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Hi,

I have been online for a number of years, mostly in mIRC, where I was first introduced to the D/s lifestyle, and where I discovered my deeply submissive nature. I've had two, rather serious Mistresses online, who were both loving and mature in their time with me. I know that many believe that the cyber community is kind of lame wrt D/s, and while I would be the first to tell you that it can't compare with r/t, I am also convinced that it can be real. I have the marks on my heart to prove it.

My online education has also led to my being able to submit to my wife. As I learned and came to understand the power exchange, how powerful it is, my wife listened to me and discovered the Domme in her. Since then, we have enjoyed a very rich, albeit sometimes sporatic D/s relationship.

By coming to understand my submissive nature online, and thru my r/t, I also discovered the dominant side of myself, something that surprised me. I feel that understanding, REALLY knowing what submission is all about, is a critical part of being a good Master or Mistress. Again, some will disagree with this, and I know that there are Many who have never submitted. Still, I feel like I understand the submissive nature in a special way. I was Master of a dear one for quite sometime online, the One who taught me much as my Mistress. Our switch life, online, was something tha tI will always remember.

Anyway, I am online because I've missed cyber D/s relationships, and well, hard play. My r/t is up and down, regarding D/s, and I miss the cyber discussions with groups of like people, and yes, I do miss the online play.

Please feel free to PM if Y/you would like to chat a bit, and perhaps share an online relationship. I will say that I do not wish to begin an exclusive relatinoship with A/anyone, and most of all, do not want to start a relationship that will hurt anyone. I am deeply committed to my wife, and this will never change.

Thanks for reading. (I know I talk a lot :o)
misstressvola
 
 Age: 30
 Phoenix, Arizona