The weather 'round here has been beautiful. It makes me think of spring.

I am interested in meeting some friends off this site, to hang out, invite over for food and just to chill. I know it's not particularly on topic ,but what the heck.

Q: What does it mean to be submissive?

A: 

   The word to me is much more than a 'Webster's' entry.

    I have read countless responses from as many people saying they don't like to recieve nasty,tastless messages and I got to wondering.

    My opinion is that a submissive should be treated and spoken to with the utmost courtesy as well as being treated with great respect, like everyone else in society,for the end goal is often a very private, intimate desire which is usually not even shared with a persons family or "vanilla" friends and this intimate fantasy should be recieved with such honor an pride.

   I have said many times that I believe people with fetishes have taken the event of sexual gratification and intimacy to a completely different level then their vanilla counterparts. the nature of these desires are such that we have no choice to be more accepting and less judgemental then their vanilla counterparts

even if Im not into that particular fetish I know I wouldn't want anybody to judge me for my interests and as such I don't judge them.

I just don't understand.

I’m nice, honest, polite, literate, straight shooter and still I get very few responses.

Could someone please tell me why my profile isn't getting much attention?