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Jayare1964

Male Submissive, 57, Portland, Maine
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About Jayare1964


Looking for friends only. Please pop in and say hi, if friends is what you're looking for.

I want your mind. Once you give me that, the rest is easy. It'd be nice to meet someone in Sydney, or find some friends to chat with online. There's lots of info on my profile, and lot's of thoughts, rambles, and rants in my journal, if you're willing to take the time to have a look. Feel free to make contact if you're looking for a friend or someone who may one day be more than a friend.

I'm not in a hurry. In fact, I never hurry anything in life. I'd rather savour and enjoy every moment.

Online is good for friends and allows chat in a very non-threatening way. Personally, I'm not into online D/s relationships, so if that's all your after, then maybe I'm not the one for you.

I'm also interested in chatting with Dom/Domme's out there for friendship only.

The other day I found a Yahoo group for Christians into BDSM. If you're familiar with this group, I'd really like to hear from you. They appear to be Sydney-based
I really do dislike LA, and am extremely happy to be home. It's been good in one way, in that I've had a few busy, but thoughtful few days. I'd almost forgotten just how much I dislike jet lag
It's been an interesting and eye-opening couple of months on here for me. I've read lots of profiles and lots more journals. Had a look at the chat rooms (dull) and spent some time on the message boards (really disappointing). I have a question for subs and Dom/mes alike. When you say hi to? someone what else do you say? Maybe it's just me, but I like to see a name after the "Hi". But then maybe I'm old-fashioned. I also wonder if you ask a question, something like .."how are you?" To me the question should always be.. "What are you feeling?" But then again maybe that's just me being old-fashioned again.
Questions for today: What's the worst thing about being happy? - Answer: Not realising you were happy at the time.....Q/ What's the worst thing about being unhappy? - A/ Not being able to remember how you felt when you were happy
Is the dream real? Is there that perfect someone for me out there? Is it possible that I could actually find that person? Often wondered if the answer to any of these questions is yes, maybe it is.
Some things are just meant to be, some things are there if you want them, and some things will never be, irrespective of what I do.
If all this is true then it's best not to worry about what may or may not happen. So long as my decisions create happiness and harm no one, everything will work out for the best.
Amazing..life can turn around on the smallest moment or most casual contact.
Words I live by:
"Never take that which is not freely and unconditionally given."

If it's not freely given, it's only a matter of time before it's taken from you.

If it's given with conditions, then you're just minding it for someone else
Another quiet Saturday. It's been a long while now out of a relationship for me, and I really miss the little things. Looking outside on a lovely sunny day and all I can think of is taking my little one for a walk.
Just noticed my pet hate right here on CM..online spell check using a US English dictionary. I'm going to see how many times I can get the system to help me realise my goal of getting lots of red lines under correctly spelt words
Really looking forward to today and all of the potential that it holds. Just imagine if you can, going to bed every night with this same feeling? How many people go to bed worrying about the next day, concerned with the day to day details of life, rather than anticipating the excitement and joy that life has on offer. What's the secret of changing this outlook on life? I know what I think it is, but would be happy to know what other people think. Then again, maybe this is just an aimless rant.
I've always known that life will always find ways to surprise and delight me. It's only when I'm down that I realize just how? wonderful life's surprises can be.
I read this today and it really resonated with me.
"Tell me and I will forget;
Teach me and I will remember;
Involve me and I will learn"
????? B. Franklin

What it comes down to for me, is that I want to own a sub's mind. After that, everything else is natural and wonderful
I've been thinking about the sorts of profiles that get my attention and / or encourage me to initiate contact. Still don't have an answer to my actions or lack thereof. I know I do get interested when someone isn't ticking off all the things they don't want in a Dom. Then I wander what people think when they see my profile. Who knows, maybe one day someone will tell me.
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