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Male Dominant, 27, philadelphia, Pennsylvania

Male Dominant, 27, philadelphia, Pennsylvania

Male Switch, 38, kenner, Louisiana

UPDATE! I apologize profusely to those of you who feel that I've ignored you. That's not the situation at all. I haven't been on this site in quite some time and I'm starting up again. I've had some crazy things going on with work and what not. I finally feel like I've found my footing again. Thanks for your patience and I hope to talk with some of you soon ;)

This entry is an add on to the one I did a few entries ago dealing with respect. I've since had time to talk with a few people and put my thoughts into check and calm down and I've realized that I may not have worded myself as I had wanted to. I live by the motto "Whats fair in any relationship is defined by the two people involved." Or three or four for the poly type. Whatever decision is made by those people should be the governing law in that relationship regardless of what societal standards are. I was seeing someone for a short period of time that expected me to know everything he wanted. There was no structure and I am a firm believer in structure and discipline to complete a training process which will leave the slave with a more than ample amount of resources to serve her Master with a fervor never seen before. So, in words given by my friend John from this site, he was a turkey :)

PICTURES! This is a huge issue to me. Please do NOT send me messages if you don't have a picture on your profile or included in your message. I acknowledge the fact that I am not the best looking girl, however, in trying to be fair I include a picture so you can see before you contact me. The same type of respect in return would be appreciated. Thank You.

Respect. Respect is inherently important to me in any relationship in any walk of life. I feel like some people on this website feel like by keeping your sub in the dark and not trying to make her happy you'll somehow have a stronger bond.. Granted you aren't going to give into her every whim but you're also not going to try to make her miserable. I believe, and tell me if you think I'm wrong, that every Dom sees his sub as precious and therefore is going to take steps in the direction that allow that relationship to bloom rather than flounder. Grrr...HUGE rant...

So I've had a lot of e-mails asking what I was sick with. It's only fair to post here and say I wasn't sick. My dad was in the hospital and I was just spending some quality time with the nurses. lol. Another topic of conversation after the rousing answers I got about financial slavery...Total Power Exchange...What are your thoughts/practices?

So I've been wondering about something lately...what is a financial dom? This is something I've never been exposed to and I'm curious seeing as I've heard this word here and there.

Alrighty...I'm extremely sorry for the lack of communication lately. I haven't even checked my personal e-mail in a week, much less this website. I've had a crazy week, spent countless nights in the hospital, and am now trying to get back on the right track.

Photos! What is going on with NOBODY having a picture on their profile anymore? The way I look at it, I'm pretty self concious about how I look. However, I have posted a picture of myself so you know what you're getting into. You get the full package. My interests AND my physical appearance. The favor is hardly ever returned. I hate not being able to put a face to the person. Please, please make an attempt to have a picture on your profile. It would be oh so lovely and much appreciated.

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