IvyGoddess

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	About IvyGoddess READ THIS PROFILE IN ITS ENTIRETY. If you are a sub or slave and do not follow my rules of engagement below, your message WILL BE DELETED. If you are NOT serious about a real Ds relationship (both online or real time), DO NOT CONTACT ME. I am a highly educated, intellectual, and extremely demanding Domme who is searching for an attractive, physically fit sub to serve me. I am also looking for a houseboy to care for my household. Who I am I am an entrepreneur and businesswoman who works in an extremely high-profile, high-pressure industry. I enjoy literature, sociopolitical theory (feminism, racism, and sexuality), rock and electronic dance music, and silly things such as anime and video games. I also love exploring restaurants and new places, and receiving full body massages, mani pedis, and being completely pampered by my sub. I also really love shopping and being spoiled, but what Goddess wouldnt? ) My promises I understand the meaning of safe words, boundaries, and limits. - You will never feel unsafe or violated, unless you previously consented to this treatment. - I understand safe, consensual, and sane. - If our relationship eventually progresses to the level beyond domestic slavery, how I treat you in scene and out of scene will always be pre-negotiated and discussed Fundamentally, Ds is about trust -- I will never betray the trust you put in me, because I care about those who serve me well. While I may become angry and displeased at times and decide to punish a misbehaving sub or slave, I will never irreparably hurt you, abuse you, punish you out of anger (as to do so would be abuse), or drive you into ruin because your welfare is important to me. I am not here to exploit the trust you put in me, but to create a lasting connection through discipline and punish, power and domination. While I enjoy real time humiliation play, my of humiliation is not the type of humiliation that involves a long stream of insults -- rather, its more teasing, playful, and sometimes more cerebral. If I tease you for having a tiny dick or tits, its usually more in the manner of aww how cute as opposed to ugh, how gross, if you know what I mean. ) Essentially, I have a softer approach to Ds in person and can scale higher in intensity through distance or online play. In text, I can be far harsher and more cruel. So if you are searching for extreme humiliation and domination, my directives would be issued via text chat while we are on a video call. Rules of Engagement -You will never make demands, top from the bottom, be a whiny little bitch, or waste my time. - To prove that you read my profile, your VERY FIRST line must include Ivy-approved at the very top of the message, BEFORE any greeting. - If contacting me for the first time, you will NOT contact me with only a one-liner. You will instead take the time to write me a thoughtful message that demonstrates that you have in fact read this profile. Explain to me who you are, what you have to offer, what it is you are looking for, your interests (both vanilla and Ds), and what you are looking for in a Ds relationship. - Do not contact me to ask me if you may speak with me -- you have my permission to message me, but dont waste my time to grant it to you when you have already messaged me to begin with. - You will always address me respectfully as Mistress, Goddess, or Domina. - Understand that I receive a deluge of emails on a daily basis, and it may take me some time to get back to you. If you are impatient, expect to either be admonished or outright dismissed. - Due to the nature of my work, confidentiality and discretion is of utmost importance, so I will not share my full image until I have discerned that you are very serious. I will also not Skype with you until I feel comfortable, and will only offer to do so at my discretion, only after we have had some time to exchange messages. Any messages that do not respect this will immediately be deleted. HARD LIMITS - Absolutely no water sports of any kind. - Do not offer to take my golden shower or offer to be my human toilet. I have no need for one. - No rape fantasies. This is a major hard limit. - I am not your Mommy. - Other hard limits listed to the left of this profile. Be sure to look at them. Who you are You are EXTREMELY DISCREET, between the ages of 22 and 45, attractive, in very good physical shape, and have your life together. You are emotionally and mentally sound, with either a stable job or a good game plan as to where you plan on going in life. You are highly educated, either through traditional or non-traditional means, very articulate, extremely intelligent, and can therefore challenge your Goddess intellectually. You are a SUB and are seeking a Ds relationship, NOT BDSM play sessions or a pro Domme. MEANINGFUL relationships only!! Potentially ownership down the line. -If you are seeking real time, you MUST be local or willing to drivevisit the New York City area when I deem it necessary. You must also be understanding that I am extremely busy and you WILL NOT see me every week or speak to me every day. - If you are seeking for onlinedistance play, you MUST be willing to be patient to build the relationship that will eventually lead to scenes and play -- I ABSOLUTELY DO NOT play with subsslaves who have no interest in working towards something meaningful. Your Ds interests might include but are not necessarily limited to female supremacy (naturally), domestic servitudehouse slave, pamperingspoiling, voyeurism, chastity, humiliation, cuckolding, light impact play, edging, orgasm controldenial, pleasure controldenial, ass play (pered by yourself for your Goddesss viewing pleasure), forced bisexuality (if it is not a hard limit), sissification (both extreme and light), obedience training, physical fitness training, and pretty much everything that does not include the more extreme spectrum of BDSM (check my interests hard limits). You may be seeking a Goddess to serve and pamper, and enjoy doing chores and tasks. If you have the opportunity to serve her in person, you might enjoy cleaning her house, doing her nails, giving her massages, and taking her shopping or accompanying her when she shops or decides she would like a nice meal at a restaurant. You might enjoy acting as her chauffeur, cook, maid, or in whatever capacity she may need so need. If you have high level professional skills, you also would enjoy serving her in that capacity if so needed. You understand what it means to serve and please, and also understand that objectifying your Domme and fantasizing about Her without Her permission is completely unacceptable submissive behavior that would lead to immediate punishment or potentially being dismissed. + Online Distance relationships + Real life relationships + Please send me a picture of yourself in your e-mail. If you cannot do so due to confidentiality reasons, I would be able to do a one-sided Skype call, where I can see you, but you will not be allowed to see me until I deem it necessary.

In the past two months, I've been so busy, I had absolutely no time to come onto this site. My mailbox is insanely full right now, as is my schedule, but I may try to drop back in sometime to check my messages! :)

I am now INSANELY busy due to work, so don't expect a response, even if I read your message. I'll respond when I feel like it, and not a moment before that.

Been super busy due to work. Responses to your messages will come when they do. I have about enough time in my day to sign on to read a few messages, but not that much to respond.

Sometimes, I wonder if people on this site realize that I am a real human being with real emotions and needs, or if they just think I'm their fetish, their proverbial wet dream, something that can be used to whet their appetite, instead of someone who they actually wish to have a real meaningful relationship with.

I get so many messages from prospective subs or slaves who clearly did not even read my profile, demanding domination from me as though I am some sort of Domme vending machine where you insert money or spoiling or whatever else it is that they think they are "offering" in exchange for abuse and specific kinks (some of which are even my hard limits!). In fact, most of the messages I receive are very often entirely focused on what the other person wants from me/wants me to do to them, instead of about what they can offer me, or how they envision a relationship with me, which are things I flat out request in my profile.

And then, there are all those subs/slaves who actually manage to hook me through pretty words or promises and then when I actually want to take it to the next level and make it serious, they suddenly disappear without a word. This has happened quite a number of times already, which has led me to believe that there are a lot of people on this site who are not really on it for real relationships, but for fetishistic purposes. Essentially, I've been made to feel used for the purposes of domination, which is a terrible thing considering I am a Domme, and Dommes should not be USED, but served and worshiped.

I don't know if anyone will actually bother to even read this journal, but, honestly, I'm sick and tired of all these time wasting, insincere, self-centered fake "subs" who get off on writing out their fantasies to a Domme and making promises they do not actually intend to keep. If you are of this category, do us both a favor -- don't contact me. I am extremely busy and extremely serious about finding something meaningful, and if you are not, or if all you want is a pro Domme or sessions or someone to "use", just remember the next time you choose to do so, you're actually fucking around with a real human being and not some figment of your hottest femdom imagination.

I don't understand why there are so many fake subs and slaves on this site. If you are NOT serious about a real time or distance/online D/s relationship, DO NOT CONTACT ME.

Spontaneous Team Domme date on a complete whim with my little sister and her prospective sub, where we took him shopping for lacy panties for himself. (And a few items for her.) I had him kiss my feet on his knees in a wet parking lot tonight after we had him change into a pair of lacy panties in the bathroom of a restaurant.

All in all, a fairly entertaining night.

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