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Male Submissive, 41, New Bedford, Massachusetts
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Male Dominant, 30, nyc, New Jersey
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Female Submissive, 57, New York City, New York
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About iwillobeysir
I'm looking for the exchange of power, not the sex!
The real turn-on is in letting you take control as we learn to trust one another.
This sub has spent a long time in a plain vanilla world, ready to start exploring a part of my dark side!
In general, my *perfect* world would involve accepting (a) bondage and(b) humiliation *from* you, and giving (c) servitude *to* you.
Alas and alack, this is not a perfect world, and I find that absolute discretion is a must.
I also believe that as a sub, I should be writing to you first. So I'll be doing just that to some folks who have a profile I find interesting.
BUT, if I haven't gotten to you yet, please feel free to write first. Heck, even if you just view my complete profile, I'll scribble you a note of thanks!
You may learn a bit more about my personality by reading the journal entries.
In the mean time, feel free to drop me a note!
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My submission is a function of my willingness to endure bondage/humiliation/hazing etc. at your hands as a way of demonstrating loyalty.
Do I truly enjoy being humiliated? No, but I do enjoy the power exchange, and I crave your caring attention once its over, and therefore I'm willing to endure what you ask. |
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Gee, it seems that so many of the profiles of male doms here come across here as strong and demanding. On the one hand, I understand that that's the persona that a dom wants to project to a partner, whether that partner is a play-occasionally partner or a 24/7 live-in LTR.
On the other hand, don't you think that you'd have better luck in attracting folks to respond if your profile were more inviting? As you get to know someone, you can name your expectations. I mean, I'd hate to think that if I'd ever meet up with you that you'd kick the s*** out of me if I made one mistake in properly addressing you.
I guess the point I'm really making here is that some folks are really into the lifestyle 24/7; and then there are those of us who use BDSM as a release for the "other side of our personality" at a time and in a space and with a relationship that allows our play to round out our lives instead of defining our lives.
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First journal entry, more about me "thinking out loud" for myself than necessarily for others. I note that *so many* profiles are terse (or, worse yet, completely blank!) in the prose section, and I recognize that mine hasn't said much, either. So, I want to use this space to begin to develop what I do want to share on the profile page.
Unlike many people here, I'd like to try a "cyber" relationship. Looking for a Dom/Master who tests my willingness to serve via such tools as "Fond of Writing" or "You're Grounded". (Not allowed to post links here; do a search for those terms and find the programs, or write me and I'll send a link to your email.)
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