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Male Switch, 23, suffolk
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About Jonc101
Well, thank God for '50 Shades of Grey'. I gather that more and more women want to experience the 'act of submission', even going to the lengths of paying for a good baring of the bottom and spanking at commercial dungeons!!! Quel gaspillage d'argent! Just contact me, if you're local or a visitor and I'll deliver what you need for FREE and I'll create '50 Shades of Red'....or pink... well, you know what I mean! Scottish-born, ex-Canberra, ex-teacher/college lecturer, now in lovely Byron Bay. I'm always looking for a young adult woman to join me for spanking sessions. I'm no longer part of the wider BDSM scene, just private spankings for ladies with that special urge. A real masochist would be excellent. Sex is not a pre-requisite, just 'bottoming' for me in the traditional submissive manner, OTK for preference. I don't use spanking as a portal for sex, although it has happened, albeit spontaneously and consensually! I dislike drawing blood and stop my ministrations beforehand, although some stripes are normal! I'm globally well-travelled, and have studied several languages, so 'ethnic' women are welcome to join me, as are women visiting from overseas. Any interested lady should be 'slimmish', as I prefer fairly trim women, although she doesn't have to be a stick insect. Moderate weight:body ratio is a must for my consideration! Size 10-12 for preference, 14 at a pinch if you're firm! But no obese, plump, curvy, or zaftig chicks need apply. Obesity is obesity regardless of euphemisms. Looks and age are not a huge issue, apart from being within the legal age, of course. Absolutely NO druggies! My politics tend towards conservative, if that matters in this area of interest. And please don't send me 20-year old pics !!! Leave them in granny's family album. I'm frankly not interested in women under 25 yoa - well, I am, but they're usually too flakey to bother about. 25-40 is ideal! I expect the lady to have a need for submission, and a desire for measured, moderate pain for whatever prompts her needs...and for my enjoyment, of course ;-) Safe words - agreed in advance - are always respected.
Ladies should be prepared to send recent pics at some stage before meeting, and be happy to have phone chats in advance. I'm upfront about that too.
They should be drug-free, polite and courteous. I am happy to meet spankees in a motel or in their own homes if they prefer. But my new home, near the beach, is quite secluded with several rooms so I can host if required. A personal 'treasure chest' of metallic piercings, fishing tackle-box lures, hooks and sinkers and other pieces of 'ded' body and facial 'jewelry' are NOT a plus!! I'm OK with moderate tattoos... but no rivals to Michelangelo's Sistine Chapel ceilings, please!!!
Tertiary qualifications are a plus, but are not absolutely necessary. I like artistic/literary/musical women, but again, that's just a preference. It's always the state of mind that counts.
Ladies should also have self-respect and self-esteem, as I have no time for doormats. An even temperament is a MUST !!!
I've been into Male/fem, Dom/sub, Top/bottom relations globally since teenage years, so I know precisely what I'm looking for. I'm more moderate than extreme, and am happy to discuss preferences and limits with any woman who contacts me. Spanking, paddling and caning are my main personal fetish and discipline interests in maintaining mutual respect, order and peace in relationships (see my recent pics to get the idea). Some women just like a spanking for therapeutic, guilt assuagement or 'Daddy' type directional reasons. That's fine with me too, the release of control, and as in many cases, the permission that they often feel they lack to express strong emotions. I promise total discretion, safety, and appreciation of limits and protocols for any woman interested in a meeting.
All other details happily provided when I receive your GENUINE email. BUT... NO MORE pseuds, wannabes, nutters or pretenders please!!! Don't just talk the talk.... Life's too short to waste time on online masturbation.... Laissez les bons temps rouler!
Father Jon In the meantime, ... bottoms up! Updated: March 2017 |
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