationship with a standard partner, because that won't suit me or fulfill my needs.
Whoever I meet here, and we might find out that we really like each other & eventially get serious - once more - be aware that in that case I desire a real companion & potential partner, not a(nother) liability! So, only if you are a mature-minded man who understands the importance of enjoying life as well as taking care of business, hit me back.
Based on negative experiences a word specially 4 the Brothas:
Don't take me the wrong way. I am NOT uptown white woman seeking NYC ghetto! I would be interested in a B.M.W. (black man working) or a B.M.W. C-series (Black man working with a career) only, and not one living on welfare while fronting bigtime with one of the many girlfriend's expensive cars, latest Versace-fashion & fake-Rolex & too much blingbling. I also request all the additional features & characteristics mentioned above. Yes, I love the colour & texture of your skin, how you age so well (well most anyway, smile!), those strong physical features that only you posess, the many ways you express yourselves (truly unique to you), your strength (once it is truly realized by you) & your dedication to love (when it's real to you) & intense love-making. All of you have your particular "SUM'N SUM'N" that you bring to the table, but there are too many just carelessly & mindlessly fucking around remote-controlled by their supposedly big black dick & truly oversized male ego & only a few who realize that it's more to really "click" with their opposite half or even meet THE SPECIAL ONE in this lifetime & then conquer the world together.
Remember: I got to get to know you more than a bit to know if some chemistry is there. I don't regard men as 'dicks with attachment' and don't like to be regarded as 'pussy on legs'. I don't do everybody just because he is black or contacting me on this website. It is still about 2 people who like each other. I like mature, intelligent people to spend my time with WHO CAN INTRIGUE ME BOTH PHYSICALLY & MENTALLY |
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