I am a 23 year old Civil Engineer, i just finished up grad school. Some of my non kink hobbies are making jewelry, ceramics, and being a Colorado Avalanche fan.

I have been into the lifestyle for a couple of years, and have some experience. I am looking for someone that i can grow and learn with in a bdsm relationship. I would love to have someone that I trust and can be myself around. I am bisexual and am looking for male and female play partners. I love the female body but haven't been with a girl in awhile. I have many things that I am into in the lifestyle, my fave being orgasm control and denial, and have few hard limits. If you want to talk about my likes in the lifestyle then go ahead and message me! For all the switches that are out there, I do not switch and have absolutely no interest in it! So please respect that.

Things I look for in a play partner would be someone I can trust and can talk very openly with. I believe in being forward and blunt and very honest. I want to find someone that I can be a friend with as well, but they will always know who is in charge. I really just want to find someone I connect with and can learn and explore the wonderful things in this lifestyle with.

I think every person i date needs to read these lyrics from Madonna's song Sorry, they say it best when it comes to how i feel

I don't wanna hear, I don't wanna know
Please don't say you're sorry
I've heard it all before
And I can take care of myself
I don't wanna hear, I don't wanna know
Please don't say 'forgive me'
I've seen it all before
And I can't take it anymore

Honestly i am kind of a nerd. I would be totally lost without my calculator. My weaknesses are shopping and jager. I like to party and dance to good music. I enjoy long talks in resteraunts with a good drink. I also enjoy going to strip clubs because the jager is always cheaper there. If i could i would have a lifetime supply of DC shoes and mountain dew. In my spare time i really like to watch movies that make me think, write poetry, and hang out with good friends. I suck at strip poker. I wish my calculator was also a vibrator because then i would be set for life. My favorite color is pink and someday i want a pink hummer with spinning rims. I have started playing in the dirt as an adult and i love it (it is for my job). My iPod totally rules my universe and i think it is a permenant part of my body now.