i have past experience in the bdsm lifestyle, and i need to find the right person again to fill that empty space in my life. Looking for a ltr, but want to take things a step at a time.

i am currently in NJ, but will likely be moving to southern CA as I take on new job responsibilities there. i will be adding more information to this profile in the future.

i have been on CM in the past and understand the volume of messages that can be generated here. i will respond to those where goals, interests, and views seem to be compatible, but i will not be able to respond to all. If you do not receive a response, then please accept that it is just because it will not work out, and it's best that we not engage in a protracted interchange.

For those of you who feel that last statement indicates that "you are not a slave!!", well, then certainly not the right one for you. i fully desire to only accede to the needs of my owner, but at this stage, i have the obligation to find the right person(s) to whom to give that control.

thanks for understanding.

j