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Do you find the right submissive or do you create the right submissive. Training leading and forging. 

It chased a security bit that rolled under the washing machine..

I smiled, it pleased me.

Some submissive are like butterflies. They flutter into your life to be admired and enjoyed.  While there is a strong desire to cage them. They are best to let them go wild as that is what is best for them..

Some sit on my lap,

Some sit by my side.

Some sit by my feet.

Some sit very far away.  Laughs

What do you mean you Don't want to share your sub drop with me?  I don't  allow mime to experience sub drop on thier own.  The roller coast of emotions isnt fun to recover by yourself.  

Training, transformation and transitioning.  It not an easy path to take but these are not the glue that holds a relationship together.

Trust, building understanding loyalty and the willingness to invest time and effort. 

Time is the great truth revealer. If very little is risked it translate to very little value. 

I must be asking for the world. Understand compassion  and empathy and the ability to create a relationship and not to find it. 

Laughs. 

Why I do not train others? People are like a pandora's box. Once they are open, it is impossible to put them back in their box back to their orginal forms. 

They learn how to please and interact differently than your typical vanilla relationship. Once they are comfortable in the lifestyle, going back is hard to do. There is comfort in knowing what is expected and knowing what needs to be done to please and to perform add stability to a mess of a life.  

It difficult deal with those who are left alone without that strong influence in their life.  They tend to flounder a bit before they can create their own structure of a life. Relationship after care is more important than after care after a session. 

Your submission should be awesome. While there is no doubt that I can make your submission envious of others, I do warn you that others will come sniffing around in attempts to steal you away. Lazy people steal.  I create. You become art to be admired. 

If your submission inspires, I will create a nude bronze statue of you and donate that statue to a blind museum. So others would have an image of your naked body in their minds.  Lumps bumps warts and wrinkles.

Now that is inspiration. Laughs

The submission from a submissive should be a joyful event. 

Phyiscal maturity is easy to determine Emotional maturity is comes from dealing with the daily crap we go through and surviving.

I am not wise I just been through more than you. 

I was called a rare find today. 

I responded rare doesn't mean valuable.

Left socks are rare if they go missing.lol

Rare doesn't mean valuable..

Of course rare doesn't snap a collar and leash on you.

Rare doesn't delight in you panting and drooling.

Rare doesn't make your body ache..

Just give me a heart so I can give it the experience of burnning. 

Give me a soul that can thrive under my intensity. 

I am truly madding and quiet implusive. 

I drag souls with me to see what mischief we can get into.

I relate to those who struggle but I also realize that you can not help those who refuse to help themselves. Calling for help isn't the problem, it calling for help and refusing to accept help when it comes. 

Do not settle for less. Your happiness has value. Submission form misery is easy.  I do not take the easy path.

  Which Submission is sweeter from the mindless or the intelligence? 

Abandoned sub and slaves, it seems I always encounter those poor souls. I swear I could build a community of these lost souls.

You do realize that recovery time is going to take time right? An intense session does take time to recover. Some recover quicker than others. If you drain someone's emotional energy. It will take more that a drink, a warm blanket and a nap to recover..

If you let others who do not have your best interests at heart have a say in your life. You will never be that awesome person you can be. 

Of course I can solve a huge amount.of problems but problems are not the glue that holds a relationship together.  Truth does communication to create understanding does. 

A loyal sub is has an extreme value. A sub that wanders to the greener lawn isn't worth investing time in.

There a certain cruelty about teasing a person in chastity. The shaking, the drooling and the mumblings of begging for release. No you don't please me. You haven't suffer enough.  Your body hasn't reacted enough.  You have not sweated enough. You called me sweet and kind. Heck I am a curse.  

New years is the time for maids, cleaning task are abound. Service with a smile is a must! Clean and pressed uniforms..

May you Service at great parties! 

If you tell me you do anything for me, you will be tested, who is up for tap dancing? Laughs 

Poor slave,  wanting to be anything I want to be.  It will dress anyway I want it to be. It will do anything I want it to be.  Leading someone with no desires other than to please isn't as easy as it sounds. 

I know it sounds cruel but I am a clothes  tossing sob. This is horrible for those who clothes are important to them.  Going on a proper shopping spree means the worn out, the ugly clothes go away. 

A happy submissive sinks deeper into submission.

Slave undercover or yelling to the world this one is own?  Knowing which kind of slave you have is important. Some bloom with the added attention  others will run in fear for being exposed.. know which they are is important. Making the wrong choice will negatively affect how deep thier submission is toward you.

Some people just don't make good coffee tables. Laughs 

I Display mine not to show control more pride in owner ship.

Every one loves parties but few stay behind to clean up the mess.  Laughs. Those who break promises do not get an invite back. 

A structure life is not for everyone.  In the beginning the learning is steep. 

May you all be cursed with happiness and health.

If you can not build trust, your not ready for what comes next. 

It not the size or the age it about the sweet honest submission that flames the passions. 

Wrinkled old battle scared body that is sensitive to my touch is better than any youthful body that numb the sensation to touch.

Just because you wander off doesn't mean I am going to chase.  

While having nude submissive around constantly might be amusing. The reality is that any furniture that comes in contact will need to be cleaned more often.

Mental note, if you have too many naked submissives tied under a tree. They are going to attempt to have an orgy and blame you when they make a mess..  laughs  Merry Christmas..

You have to be this tall to ride this ride. Laughs.

Some people can not handle the word NO.

If you crowd your mind with fantasies, there is no room for reality. 

If you use your life to build walls and you got your goal. Screaming to the world that your lonely should be polite ignored. 

While cutting off underwear sounds kinky. Sometime it just means I grow tired of you wearing crappy underwear that doesn't fit or is causing you issues. Lol

If the goal is happiness, why do you self sabotage yourself  from achieving your goal? 

Just because you have a problem doesn't motivate me to step in and fix it. 

Some people can not handle being playful. It hard for them to submit to someone who think it fun to dress up a submissive. Their image is sitting on the floor in chains always.  

Cursed with happiness is a term I use to about being  happy and in order to get rid of it. It takes great effort. 

I refuse to hate what does not work out. I rather have them move on before they start trashing something that had great potential. 

So what kind of maid are you? 

Metal? Leather? Chain? Pain? Rubber? Naked? Leashed? Bondage? Suspended? Chased? Motorized?  

A good relationship makes you want to constantly interact with them. They are a bright spot in your life.  If you starve that relationship with the attention it deserves, who are you going to blame when it crashes and burns. 

Sometimes it not the orgasm that bind the relationship. Sometime it what comes afterwards.

What I offer is not for most people,  while some see it as a restricted life style. I see it a life filled with guide lines. 

Some people will eat highly processed food to an extent that it will negatively effect their health.  Having your submissive go to a nutritionist to give you better health is being responsible for what is yours. Teaching a submissive to have a balance life is not easy and it does take time but once you find yours. Making sure it going to last maximum amount of years is important.

Time has the ability to expose the truth.  Pretty words are just pretty words until they are backed up by the truth.

It is easy to judge and classify. It how our brain works in an attempt to cope with massive amounts of information. 

Pick your favorite color. Now try to judge and classify it. 

Your expectations and experience with the color is mixed in with your judgement. 

It a difficult to judge and classify the color. The more detail the answer the more of a chance of creating misunderstanding..

Sharing the experience of color is more of an effective way to create the understanding of color. 

Experiencing a relationships is different that reading about it. If a simple description of color can cause misunderstanding. The complexities of a great relationship is literally indescribable to create understanding. One must experience it. 

If your sub has issues with it's privates.  Using a vaccum chamber to make it grow is definitely a new hard limit. 

A great relationship is a source of joy and happiness. Yet people play games and they start to do damage to the thing they claim what they want. 

How strong is your Submission and does it grow with my dominates? 

The most well chosen words means very little if understanding hasn't been created. 

If I own you, this doesn't mean just the orgasm generating sections of your body. This means all of your faults and issues. Yes, I understand that issues and problems create a crumbling foundation for a relationship. 

Creating an environment where bdsm can happen isn't difficult. The biggest issue is protecting it from forces of the outside world and the forces from inside.  Drama and egos are toxic

I stare into it's soul. Trying to connect. It tells me what it think I want to know and not reality of want it is. It has learned through a tough life to lie to itself and others. I stare at it with it's wall that it has built.  Yes, walls keep you safe but it prevents you from connect to a soul you really want.  

Tearing down walls is scary for both parties. 

My Christmas tree farted. There a temptation to ignite the fart but I rather smell pine scent than burning farts laughs.

Suspension in ropes. Tied to a singular swivel point. Battery operated Xmas lights..

If you can balance the sub correctly, a riding crop can easily spin the sub around and around. 

Yea yea upside down would look cooler but that shorten the time frame for observation. 

I really need to create a leather harness so I can flip and twirl with easy.

Some relationships take very little effort. Unfortunately my relationships takes more time and effort. 

Intensity has it costs with time and effort.  Communication breeds understanding between souls. Yes, you have the right to limit those who interact with you but attempting to find what one wants and needs takes a huge amounts of time.

My kind of lifestyle is not for everyone. It consumes attention and energy that it can affect other relationships in your life and life events.

If I pinned you to the floor with your hands pin above your head, would it scare you or excited you? 

A great relationship is like art work. Beautiful to experince. Hard to produce. Criticized by many.  Laughs.

Never Hire someone you can not fire. Cooks, maids, gardeners, mechincs, programmer, electrical technicians, hvac people and the list goes on and on. 

A submissive who has poor skills is harder to fire. Much like bad performing relatives in business. Laughs..

Waiting isn't life.  Sharing the ups and downs is life. 

When forging a strong relationship, the question comes up of how much time do you have to invest in this relationship?  Little time and effort produces very poor results. 

If you do not invest the time, the relationship you want will be like chasing clouds.

For some the need for submission is greater that it's own sexual classification. Some people's submissions are a joyful event. Given support and a safe place, they bloom big and bright.  Never been a fan of dark fearful submission. 

It might sound creul to say but I do not wait for others to catch up. I am not stationary in life. I am constantly learning and growing. Yup I am a freaken moving target. I am a kind of person who grabs a hold and leads. I am not fearful of failure because I know recovery from horrible things is part of life. Who I am and what I am isn't for everyone one nor do I wish to be that way. 

Kink and sexual rapture is fun and enjoyable but building a solid relationship is more satisfying to me. It not the ropes, toys or fuels my passions. It the depends upon me and the responsibility of a sub's life which motivate and drives me in life. 

If you meow at me, I will put a bell around your neck. Laughs

Have I ink my subs? Only for breast reconstruction surgery. Breast cancer does a number on a subs self worth.   

Stepping on a oxygen hose is not breath control lol 

Farting in the intake on a breathing machine is only fun if the submissive laughs or complains. 

If surgery can be used to create a hole, surgery can be used to tighten one up. 

Is it cruel to feed your submissive food that gives it terrible gas just so you can fart.bomb friends and family. Laughs

Tape and tie bells on a sub, just so it can be trained to play Christmas music naked.  Jiggle for me!

Submission given is sweeter than taken.  It last longer and is stronger.

Hard path.  

Yes, there will be times when you feel like I just ran you over. Your demons and issues will become my delight in dealing with. Your issues and problems will run off to the hill naked clutching thier privates.  Laughs 

Why the skirt?  Easier to lift. Laughs

Got submission?  Laughs. 

If you tell me your a pig, I will play banjo music while you are greased and squealing. Laughs..

If I feed you beacon? Do I call you a cannibal? Laughs..

Remember a pig in a mud pit can't run very fast lol 

While I have great problem solving skills, problems are not a solid base to a relationship. 

Some of the easiest things you can say is very difficult to do. 

While this society produces many princesses, it produces very few princes. Thanks disney laughs.

Finding that winning lotto ticket is different than making that cash with hard work. 

It is easy to bind the legs open. It take someone special to hold them open when extreme orgasms are happening.

I lead, you follow. If you don't follow you will be left behind.  Is that a bad thing? Not in the slightest. Some people are like butterflies. Enjoy them while they are close and let them fly to find thier happiness.  

I am difficult to serve. 

If you think doing stuff for me is going to make me slow down and rest. That doesn't work. Cuddles work tho laughs

I am not superior, I just been through more than most.  Life moves forward so trying to connect with another is always been a moving target thing so this waiting game people play to attempt to catch up doesn't work. If you caught up to what was, you caught up with the ghost of what was.  So how do you keep up? Grab a hold and build a life together. Build a relationship. 

Is it a curse to ask your submissive to experience 10 thousand orgasms. I will have to push them around in a wheel chair afterwards. I will have to learn a new language of grunt and groans to communicate. There going to be a lot of drooling I bet. I will have to sponge bath them. Plan meals, dressing them everyday.  With that kind of experience I bet diapers are going to be needed. 

Just because you can, doesn't mean you should but if your going for the extremes be responsible for your behavior and actions.

Why the large mirror?  So that it can look in the mirror and admire the changes that are happening. Every submissive should have a extremely large closet.

There are many who desire that special relationship but few understand what it takes to have another human value the ground that you walk on.  

The reason why I rush about?  There is so much life to experince and so many adventures to have.  Waiting for another is extremely frustrating. Laughs

I mean really if you ask someone to show you thier issues, the are going to throw up a huge wall and tell you to go away. Laughs

I wished the ex sub  a happy birthday. 82 is an amazing age to reach.

I use to joke with it about having it carved in stone naked and donating the art work to a blind museum. So blind people will know what wrinkles it had. 

If your privates are now my stress ball release toys, how would deal with it? Would you smile or run for the hills? 

Nutritionist are used to make sure your eating healthy. I change your life style cause your bad habits are slowly killing you. 

You wearing a cowboy hat and boots is just for amusement and maybe Christmas cards laughs

Just because I bound your wrists behind your back and fold you over the sofa doesn't mean there going to be sexual activities.  Sometimes I just want a little peace and quiet. Laughs..

While I can not erase the hell you been through, I can change your future. Hope is amazing that way. It a hard path I choose not because it is simple, it is because it give me a chance to live the life I want to. 

Life no matter how long is always too short.  

Being the responsible type, I have to make sure you are in a safe place to grow I that way. 

I would be much of a leader and  protector if I put what is mine in harms way.

Some people just can not keep up and wander off. Laughs

There is just something deliciously rude about legs being tied wide open. The quivering voice of a submissive begging for any attention. The need just driving them slowly mad spending hours being exposed. How cruel it would be if subspace was denied. 

The extra padding under the carpet isn't for the comfort of my feet but comfort of an older submissive. 

Someone needs a short leash. Laughs. Dam thing keeps wandering off. 

You would think that a cabin in the woods would allow a person the ability to have outside orgasmic screams without too much troubles. Laughs. 

If your  cabin has a view, you be surprised how far sound can travel. Expect a visit from concern neighbors, forest Rangers, the police and odd stares from the locals.. laughs.

Once the shaking screaming and hate Peter's out, then come the hope and dreams

There is something to be said about adding jingle bells with rope harnesses during the holiday season. 

How to make yours dress well.  Dress them funny. 

I do not doubt my ability to train and transform but I do doubt the ability of some to stay afterwards. 

The destruction of you will never be my goal, you being happy to submit is my goal. Fear and anger are effective tools but painting a canvass with minium color ls is self limiting.  

Do not put me on a high mountain top and bow at my feet.  I will roll down the hill laughs. A good life is a fully engaged life. 

I shine brightly in dealing with responsibilities. 

You deserve to be happy, do not allow anyone tell you otherwise. 

If you suspend someone in a skirt make sure the dress isn't too long.  You miss the surprise look when you blow up the skirt with the electric leaf blower.

Miss opertunities will give you regrets, laughs

So you have nude photos of yourself, do you really think that is going to keep a relationship based person interested for long? Laughs

Training and transformation isn't a walk in the park. It a hard path to choose but the rewards are amazing.

If your scared of making the wrong choices you won't be brave enough to leap when you need to.

There is something special when you grab yours and put them on the counter. The heat, the heart racing and the  wild look are better in person than read on line. 

 If you trap your mind in a book, you miss the life you could have had. 

There is a difference between being a reader of a book compared to being the muse for the book to be written.

What do you mean nude bungee jumping is a hard limit?  

If you deal with hardened souls, binding them high is rather boring. Drop them a few feet bounded in ropes and suddenly their senses are highten. 

It is all  fun and games until the sub ends with pee up thier nose. The hazards of upside down bondage. 

If your future is bright the shadows of the past fade in time.

If you want intensity, you have to be ready for it. 

If you leap from relationship to relationship and are never alone, when you find someone special you might be too busy to spend the time to create that relationship you want.

Do not let fear and hate dictate the life you want to be happy.

Yes, you can scream loud but can you create understanding?  Entertaining news isn't very entertaining or news worthy

 laughs. 

What makes us strong isn't those easy sunny days, we get stronger by the storms that the world send our way. We will survive this and we will all get stronger. Keep your friends close and protect what is important to us. 

Gothic clown nurse, Time to chalk up something new to somebody's list of hard no on.  So you think Your mommy dresses you funny just wait until the sheer blown panic sets when you are sent shopping dressed in something that will draw attention to you and most likely end up on some website. Laughs.  Remember the internet is forever. 

With passion come creative kink. Metal maid, metal uniform, task performanced in time with metal music. 

What kind of maid are you? If you do not know, you need to find out.  Now strike a pose metal maid. Laughs

Welcome to the bdsm version of a life coach. Laughs

You can not lead from behind, leading from the front will cause you troubles. You can not assign everyone's opinions at the same level. You have to trust your gut and forge ahead and be an adult when things fail. 

It a troublesome and painful life at times but it the only way that have a full life with very little regrets.

There is something fun about tossing refrigerator magnetics on to metal underwear. 

Bottle opener on metal underwear. Kind of a fun thing for parties. 

I do not expect you to endure the things i have in store for you, I expect you to fail spectacularly but with failure comes growth and strength. Weakness is the fear of trying. 

If I smack your ass, how high would you jump and what would you do to get another smack? Laughs.

Unloyal ones get the life they truly deserve. 

Of course you have problems, we all do. It how we handle them that makes is who and what we are. Yes I can grind you down but if you represent my time, effort and skills. A useless meat puppet is an insult of who and what I am. 

Do not let your issues and problems be that chain to bind you to a life you do not want. 

Of course I expect you to fail. Do you really think you could succeed every single time?  Harshness and punishment doesn’t mean I do not care. It means I know you can do better than you think you can. If you dictate your own ceilings aren't you putting limits on what could and should be? 

Why to bondage? Have you ever over stimulated someone? They buck pretty dam hard. Laughs

Rigging is an art form it strans and moves with the person. Thin ropes thick ropes and of course there the colors.  Tie point and pivot points.

It the adult version of arts and crafts with sexual tension mixed in. It easy to find a willing subject but sharping your craft on a temporary subject is well just that temporary. 

Can you tap dance? 

How good is your research skill on under water power generation systems? 

Could you buck a woody doll off your back in a humbler with a remote sex toy in you? 

Be awesome and amazing.  Do not travel alone in life. Some Experinces only come once in your lifetime. Sharing them with the right relationship make a life a bit of heaven.

People assume I am too soft and too friendly. I am one of those who follow the hard path in life. An open pair of legs won't impress me. Being mine does equate having an easy life. Ruling by fear and hate is easy for me. What I search for is not easy. I am not fearful of failure nor hate. Why am i supportive of what is mine? Cause it makes the submission a heck of alot sweeter. 

You can not learn from easy and perfect is boring and delusional. Life is full of emotions and passion is amazing. 

The ability of improvement is important. The ability to create understanding. Knowing how to build a relationship. These are important to me.

The lovely tourment of orgasms is an art form but it in celebration of a great relationship. Way too many want to take the easy way. Celebration without the hardest work you ever been through.

It is amazing to reduce yours into an exhausted lump of sweaty mush and instead of it crawling away.. it crawls towards you and croaks at you one word again. 

I know I ask alot and demand a lot and running toward the hills is easy but than again I am not looking for easy. Laughs

So you like to be humiliated? Making a mold of your privates and creating an odd looking jackolantern is certainly amusing.  

What do you mean wearing cat ears and singing soft kitty is a hard limit? Laughs

So you think your broken?  What you think as broken I find interesting. 

So you ashamed of your nakeness? That is your judgment not mine. Do not project  your faulty judgements on to me.

Too big, too small? As long as you smile when you feel my touch, it doesn't matter.

A ball gage isn't just to shut you up, it allows you to think before you speak. Choose your words well think of thier impact and review the results.  Do you create understanding or put another brick in the wall?

What I do to you is addictive, I keep your eyes open so you can judge if this is the kind of life you want.

If you are tied in ropes, sometimes people pass gas. Do not try to light those farts, trips to the er is never fun. 

Are your  responsibly enough to handle things when they go wrong? 

Some people are like  butterflies, enjoy them while they are in the hear and now.

Submission from a lowly broken soul is easy. Submission from an awesome amazing person is dam hard but worth the struggle.

Servicing me does not equate to abandonment of the things and causes that you hold dear to your heart. 

It is easy to share your sexuality but it so hard for someone to share the bad parts of it's personality. 

Short term verse long term. Shall we talk about retirement? Where are ypu going to buried?  Funeral costs? Life insurance? Long term care? Aftercare after sessions? After care of at the end of the relationship?  Many people desire subs kneeling at thier feet. Few are responsible enough to take care of them long term. 

Fear will tie you to the life your have and not life you want. 

So it like being restrained. I dragged it to take a sand bath. I teased it and said look there a dog peeing on the trash can. It panicked and i laughed.  No there wasn't a real dog. Dog can't give you consent lol

If you Increase the sensitivity of your submissive's skin, holding hands can be very amusing. 

If your a joy to be around, people will flock to you. 

There is nothing like a pointed stick to do a proper inspection. Something flexible but yet strong enough to give a poke when needed. Something wide enough to be use as a thump but small enough to give a sting to correct bad behaviors.

It's not the duration that counts, it the dedication and the desire to stay on task which is important.

In control or an attempt to have some influence over the random crap that flows through a life.  Laughs 

While I am capable and responsible enough to implement my influence to guide a person to a better life, this can not be the bases of a relationship. 

If you were sleeping and i decided to play with your body I wonder what kind of dreams you will have. 

Glow in the dark body paint makes a simple Halloween ghost very interesting. Laughs

If you amp up the connection with yours and it wants to crawl into your clothes just to be naked skin to skin, it kind of your fault. Laughs

A session is like building a roller coaster. A life style is like building an amusement park. 

 Be someone's source of happiness and joy. Scrafice only to the ones who appericate.

It just not getting control of another which is important but it also being responsible for the results of taking control. 

The potential for growth, the ability to create understanding, apperication of time and effort is greater than a pair of legs opening up and hoping your going to find someone or ones special. 

People tell me thier body shape and size, like that is going dictate how they submit. Lol

Sorry, I am not interested in training other people Doms, Subs or Slaves. While others may state that I am losing a opportunity for kink, I look at  it as creating free time to invest my energy into someone special. 

A stone carving of your naked body on display in a museum of the blind. How many blind people will know what your body shape is like? 

A wall of silicone molds of your privates on the wall maybe a little pump to get them all oozing..

Xmas cards with your orgasm face might be amusing.

Some stumble across thier one. Others find compatible one. Others change to attract one. 

It is another ball park to create yours.

With struggles and walking the hard path. Life has greater meaning..

It not always easy to create an environment so you can be who you are but it well worth the struggles. 

If I fail to train you, is it really your fault? Since I am the responsible type, the fault is on my shoulders. 

So you think you can not keep up?  Laughs  what do you think training is for? 

Some people are easily lead by a collar. Others you just have to tie them to a furniture dolly and pulled along naked.

The perfect foot stool. Now where is that remote control? Hey foot stools are supposed to be quiet and not leaking.

Laughs.

Been asked what I can do and be for you.

Response. 

Succeed in being happy.

With Extreme Emotional releases it wears out the soul.  Crying screaming bawling the emotional out pour is amazing. 

All without pain or sexual components. A great sub is an open book. Interactions are though provoking. A great model inspires masterpieces of art.  

Be amazing and stay curious. 

Yes, Yes, I can make a cage that you can sleep under my bed.. but sleeping intertwined is a treat.

Tits up and be the reason why your god get worried.

When things begin to grenade apart, emotional maturity show the most. 

I know I know I generally never post about politics but I do grow tired of the parties of hate and the tiresome ways they attempt to attempt of manipulation. If you can not build a bridge and build respect you should not be in the poltical system that also ring true in bdsm relationships.

If my goal was kink and sex, my life would be a whole lot simpler. Laughs

Do I just go after broken ones? I do not think so at least that is not my intentions. Problems do not make for a great foundation for a relationship. Problems get solved and suddenly there is nothing to work on together. 

Words spoke in sincerity and in truth, should always be valued but stolen words spoken,  are hallow and those people should avoided. 

Intensity is not because I want to nor need too. It is inspired to do so. 

When DS relationship matures with time, it becomes an art form.

Doing what we do and being who we are, you would figure that judgemental attitudes should be tempered but no. You just end up with smaller groups of judgement people..laughs.

Before having grand ideas of changing society, shouldn't you have the knowledge and the ability to create one? 

The wonderful internet is the grand social experiment on how humans react towards each each others. 

What my kink? 

I am a freaken happiness junkie.. laughs

With most things practices and hard work create wonderful results. Yet there are those who seek that perfect relationship without doing any work.  

Is there the one or shouldn't you seek one that is willing to grow with you. 

If you are going to crawl down that rabbit hole, I am going to dress you like a bunny!

Laughs. What do you mean, too much is wrong with you and that is just another excuse for you to run.  How are you going to run when your bounded to me and I delight in chasing your demons that plaque your life.  You hug your demons so close cause you do not know how to be without them. 

Blind folding is a blessing to be earned. There is something to be said about recording sessions.  Not for masterbation material nor to share it with the world. More of a self discovery of who and what you are and is this is the path way you want to be. What are you feeling? What is motivating you,  is there something you could have done better?  Imagine if your sessions were improving every single time. Better aftercare? I did not like this but I loved that and of course can we do something longer? 

I demand more from you, not because i want to see you fail but because i know you can succeed..

If howling at the moon eases your pain, we might have something in common. 

If the world knew the kinkiest thing have done, would you run and hang your head in shame or would post and brag about it? 

Did you know extreme commitment has requirements that need to happen before requests are even considered? 

Intensity demands understanding. Responsible requires trust. A great relationship equals mind blowing sessions. Passion and compassion are on the same side of the coin.

Trust found isn’t the same as trust earned.

Greatness is not found it is grown and earned. 

If your relationship died, did you starve it? Did you take it for granted? 

Some people fill thier lives with made up stories instead of really experiencing them. I feel sorry for them. A life filled with imagination is just a hallow life. 

I am not your source of your next made up adventures, I choose to be alone rather than to waste time.

Following someone else's teachings isn't following your own self discovery.  Most people can act but few really understand about being.

Alone gives one opportunities. A full and busy life limits what truly amazing things you can accomplish.

Many people desire the person at thier feet but they do not understand how to get a person there. 

Can you cook and clean?

Can you communicate to create understanding? 

Can you share the monsters in your head? 

Can I play with you in ways that make other people to runaway?

Can you live a life where you never shower alone?

Can you live a life where not only your privates are not your own but your brain is not yours also?

If you can not fight for what you need and allow the world to steal it away from you. Who fault is it when your find yourself alone? 

Would you rather find that great relationship or create it?

Why many can go 90 mph down the road. Steering and braking is important to have to go where you want to go and brakes makes sure ypu stick on the road. 

Do you keep your broken toys? If they are n loved very well of course.

There comes a time when things become irreplaceable. Train well Train hard.

There a reason why your urn is sitting on the shelf.

People think I have to grind someone down so that they can follow. Heck I pick them up so they can keep up. Laughs

I rather have it show me it's ability to learn and understand compared to naked pictures.

So you won't do this or that. Well I respect that request but honestly there are more terrifying things I can do to you without it showing up on a xray.  Your therapist will look at you as a source of money and most likey name a condition after you.  Laughs

With great power comes a greater responsibility. How to make a room full of submissives scatter. Walk in and state I am bored.. laughs

Lots of people can not endure but that is OK. 

I walk on egg shells so I don't shatter people around me. 

Passible or non Passable? Ears perk. Side ways look.

In this judgmental world, bounded by hate, run by mob rule.

You seek approval of these people?  You just have to be you. Lump bumps warts and all. It is more pleasant to deal with the truth than a masked one. I do not seek approval, I seek the truth and understanding. Some are just not capable of it. Arguements only work if both parties come into it to seek common understanding. 

I understand it tough to stand up for yourself but sometimes you have to to protect the relationship you have worked so hard to get a real submissive truely works hard to find ways to submit and a dominant works hard so that submission is easier to do.

Remember eye hooks in the ceiling are fun but eye hooks max weight rating lessen when the load is at an angle.

Words that seem to upset some. 

Make me a sandwich..

I am voting for...

Get ready in XX minutes

Where do you want to eat?

Does it matter what the world thinks of your relationship? 

If you going to ride a bike, your going to have to eat a lot of bugs. If you going to hang around bdsm people, someone is going to look at your brain as play ground.  It may never happen but some one will think it.

If you avoid and hide from the world I understand but if you hide from me, you endanger the relationship. A lot of people can not create the relationship they want and need. Old cursed damage prevents people from holding out their souls to be bound to another. 

I do not steal another person's submissive.

Asking me to lie is a major red flag.

Can't I find someone close? Of course I can a bit of an ill fit but I can cure those issues. Evil grin.

Of course i demand everything you got. That included those dark secrets you never told anyone about. The things that turn you into the wonderful drooling mess. The cracks and failures that drive others away seem to attract me. 

What I do is addictive and I warn potential partners about the things I am capable of. I am not afraid of failures or problems. I am just not built that way. Any of my exs should be thought of kindly. 

I am the keeper of many dark secrets. I am your Safe port where you can cry to the heavens. Healing is a process. Expression is good for the soul. This doesn't feed the ego, it draws another soul closer. That patch of ground at my feet grows in value. 

While I appericate the opportunity to have a session, without the relationship component,  sessions will start to feel like masterbation using another person as a tool. Fun but lacks in satisfaction.  Just because I can doesn't mean it will happen.

You know when you are getting older when your Safe word is cramp!

Just because you sign up for bondage it does not mean your going to get an orgasm. 

While pallet wrap sounds like fun, heat exhaustion should not be a part of that fun.

While duct tape can be fun, removing the glue from the clothing underneath is a real pain.

You know there are people allergic to the glues in tape.

 Safe words are important but if you play to a point when the mind can not produce words other forms of communication is needed.

Actors and actresses will bow out when the curtains are closed.

It not access to the body I need it access to your brain I seek.

Since I can manufacture bdsm toys and furniture, you would have thought I would have a warehouse full. Nope, why? Would I keep used toys? 

Memmories of sessions past should never be thought of during present sessions.

Inspiration comes from what is current.

Being an intensive junkie,  it a good thing to avoid Friday night, weekend end submissives. It not the session which causes issues, it the aftercare recovery length time wise. Healing the body is easy compared to the mental state. Some people take a much longer time to recover 

Coffee analogy. Laughs..

Making that perfect cup takes time and effort.  Instant coffee is never good as the really stuff. It take time to make, find and buy that perfect maid outfit.  Proper high heels with legs tied close enough to shuffle with small steps. Part of serving coffee is knowing it is more than just coffee. Presentation enhances the experince.  Servicing coffee is an art form. Many want the experience of being served but few understands how to make it happen.  

Some people walk with style and grace, other people walk like a zombie. Other people walk like a cat on a leash. Laughs

A muffled orgasm is not as fun as a scream your lungs out orgasm. Ear protection is important. 

I have been accused many times of being controlling. General I laugh it off. Other people's opinions only have value if I give it value.

But I happy to explain the who what and where..

I have dealt with others with mental issues. Now keeping someone sane isnt always easy but those techniques does will work well with submissives.  Sleep is important. A structer life brings focus.. creating a more effective submissive is more fun. No more guessing what needs to be done. It is explained and been taught how it is done. A better life, a more focus life..

Making a submissive wear jiggle bells and taking them shopping is always fun..adding a shock collar makes waiting in line at star bucks a blast. Now is that the remote for the collar or the remote for the anal plug?  Laughs

So many people want but very few prepare to get what they want.  

Sometimes it a blessing that they run off.. they are not ready for what is offered to them.

You need time and you need to put in the effort. If you want someone to get you, you got to have conversations that create understanding. 

If you think orgasms and pain are the only tools in my tool box. You poor thing you still have a lot to learn.

Crying is a tool and well as screaming.  Stripped of your manners and sanity what would left? a mental session needs some pretty intense aftercare. 

I don't train other people's projects, I rather concentrate on my own. 

The wants and needs makes us go crazy. That is why people in isolation are always a bit odd. Isolation is a punishment. Corner time, cage time, being ignored all tend to affect people so much.  These social media companies are like drug dealers feed us and creating want and need. 

Now let's add the social needs with sexual kink needs. How strong of a bond can be created?  Happiness is stronger that rope and chain.

Lots of people say they are but few prepare for it. Laughs

Grabbing the privates on a submissive tends to make them focus and doesn't let thier mind wander too far off track. Laughs

If your moldable and trainable being that perfect fit isn't an issues.

Grab your privates and run.  Laughs

Trained for a moment and now your an expert? Oh hardly, laughs 

Are you submissive enough? Can you be trained to perform well? Are you loyal?  Can you communicate to create understanding? 

The fear of addiction keeps some from experiencing everything that can happen. 

A short answer.

? What wil i be.

Answer back..

Happy.

Sometime safe words just don't work, common sense needs to kick in. Being responsible is important, Especially when the other is in subspace. 

What do you mean, you can not keep up. If i have influence from way over here, how are you going to handle being closer.

Saw a hucow today and all I thought was I need a bag of magic beans. Lol

I have received a message of I will do anything for you. While many are willing to jump in my life during the fun times, I see many run off during the roll your sleeves up and we got work to do times.  If I am more that capable of collecting trophies but trophies are only fun when you get them afterwards they sit on a shelf and get dusty.

While there are many who will party with you, there are fewer who will help you setup for an event and even fewer who will help you clean up afterwards. I like hanging out after wards, you meet a better class of people. 

6 hour drive? Hmm 6 hours In a trunk?  Laughs

Are you compatible? Laughs I can train you to become what I want and need. 

The better question  would be:

Can you learn and grow?

Do you communicate well enough to create understanding?

Do you have the time to invest?

Does your submissive nature increase or decrease before during or after?

Are you one of those who looking for the act and the Dom is just a prop?

While acting pales against having the real thing, what are your goals.

How will you react if your passions  go into over drive?

When relationships end, the responsibility thing is to ween the person off of you.  The stronger the relationship, the need for aftercare is important.

Points for emotional maturity..

So how did you end up naked in a car? That right you dressed in something that is horrible and there was a clothes donation bin nearby.

A slave will typical state in a conversation that they have been trained by xyz person or persons. So your trained to someone else's standards. Being denied the opportunity to trained someone to ones own standards is disappointing.

I train to keep on a permanent bases. If I move, I take what is mine with me. One of the reasons why I do not train some one just because they want me to.  Time moves forward. Opportunities open and closes. It would be a shame if you find what you need and want and you had no time to invest..

You want me to what?  Of course I can solve your life issues and problems. I thrive being responsible but issues and problems are not a good basis of a long term relationship.

You are no prize and your social communication skills are laughable. You have no respect and all you know is that you want. 

What is more important is that can you listen and can to stick with someone who going demand things that you will fail at. 

This make most people grab their privates and run towards the hills. I am not for everyone. I bare the scars of many things that has gone wrong. 

Becareful what you wish for. Cause wanting is stronger that having.

That little spot of ground at my feet,  it has value and worth. Strangers who kneel there do not have a clue that  being there can cause drama. 

If your food is trying to kill you, of course I will get involded, a responsible person does those kinds of things. You want what is yours to have a long and healthy life. 

I get asked how many adult toys do I have. None. Why? New relationship, new toys.

When people don't show up or ghost. I celebrate, why? They have self eliminated themselves out of my life and I can spend that time into something else. 

Fleeing thought, I wonder if the meaning of the name Karen has universal meaning?

Some people get upset at others even tho they are not involded in that relationship. Do you know how funny it sounds when someone complains about others? 

If they are happy, leave them alone.  (Of course they are adults).

Inspired to post.  Some people run from failure. I run towards. When the tide of troubles grow deep a person true nature shows up.  The crack and flaws that make us human show up but yet there is something to admire when trouble is brewing. The wonderful defective person is the 1st person to show up.  

Pretty is sweet to look at but loyalty is 1000 percent better.

So you like to be humiliated?, so sing the I am a tiny weenie song on command. 

The results one very red face slave. Laughs 

Labels are quick way to  handle massive amounts of ... but labels are not customized to the individual. If your serious about life, love and kink, you deal with and understand the individual. 

Understand the flaws and cracks that make us human. Perfection is boring, dull and predictable. Life isn't predictable. 

I am a strong influence. It just my nature. Compartmentalizing relationships has never work well with me.

How can one be passionate about a fractional person or a imaginary person.

For some aftercare is a blanket, gatorade and time alone to process and recover. 

For others it is a whole lot of emotional crying, hugging, touching and a long session of a  confession of the soul. 

Connection and head space is important.  Communication and understanding is important not just during the session but before and afterwards.

I am not easily understood, I do not easy to get to know but than if life was easy we would not appericate it.

What do you mean you can not dance like a Korean cheerleader? Time to train!

Submission of a 20 something?  Lots of energy,  So many questions,  a hungry mind wanting to learn. Willing to accept any info as the truth. 

As I always say, your submission isn't always in a book or a web site.  My relationships are based upon the people who are involded. Others who  judge and have nothing to risk, their opinions should always be tempered. The goal should be happiness. What happens between two consenting adults that are happy. They should be wished well and ignored. 

The struggle to become who you are. For some it easy but for others is a freaken tough road to go but the funny thing about tough roads. They tend to polish the soul. Those souls are brighter and have greater depth. 

I do grow tired of those who won't start a relationship due to something they are waiting for. A strong bounded relationship is one where both have gone through the hardships of life. It so easy to find people when things are going well.

The health and care of yours. How serious are you? Low fat, low surgar and low salt is something to consider. Exercising regularly is important.  Emotional and spiritual stability is important. 

Oh there are times where people just wanted a session and the responsibilities would end when the session ended but no, I want long term and that is a hard path, I choose to go towards. 

Wrapped in shrink wrap is fun but not on a hot day. Heat stroke is a hard limit. Laughs

A well trained submissive is always in demand. If you do not prepare them to cope with that kind of attention. The like hood of them leaving is great.

If you train yours to greet you naked and in your position, understand that if you see them in public the urge to perform that form of greeting will still be present. Yea, I have cursed a few with that behavior. Laughs

No limits?  I rather not visit what is mine in the freaking mental ward. Some people just crumble under pressure. My happiness isn't built on crush souls.

I refuse to leave in my wake broken dreams, broken hearts  or broken people. I am usually stubborn about those things.

Short leash. Sometime you use a short leash to give the illusion of a chance to escape. It burns off more calories that way

Yes, I can lead but  what happens afterwards?  I don't want the slave wander around lost. Seen it before. I have heard the screams of a sad and lonely souls before. Aftercare sometimes it take time so that the slave can function by itself.

Recovery is not a 5 gallon bucket of ice cream and years of therapy. 

It is gone not sure where it has went but it is most definitely gone. Limits push to the point where the mind is still there but it just doesn't make sense anymore. Drooling and babbling is all it seems to be able to mustard. Spams come and go. It is sensitive to any touch and any stimulation just rips through it body.  It desperately hold onto a scarf dropping it will cause everything to stop and stubbornness won't allow it to let go. 

Becareful who you tangle with, do not allow dreams crushers and life sucks to steal parts of you away.

It is not question of  whether I have the ablity to train you but what comes afterwards that is more important. Submission is not the goal it a journey.  A session is not the goal it is a life experience. An exploration of who and what you are. 

It easy to find someone to uses you  but it not easy to find someone who going to appericate you and use you well enough that you grow in your submission.  

Sometimes it the little things that triggers pleasant memmories. Bending over a sub and using thier own clothes as  binding.  They jump around when you use thier privates as short leash. It not the act that I miss, it the jumping around which I find amusing. 

If your involded with another, move along and don't waste my time. 

What I do to people is extremely addictive. Structure, submission and managing sexual energy all take time and effort. There are many greedy people who will pretend to be single to get an experience. You cannot  build a great relationship based on a lie. Time has a habit of exposing the actors, actresses and role players. 

I am not going to wait until you get ready. Waiting and not being involded with the solution is just a waste of life and time that should be used to grow a relationship.

Do you really think people are going to wait until your perfect? Work hard on a relationships is a 2 person job. 

I rather have a person with faults and all than a perfect person.

There is something about the struggle that brings out the best in us.

Not everyone can handle a session. This includes pain and pleasure or both. Yes, I know one can know a person close enough to trigger responses that lead to the person passing out. It good to have thier phone number to make sure they are ok. Convincing them that going to bed is what they need. Passing out in front of a camera isn't restful at all.  Sometime fun has to be balanced with responsibilities.

I do not get hung up in labels but you have to be you. You don't define a label you define who you are. 

If I am not your emotional support? Why do I need you in my life? Some people can not handle being that close, it makes them run.

Cruel cruel cruel, it is one thing to send someone to grocery shipping for process food.  Send someone shopping for fresh veggies and protein.  Not so easy being sent out to buy fresh quality stuff.

Why is it crawling on the floor? Sign of respect? Sign of submission or maybe it crawls on the floor cause the legs have failed due to being played with too much. 

Drive the mind and the body will attempt to catch up.

It is one thing to create desire for what I can do. It is another to create a strong craving for relationship that took time and effort to create.

Basic 101. Can we create understanding? 

Of course I am not want you think I should be. Laughs 

But I am who I am.. to be what you want means I am acting lol. 

Some subs get happy when you tell them they are doing charity work. Like emptying out a truck for a some food drive.  Actions and words should always have weight. Relationships take time and effort.

Gaps of silences in a conversation is a good practice to learn.  The old fashion think before you speak. 

Since I don't allow others to mess with prospective slaves having them go quite help the typical emotion response when they communicate. 

Simply like saying to your self why are you attempting to influence me? 

Darn yapping puppies. Most are not worth time. Why? They lack being responsible and they lack the ability to have that strong relationship. 

The spot at my feet has value. If you show disrespect towards it. I have the right to kick you off. Don't waste my time. If you don't have what it takes.

Show me your worthiness and make me proud of you. I want I need that soul that I can scream to the world that one is mind.

Most others are like screaming puppies to me. I am not your solution to your problems. Yes, I can fix them but problems are not the basis anything long term.

I woke alone not because, I can not find just anyone. I walk alone cause I know when I find it. I can pour my time and energy into something that is special. My life isn't for everyone. My personality is rough around the edges. I. Do not seek perfection but the willingness to change for the better.  Dancing and singing take time and practice. Reading books is a hard no for some lol others read books like they have an empty soul. Lol.  Can you spend time in the garden? Can you howl at the moon?  Can you swing dance?  Have you had muscle cramps when you were rigged?   Health circulation, joints and nerves are important.  We all have personal baggage but if you can not handle the bumps in life.

And hold on tight to the relationship you help to create .why should someone spend time to build something that just goes poof. Laughs..

Go find your happiness.

I am not your prince nor I am your monster in life.

Do not follow me blindly. Do not try to mold me into something I am not. 

Do not bother me if you have a person in your life. It might curse you with a desire you cannot satisfy. 

Offers of sex and kink will be politely ignored. If that was my goal it would be  is easy to aquire. 

Do not follow where I go, I follow the hard path. It isn't easy life and it would cause most an unhappy existence.

We all go through life. If we allow others to steer where we go and what we do. You will find your self some place you don't want to be.

Pick carefully those you have in your life. Eyes wide open.  

Little naked sub got surprised by a bathroom door opening. So it bend down and threw up it arms with a fingers sticking up.

Why isn't that one mine? Simple it had a backup Dom, suddenly words of dedication turn meaninglessness.

Seems like a life time ago......

Little urn, little urn sitting on my shelf.

I wonder if the prayers I send to you are getting through?

The life you had was crazy. 

I friend zoned you before friend zone was a catch phrase. 

With all the things you had in your life, you needed a friend.

This digital site is like a virtual grave yard at times.

Visiting profiles reminded me of all those I have run across. 

I don't know what you told your brothers about our relationship 

But they gave me a little gift of you in an little urn. 

Rest well, rest in peace 

Some people sing during.. Some people pass out, some people talk in tongues, Some tinkle, some produce an amazing amount of self lubricant. Some people attempt to want to crawl into your skin to get closer, some stay in a safe corner to hide and others recover in the cage to be safe...

With grace and beauty as it walks.  A great relationship makes it seems effortless but once it is created it become of value.  Once it becomes so valuable, it can be stolen.  Once a  life of hope becomes darken, a certain sadness blankets the day. Time to recover and recreate something you know can create.

When I talk about people self eliminating..

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Laughs

It struggles so hard to be what the world wants it to be. Behind closed doors. 

I stripped it and broke down it walls.  It is truly naked and is like a raw nerve. 

I gave it acceptance to just to be what is it. 

Under obligation, I have been asked to go to a party. I growl and refuse. I don't like speaking to the great unwashed cause there is always some someone who is happy to sponge off other people's experiences and experiment on some hapless soul.

Are you at least responsible to take responsibility when things blow up in your face? 

Are you doing this in an attempt to fulfill or fix your own issues?  

People self eliminate themselves so quickly sometimes and poof they are gone. We're they even real?  Do not know. Do not care. 

Odd but an amusing conversation.

So you are a writer and are just communicating with me to get ideas for your book?

Great another hack attempting to write a porno. Insert excuses.  I have heard tons of reasons laughs.

So let me get this straight, you are going to attempt to write about someone's else life experience and spread your interpretation through out the world to make a buck. If you write based on stuff you made up and it causes damage to people are you going to be responsible enough to admit that you have negatively affected people?  Insert more excuses.  So it just a made up story from your brain to make a buck.  Just like a porno. 

There a difference from describing a spot on the ground, being given a spot on the ground and from actually earning that spot on the ground.

Noise making ball gags and a rubber band snapping. Sometimes it the simple things that keeps one happy.

How to scare off people.  Laughs.

Read a book and than summarize that  book.

Tap and ballroom dancing lessons.

Sing a song loud and clear. 

I have seen many of feet flee. Laughs

Of course, I can make you feel again. Yes, I understand what you do makes your emotional responses a bit muted. 

So if I understand the why, why can I not give you what you need.

What I do is addictive. It would be irresponsible to do and not think of what happens afterwards.

I do not move through life sailing on broken souls.

That little spot of ground at the feet is only has  importants if it is treated as what it is and not a prop..

If your mind isn't my most favorite play ground. There is something seriously wrong 

If you can not be my canvas, I am not the one for you. Life is more than surviving. It a celebration of existence..

But but I was what you wanted..  laughs did I ask ypu to be? No.

Why do I want someone who pretends or acts? Of course I can direct a scene but an act is an act.

Once you have locked into a soul with real responses. Acting is just a imagination of life.

Have fun and be real..

How to annoy?  Core a ball gage. Insert duck call.

Oh poor thing you can't reach sub space while quacking.

I have met some amazing people here in person from all walks of life.  

There a word that upset a lot of people, it called competition. 

Opportunities only open for a while and without proper attention. Those opportunities close.

It not a threat. It just life.  Building a relationship take time and effort, if you can't or won't. Searching to find someone who is willing is much easier than try to fix problems.  

Zero effort relationship are worth thier weight. 

If you have never fought for what is important to you? 

It easy to find someone to enjoy the good times. It the ones that stay with you through the bad times makes life worth living.

Of course I can push to it breaks, but what kind of life is a life filledwith broken souls?

Can you sing? Can you dance?  What Instruments do you play?

If I am inspired to dress you into something special would you dress for my enjoyment? 

Enjoyment for the moment or a structured composed picture? 

Pray for those who have never howled at the moon.  

It complains too much and yet it screams you don't listen. 

If your goal is to create understanding, screaming rarely works. Laughs. 

Ball gags will slow down and restrict communication but words with thought and meaning are better spoken compared to just human noise.

It cries cause It struggles with the life It wants to have compared with the life It has.  There is a certain cruelty to show someone what can be done now it faces a choice.  To have something you want compared to continue to live your same life..

It can't cook or clean and all it brings is an attitude.  You bring me a broken person in need of serious need of therapy.

And yet I am the problem. Laughs

If you sexual key a slave to get excited by socks, learn to lock your socks up and no shoving them in thier mouth just increases the issues. LoL

Never tell a high emotional strong individual how to react in a session.  Subs will sometimes talk to each other about a session they have even with  the same person. An experince this intense, I never recommend talking to a point  where some one decides to get judged. Nothing comes out good when this happens. 

A submissive who fails to please is a miserable creature.  Adding judgements of others creates explosive out comes.

It not to gathering of people to celebrate a holiday that gets to me. It what happens afterwards. The good byes, the missing of the bodies sleeping in the same bed room.  The house is put back together. A ton of memories were generated. Buying food for one is going to be tough.

I hope.your holidays were filled with some pretty intense people..

Holidays times are fun and exciting times.  Sometimes I reach out to old  subs and slaves and give them some course correcting advice. 

While connecting directly one on one does escape me from time to time, putting together a group is like falling off a log. So holiday are typically fun filled with activities. 

There is something festive about naked people and Christmas trees. 

Large buffet meals served by bondage maids. 

Eating off of naked bodies..

So have fun making topless cookies and squeeze enjoyment out of this holiday season.

How odd it is to create a relationship that on one hand it soul is mine to push and torment yet at the same time  to drive that person to seek that safe harbor into my arms.

If I become your drug of choice, will you seek a cure for the addiction? 

While I am capable of administrating therapy, and solving multiple problems at the same time. I am not here to be your therapist nor the solution to your life problems. Relationships based on solving your problems never last very long....

Lots of people want the good stuff but rare is the one who is willing to put in the work.

If the value of the little patch of ground at your feet can be gotten by just asking does it have great value? 

It make a request of me.  Don't spoil me. If your preparing for failure. Obvious there is a trust issue to address before things move forward.

It like art. It turns into a combination of what it is and what I can make it to become.  But the more time you invest the more of a value it has. 

If your trapped yourself in a life you don't want, why is it my responsibility to free you from the mess you made? 

If you stop leading your relationship. Your relationship will change.  It the reason why I don't allow that to happen. If you Abandon your leadership role who is really to blame? . Lead with responsibility. 

It wants my time and attention. Yet I do not give it any. It doesn’t have the time to build something solid. Why lose the opportunity to find what you need and waste it on something temporary.

I do admit, I am not for everyone. You have been you for all your life  I could generate a whole list of things to improve. Bad habits to break. Etc etc. It more easier to find a person with lower expectations. It the easier thing you can do.  But if no one presses your metal. You will never know.

Does the iron know if it being forged into  art? 

The older and cooler the iron the harder the iron must be beaten. 

Yes, most people have problems. Nature of life but you cannot build a life on problems and solutions.

Do I look like I react to promises of easy sexy?  Laughs.

It use to be I would take a person to the local bdsm event and see how they react.  Now I take them to the gym instead lol

I lead, you follow. If you can't follow, I wish you well and hope you find what you need. 

So why do i forced a zero sex policy?  Control?  Punishment?  Naaa 

To get a person to re focus on what is important.  Sometimes you have to abstain. 

Imagine a life without the things that dull you on how you react with life. 

Instance relationships never last, what do you mean life isn't porno laughs..

Life isn't a Disney story either.  If your not willing to invest the time why are you surprised when things don't work out..

If I push your sexual attributes to higher heights can you handle getting more attention?  Will it make you wander away? 

It wants something  serious but it shows disrespect. I wish it well and tell it to move along. Great relationship take time and effort. If your unwilling to spend time to bridge to create a bit of understanding. There is no way you can adapt to my world. My life is not easy and nor is it not suited for most people. 

In some relationship, the sub has to guess what is required in a relationship. Some view a list of requirements as a control issue.  There is something comforting in knowing what is expected. There is a huge learning curb to learn all that is required. It takes time and commitment. 

There are those who just want the good stuff.  Many want to have.at the feet experience but have no clue to get there..

Some people are just not ready to be tested on thier humanity. While I understand they what they want, this doesn't make it an obligation for me to give it to them. Don't ask to be guided or lead if you can follow or listen.. 

Some vanilla vegan was making comments about cows milk and talking how we should be milking humans.

I had to laugh, ran across someone special who pump out so much milk she donated to her local hospital. 

Milking someone into submission can be a wet and quiet fun experience.  

Just a funny side note, if you train yours to moo when they are smacked on the behind. Leaving a sport arena and smacking a butt will get a whole crowd of people mooing.  Laughs 

Yes, ropes and chains are fun but sometimes getting your submissive to just bounce around house is fun also.

Just another rambling post.  If you don't understand the reasons why please feel free to ignore me. I won't take offense. 

Sorry, you won't get the experience you want from me.  I have run across many boxers those who lives  are like little containers. If this is your lifestyle and it works for you. I am happy you found something that works for you. I know how I am, my influence is a whole life experience.

Meaning just trying to contain the experiences in a room is going to cause issues.

Jury duty. Yippee but I wasn't picked. I don't think the court want to know why I know so many of them.  Seen you before' Seen you and you. Laughs. 

I am stronger than the troubles you have had in your life but some have a strong grip on them. 

A weighted belt tends to make a person crawl on the floor.  A push to the side will make them stuck on the floor arms and leg waving about.

If you don't live in fear that I will take over your life. I am not scary enough for you.

Of course I can push beyond what you can handle but I don't want to leave behind broken people on my wake in life.

To create a life with someone is not as hard as it seems but  Protecting it is more difficult.

Well meaning friends will try to throw thier influence on your life.  Well this is all great and good if your relationships aligns with what you consider a happy life. Most people don't see the value of the little peice of ground around two feet. 

Omg and your naked too with all your attention focused on the person your with? 

These are concepts that are difficult to gr for many. 

People tend to see the kink and not the relationship..

The problem is if you amp up a person's sexuality. Instead of being ready for you at a moment notice. Typical they start searching for satisfaction some where else. 

Yes, given time and effort. I can invade your brain but honestly if your not willing to invest the time your don't deserve that kind of relationship.

Welcome to the Walmart fast food mentality of relationships. 

If course I can teach but teaching irresponsible people just creates waves of broken people.

If you don't listen to my stories, you will never figure me out. Laughs.

How much weight would you loose if I printed your orgasm face at the bottom of plate of food that you use? 

People think it odd that the carpet has extra thick padding. If you have peeps crawling on the floor from time to time. It makes sense. 

Manipulation, while some people flee from it others grovel to have it in its life.

It's life is a bit messed up. It struggles for Structure. So as i organize parts of it life.  It life becomes easier but problems don't make a great foundation for a relationship.  They looking for help with a problems and once help is received, They wonder off.

I know you expect me to chase you when you run but if you can not handle the the simple vanilla things. There is not much hope when the relationship gets intensly personal. So wish them well in whatever hole they hide in. You can't top from the bottom. You can not lead from behind. 

Inspire it to serve better. Attempt to create better communication skills so that understanding can happen. 

If I can not bring you out, you shouldn't be mine.

Hanging up during a conversation is grounds for termination. Lol if you think I am that replaceable please replace me. Free me to tangle with a soul who can handle what i server. I am sure there are big box stores that have what you need and want.

Tied tightly, it struggles  and  the ropes that bind it. Suddenly it passes gas and safeword out. It seems humiliation is a hard pass. Laughs

I love those clothes donations boxes. If your clothes offend in the box they go. 

How do you have a submissive?  After a strong and session, if you ask the question. . Again?  If they slowly crawl away. You just got your self a a kinky person. Laughs

Control is more than just stripping you of Control out of your own life. 

What next is important. Producing clueless people should never be the goal

It begs for me to take control of what it is and what it does. It willing to endure anything I give to it. The major red flag is that it has no clue of who i am.and what am I capable of. Submitting without vetting  just plain stinks of desperation.

Some people can not handle the intensities of a strong relationship. It is sad that it happens but failure is to be expected when seeking special relationships.  I am going to enjoy the extra time and energy. No more indulging in to the submissive's mind and life. It has grabbed it privates and is running towards the hills. I hope it recovers from opening it's pandora's box. Normally I would slow the influence so stopping wouldn't be so jarring to them but some just jump off.  I hope the land well..

If you live up to a label are you a label?  

Sometime the answer is no.  No isn't a cruel thing to say. It allows parties invold to move beyond what is in front of them to a possible of what can be some place else.

Your path isn't always my path.  For some people, a quiet person without any drama issues is desirable.  

I am not one of those, it is my nature to amp up the emotional response.  A quiet life isn't for me. I thrive on wonderful high passionate people. I tend to create them as I have been accused of.

I know what I do is dam addictive.  You need more than just a want. As the responsible type, there is the how is this going to effect you today and tomorrow. 

You would figure, if anyone show an interest that I would be welcoming.  I question your sanity and warn you about me.

What I do is addictive,  while some reduce emotional state, I tend to increase the emotional flow.  

It is easier to have a low energy relationship but I am the hard path kind of person. 

So pray for those who approach, they won't have it easy. 

Did you really lose yourself or are you blaming someone who discovered the real you? 

So what will happen to you once your passions consume you.

Yes, I know loneliness stinks but filling the void with another, you loose the chance of finding the person yoi need.

Opportunity are not always 24/7. Miss opportunities is just that missed.

Crazy and confused.  I keep repeating myself. You just have to be you. Not not what you think I want you to be. It addictive to crying in my arms and confessing to a life not lived well.  Do not live a life your cursed with but live the life you want too.

Can you cook and clean? Funny how many can not or won't. 

There are many offers for bodies to play with and yes I know what I do is addictive. Some people figure that since your an adult that you are adult enough to make that choice.  Being responsible means deal with what happens afterwards.

I warn people about me.  Not because I am brutal but because of the addictive nature of the things I do.

Leading is an addictive to a submissive..

The wonderful thing about scars is that there is a time period where they are sensitive to the touch. Using the echo effect training someone to have an orgasm by rubbing a scare is something fun to do on long winter nights. 

It's a small small world.  I feel eyes burning on my soul laughs. It always fun to run across a person that you had fun with A lifetime ago. Some people, Excuse themselves and run.  Some pretend they have never seen you but stare at you like the last peice of candy in the candy store.

I don't out the people. Life is difficult enough without the whole world being up in your business. Lol

I don't encourage you to be mine, I encourage you to be happy. Stronger than rope or chain.

Of course I am hated laughs. I exposed you to what you are to yourself. You can deny and call me names but you can't run away from truth you really are.

You can't keep my attention by your naked bits. Your truth is more interesting. Your struggles. Your failures and successes are more interesting.  

There a burden in knowing who you really are. I never tangle with angles. I have seen many who have cursed their life to live a life that was thrust upon themselves not the one they have chosen. Freeing a soul to choice a better life is hard but satisfying kink. 

Shave a person?

Wax a person? 

Or pluck the hairs off?

There is a difference.

The artist in me thinks I can create furry art work.

Confusion is the vanilla word for escape. Laughs

There is something within me that loves responsible and to be given  that great amount of trust to lead. 

Of course I will vet you,  why do I want to invest in something fake? Or being used as fantasy fodder? I avoid people who box thier lives cause I know I will tend to want to know every thing about you. This includes all those secrets you are attempting to die with. You are not going to have a fun time being secretive trying desperately to hold on. Letting go is amazing. Become a lock box of secrets is soul crushing. 

Failures happens, what happens next depends on the quality of the people involded.

There is something delicious about intensity. It emotions are on fire. Passion make life worth living.

People always want that person at their feet but many don't realize what it takes to get a person there.

So many souls that I can pick from, what sways my choice?  It the ability to put in effort, the struggle to learn and create understanding. 

The ability to put the relationship before the kink. 

Of course the relationship has to be stronger than normal, if all that is needed is to get along,  that kind of relationship is easy to achieve. If your leading there must be more understanding and trust involded.  Somepeople never get what they want cause they themselves are the limit.

A lot of people are like a Pandora's box. They want to be opened and explored. Before any activities happen, a judgment call has to be made. Can they handle what they will find with in themselves. Things that are capable of doing are extremely addictive. To leave a person alone with a new addiction is cruel and typically causes them to go wanting in dangerous places. 

To become a strong influence in another life, one has to be stronger than the events of thier past. How can you follow if events in your past  drive you in a different direction. This journey I lead in, has a lot of sadness, bitterness and anger.  Some people are never strong enough to completely let go. Letting go isn't the goal. It what happens afterwards which is more important. 

Your tied naked with your legs spread open.  Your waiting for something kinky or sexual to happen.  Unfortunately you ran across someone who not quiet stable. How are you going to explain why your privates look like some demented smurf?  It has eyes that seem to say why am I blue?  Laughs 

Everybody should have access to a sound proof room. 

Emotional expression in a room you feel safe is important. 

The release of anger and pain allow one to move forward expect a lot of cursing and crying. 

Some people are easy to please, I am not one of those.

I get offers of sex and kink all the time. Do you really think those offers are taken seriously?  

Show me you have the time and energy to invest to create a relationship that others will attempt to destroy. Show me your strength to be create understanding.

In order to make something look effortless it take time and effort. If you always take the easy way, you never know what you can achieve.

Are you here for the fun or here cause it cheaper than therapy?  

If I wire you up to a lie detector and ask you dark questions, I bet most will run.  Towards or from is your choice.

Beating a rug clean can make certain people jealous or wet.

What can cut short a bondage session?  Cooking beacon. Too much drool can be choking hazzard.

I am a  insert label.  You are a label?  Labels are the easy lazy way.  It is the brain attempt to create a short cut. 

The problem of replacing a name with a label is that the label is already pre-defined. The name is the perfect match to the person.  It is easy to build a relationship with a name.  If the name changes to the label it is no longer it's true self is different. How does one build a strong relationship with a label?  It so easy to build on something real rather a label.

Don't harrass vanillas, it turns them into wide eye puppy dogs.

Things have value, the harder you work for it, the more value it has.  This includes relationships. 

Not everyone is suitable to deal with a high intensity relationship. When things are going right, it is satisfying and pleasing. 

When things go wrong, it is addictive and destructive,a good therapist is recommended 

I won't compete with your past but I can affect your future.  If you keep popping out of sub space, is it cruel to kick you back in?

If your body still reacts and your mind screams no, do you think you will ever agree to the word. Again? 

If a 30 something ego thinks that I should be grateful, the reaction to the 21 plus is comical.

The 70 something grumbles away but show a much higher degree of submission.

A house full of lesbians, doesn't make me one.

While I have had multiple dommes as a submissive in my life. It doesn't mean I want one to keep. Teaching  a few lessons doesn't equate to wanting one in my life. 

Why do I play the long game? It easy to strike when the iron is hot when the wow effect is there. I play it slow because time has a way of revealing the truth. I know how disruptive my influence can be. I never take on those who are already involded. Why spend the time? I call it bdsm self pleasuring.  Fun but it never goes anywhere.  There are a lot of kinksters who would love to chew up your time, knowing that time and effort isn't going anywhere .

Over stimulation has some odd effaspects on a person.  Some become extremely angry and slashes out any attempts to calm a person down.

Some become these little creatures that just look for sexual play and they will happily play with themselves until they fall asleep.

Some will become snuggle bugs in blankets and soft toys. 

Some will just sit quietly desperately trying to process what they have gone through..

Some will just cry uncontrollable. Some cry happy other cry angry. 

Insert people are like a box of chocolate.. 

Screaming. Crying  pleading  attempts to bargain so many dark secrets, it spews out everything that it is and everything that it wants to be. So much anger and hate spews out. It quiet amazing what is bottled up.  While giving this kind of experience is amazing, it the what happens afterwards that you got to look out for for. Spoiling a mind has it pitfalls

If there is no struggle to be at feet of someone. Does the spot have any value.

If the things in your life are not acquired without struggle, do they really have value? 

If you want the easy way, I am not for you. 

If you know it all, there is no room to grow.  

Nothing public it says.. I laugh..

You running around being kinky and sexual active at work is the normal concern?  Really? Do you think I am stupid to allow negative things happen in your life?  

Why do I want what is mind being disadvantage at work? 

Taking a person back to school to take management course. Getting it a tutor to improve thier skill levels Is more my speed.

There a bit of ground by my feet. To most people it just a nondeive piece of dirt. It has no meaning to them. To the person who put in time and effort into being able to say that is my place under those feet. It has meaning and an extreme value. 

So when a person see a kneeling person at my feet. This doesn't mean that anyone is allowed at my feet. With a sense of value comes a zero tolerance to those who disrespect the spot.  Anger arises and issues start to form. 

If you going to recreate the Marlin Monroe train grate event with wind blowing up a dress.  Having lotions for the private bits is important.  Wind chafing privates should be a part of the scene.  

Why are you walking funny?  Why didn't you tell me during? The answer isn't I was having fun and didn't want to spoil it.  Not an acceptable answer..

I am not for you, if I can not bring out the best in you.  While yes I can degrade you to point where you have zero value. Destruction is easy. Creativity is much harder. 

If I took the easy way and made you submit through sexual or pain techniques. Do I really have you? Or did I just make you addicted to what I can do?

If I can not influence you from any where in the world. I am not for you.

If I can't make you value  that  little patch of ground at my feet, I am not for you.

I am not your fodder for your role playing games..

I always warn those who want to tangle with me.  You would think I would delight in those who want to experience what I got to offer. The stuff I do is addictive.  Eyes wide open. Open handed. Hard path.

If we are successfully in what we do, we leave a positive mark on the souls we touch.

So why don't i have my own dungeon, a gathering of like minded people? Good question. The stuff I do is like an art form. The relationships I build are like gold to me. I tend to amplifier a person's tendency to be who they are. How to dress and how to act become like a dance between the souls.  There is something comforting in know how to behave, how to dress and how to act. When your in a great relationship it is amazing 

So why no gatherings?  Instead of creating one owns thing or own art form people tend to copy. Instead of being inspired and doing things that expand and strengthen the relationship. It becomes a 50 shades of copy cats. So many people want to have a sexual tiger by the tail but don't understand the work involded to get a person there. Even the most broken person  can be absolutely amazing. Even in a wheel chair. 

Nothing more sickening watching others use your skill development with someone amazing and have it reduced to some cheap pick up line. 

Some interactions will leave a impression like a foot print on a sandy desert. Hard to see soon to be forgotten. 

Others will leave a permanent mark even tho you haven't met.

The no test.. red flag..

If you say No and No isn't respected. This isn't one you should be tangling with. 

Shouting your opinions only works if someone listens.

Sorry but if you want to lead in this relationship, that position is already filled already.

Yes, I am more than capable of finding a nice place to eat.

If I am capable to make you walk funny the day after so taking care of food needs is pretty simple.

I have had very large people in my life. While making them drop weight is easy.. it keeping them loyal afterwards which is hard.

Side ways dog look. Laughs

If your unhappy with a site, why do people feel the need to say so and  leave? 

To ask for empathy shouldn't you have some? 

Guarantee you will hit clinkers and clunkers in this world but why do you let these people dictate your behavior?

Given enough time, lairs will expose themselves. Cannot build something real on vapor ware.

1st impressions matter.  If I grab hard and squeeze, I bet you will remember what ever I say, even if it's the grocery list. 

People who judge others are no concern of mine. I only listen to people I respect.

I don't need a rope bunny, I got a long list of non sexual people to play with. 

When I warn you about me, this it is not bragging. Just making sure you know what your getting into.

I rather have a real person flaws and all compared to a person who is trying to live up to a label.

I am just me. If your looking for perfection, the door is that way.  I do not role-playing. Real is way to enjoyable for me. You have to be more than a willing victim. Bad acting will get you ignored. If I can not make you feel something from across the country. I am not the one for you. 

How many years does it take to have someone forget? Ran across a rope bunny. Trust was built. The negotiations started. Tie down points were discussed. A spotter was presented. Goals were discussed different materials, sizes of ropes. How knotts react under stress. While it was naked, there wouldn't be any sex. It was a basic fact finding mission. 

Safe words and warning signs were talked about.  Blood circulation, nerve pinching, cramping issues. Lots of can you feel this kind of stuff.  How fast can it be cut down. Where the nearest hospital. Do you know how to get there. 

Blankets, stuff to rehydrate to be touched afterward or to be left alone to recover.  How to deal with cramps.  How long of a session. There a lot of before and after stuff to deal with. 

So after 3 sessions, I found out what my curious mind wanted to know. 22 years later I am at an event. The people were kind enough to get me a chair. I typically bring newbies who are curious. They get the Nickle tour.  It a little cold at this place cause when people start showing up. The air conditioner can't compensate fast enough. 

In a chair arms folded. Diffently not this Dom of Doms kind of stands.  More like is he homeless and should we call the cops. Laughs.

Half awake I see a head of hair at my feet. Oh brother, I am not part of the tour.  Being at my feet causes issues. Slaves and subs do get jealous. Just what I need is drama at my feet. I state there are much younger Dom and tour guides who will be happy to communicate with you. Please get up and enjoy what this place provides.  

I get the responses that it missing me at that it had sessions with me.  Decades ago? It should have moved on by now. I must have made a bigger impact in it's life. It is married and it partner knows about me.  While it was fun to look backwards..life is lived forwards. I don't play with married people.  A Strong influence is a disruptive at best.

How cruel is it to give an experience that it cannot experience by itself? 

Don't let the bad stuff that happens in your life dictate the kind of life your living now. 

Wounds heal? 

Scars fade?

Emotional trauma can be a  life time thing.. laughs

Pain turn sideways is humor.

Sex is easy.  Kink is easy. Getting someone addictive to you is easy.

Ebbs and flows cycles happen. 

Finding things out about you through clicking words is 101 bdsm. Lol

It's back.  Sometime I wonder where it goes. Sometime i wonder if it thinks it a frog in a pot of slow boiling water. 

Frog soup. Lol

I think it was in a corner desperately trying to rub off the mark I left on It's soul.

Yup that is a sex joke. 

I warn it about being a pandora's box. It my obligation to warn it about me.

It has a bright soul let's see if I can brighten up the sky with it.

It a dark journey I travel. Telling a woman that you trained a woman to be more feminine. You got to be strong enough to deal with the hate. If I train and inspire most will just wander off and will attempt to come back later to find that door closed.  Que being hated once again. 

I have heard pretty words but so many know the words but thier words have zero meaning.  It basically pretty noises. 

It screams it wants to be understood but yet it plays the game of hiding who and what it is. If it puts in the effort, it will be understood, if not it just misses the opportunity to be understood. In the game of hide in seek, finding a new person who want to be found is easier than finding someone who doesn't want to be found. 

I don't make it easy because I know life is hard. Buying friendship isn't the same as having a friend. 

I never keep old toys. When your focus on one, memory of others are just a distraction. 

Thank God!  Dodged another red flag laughs. 

It says it only looking for a friend.  Yet it telling me about it's sexuality.  I don't look at friends and think there is a possible sexual encounters to be had. 

It was attempting to get information from me back handedly. I wonder why it could not just asked straight out.

But then again it not mine and I shouldn't attempt to correct it. 

If you can not approach without simple common respect. I recommend researching the subject of how to make and have a friend. 

What we do is addictive. The delightful pleasure that we create to the wicked pain we can deliver. The ebbs and flow are fun to navigate.

There are many who love the good stuff that we are capable of. We influence what we consider ours. Either to have them experience what it feels to be under foot or to strive to be better in life. 

The act without the relationship doesn't do it for me. It like putting a great amount of effort and getting a simple thank you and one is pondering yes you created an amazing experience but one is once left alone. What was the point again?  Giving someone a highly charged emotional event for what purpose?  Sometime it best to leave those purposeless encounters alone to find someone special who can just put up with my bad habits..laughs

Funny how some slaves pushes to get a reaction. I normally send it a few red flags so it will wonder off.

I am not your Master do not attempt to waste my personal energy. I reserve that kind of attention and energy to a person who is dedicated to a relationship. 

A little peice of fluff came knocking at my door. Hello fluff.

It brags about itself. Pretty words that have no meaning are just pretty noises.

Actions and the ability to create history attract more interest than colorful speeches..

To be intuned with another, it a comfy feeling but yet for some it scares them quiet a bit. Especially to those who hide who and what they are..

Sex and kink are easy to find an accomplish. It that wonderful relationship that is a full time up hill battle. 

It not my thing to lower another's person self worth so I can feel superior.  There is something quiet delicious decadent about submission of a person who got thier stuff together. 

I love pouring in time and effort to create a living breathing peice of art but with anything of value. They tend to chase or be chased by others.  Can't judge loyalty by looks. 

Pretty words only have meaning if they are spoken in truth.

I rather not leave it with emotional scars and decades of therapy. 

Easy path. Follow the flow, create cookie cutter submissives. 

Hard path, take people as individuals. Bring out the best. Use happiness as a binding agent. Use the relationship as a source of joy and happiness. 

It it is unsettling for some to see a hanging submissive break out in song while being cropped. 

Add fuel to the passion and yours will run to serve you. 

Why, yes I have had people get upset at me.  It seems that thiers regular means to get satisfaction no longer works for them. 

Push to exhaustion. It's mind is sprung. It crawls because the legs are unsteady. Fear, angry and crying afterwards. There are times when you have to deal with extreme hatred and yet it is held close. Being forced to rehydrate. Kept warm until all of those hormones finally run It's course.

These emotional charged events makes me think fondly of the old days. Just simple orgasms. 

So what is worse. Trapped by fear? Or trapped by happiness. Fear allow you to escape. Most people do not run from happiness.

A little book worm, reads but it takes someone special to experience and experiment. 

Reading someone else's life isn't the same of experience a life. 

Reading about an orgasm isn't the same as having one.

Mind warping sessions. While I enjoy administrating them, I got to be picky who I tangle with. What I do always tends to leave a mark on the soul I tangle with. I do warn people I have too. I think what I do tends to make people a little crazy. 

A little lump of clay.  Like any artist, you put time and effort into it to represent an expression for passion. 

The funny thing about adding value into a lump.  It becomes more valuable. People take notice. Once that happens, it gets more attention and gets drawn away. 

You start to question, why add value into lumps of clays you find along the way.

And To suggest that sessions should continue without the relationship part is just comical to me.

If I your mine and I leave the state, I am going to drag your sorry ass with me. 

If you complain do not spoil me, I take that your are looking for an exit.

If your worried what others might think, you not concentrating on what is in front of you.

Do I want your pictures? No. I rather have your submission. If you offer me holes, I rather have your soul.

I never tired of playing with ropes. Do I take pictures of my creations? Somethings just need to be experienced 

If your focus on getting the right picture. It steal focus on the task on hand. Distractions pull you away from the experience. 

Are you enjoying the concert or are you busy trying to capture the past?

If your panning for gold, you need to put the work in and go to the places that have gold. 

Who are you hurting when you limit your scope of your search. 

While I am honored that you wish to get a tattoo of my mark on your body.  Marks should represent what has been accomplished and not what you wish they will be in the future..

Without a personal growth, your just going through the actions. It doesn't feed the passions. 

I have been offered bodies before but honestly it thier mind which adds fire to this old soul.

Thier mind is my play ground. Thier life us under my influence. Their's happiness is my responsibility.

I lead, they trust and we communicate. Of course it is stronge enough to lead itself. I am not attracted to bimbos.

Speaking the truth is easier for I am hard on liars. I am like a cat in that way.  I do enjoy tormenting them until the truth comes out.

Nothing is more sweeter than being in tuned. When sessions become and expressions of the relationship.  While I have run across many who want. It is rare to find those who want to put in the effort.  Can you open up to that depth?  Many have lost the ability to do so along the way..

Instead of living the life you could, many are living the life they are cursed with. 

Of courses I lead. It is in my nature to to  do so but if your looking for a 50 50 relationship. I am not interested. If I concentrate and build a relationship based on being reliable and responsible with trust and communication.  Imagine being questioned on my ability to lead?  While there are many who want and seek a 50 50 type of relationship. If you actively refuse to follow, this will give both parties a bitter taste in the relationship. 

Of course I read profiles, do you really think it wise to choose based upon a picture? Laughs

Do I find crazy people or do I just make them? To be honest a bit of both. 

Can you survive what I put you through and how will that affect you? 

If i break walls and stop destructive coping behaviors, typical reaction is that, I will end up with a very clingy crying person.  I typically warn people what is coming up. 

This typically scares most people. 

Wounds heal, scars fade but emotional events typically last a lifetime. 

Just because you want to tangle with this old soul doesn't mean you get an automatic yes.

I refuse to leave broken people in my wake just because it what they want.

I take pride in ownership. 

What comes afterwards? I know what I do is very addictive, it changes people's lives. It pumps passion and energy. There are some extreme highs and if I am not careful with people they will spend a life time trying to fill that box that been opened. 

Do I really need someone who just wants me cause of the things I can do for them? 

What comes afterwards? I know what I do is very addictive, it changes people's lives. It pumps passion and energy. There are some extreme highs and if I am not careful with people they will spend a life time trying to fill that box that been opened. 

Do I really need someone who just wants me cause of the things I can do for them? 

I am unsuited for those who have a container life.

It is not that I can not push you until you break.. it is do I have the skill to have you heal after wards..

It makes a difference ropes tied inward verses rope tied out wards

Some people's expectations of others, simply eliminate possibilities until the chances of finding equates to a single digit of success. Do you feel lucky? 

Don't expect me to live up to your Disney dreams. If you can not work towards what you want and need, I dont need laziness in my life. 

If I can not bring out the best in you, I am an ill fit and you must travel on.

What I do is addictive. Yet I get approached for what I can do for them and rarely what they can do for me.  Not only do I realize that the human body has ebbs and flows but life has them also. Relationships take hard work. Yet few are willing to put in the time. Sometimes you don't find your perfect one but you find the one who is willing to consume thier life to become the perfect fit. No regrets we live life forwards. 

Of course everyone here isn't your prefect match and yes it get discouraging but if you don't seek the likelihood that what you need will fall into your lap is remote.  Now explain to me how your going to win the lotto without buying a ticket? 

Let me get this straight you want a dominant but you want him to have zero influence in your life.  May suggest looking for a submissive instead or perhaps a nice switch. Laughs

I think it is done. There are no reach out any more. It profile is de active here. It doesn't reach out nor does it share anymore.

It is my hope that it has found what it needs. Some people are just not ready for what I offer.  When that choice has been made, support is given until it isn't needed anymore.  I have run across too many broken ones. It hard to describe to some why.  Consider it more life after care after a rough session.  Emotional and spiritual separation take time.  

I know special when feel it. Sometime special is only temporary. So many excuses not create something stronger. So much fear. Living safe will insure that the same life you lead will still be the same. 

Passion, chances and changes come with a cost. It will trigger fears and the desire to find that safe place.

The life you want rarely comes to those who sit and wait. Relationships are opportunities and almost never available 24/7.

To find someone to build something special isn't easy.

Of course i can give a person a structure life.  There are benefits in having a structured life.

But, you can not build a relationship on just a need. 

If I can not influence you from where I am to where you are. I am not the one for you.  I am attracted to strong personality but strong people hate the idea of letting go. It scares them to the core. Letting go and trusting  is almost impossible when life hasn't been kind to you. 

You can not buy trust and or understanding. It is a hard path to go this way.  There are those who seek perfection hoping perfection will get them where they want to be. Without going through storms and tough times, one tends not to appericate the nature of life.  

Do I have submissives in my life?   Short answer  is Yes, I do but a submissive friend isn't owned  by me nor do I have a desire to see them  naked.  I tend to teach life lessons. It not an over night thing. It a long term thing I do. I never put a person on a diet. It always a change of life style. If a person is happier with the new lifestyle it is natural for them to stick with it. 

When dealing with people who are highly emotional. Giving them the tools to better cope with their life is much better than having them carry a leash to me. 

There a difference between being forced to endure compared to  be excited to participate. One wants to crawl up ones own self, the other is delighted to be part of.

It easy to run away from something you endure, it very hard to leave something that you are a part of..

If you got a vanilla partner, move along.  My kind of influence will give you relationship stress. I like being intensive I enjoy knowing what you think and delight is creating a stronger relationship. I am addictive. It is one of the reasons why when a relationship ends, I have a weaning off period. 

I stay true to myself so don't expect me to follow the definitions in your head. I am not perfect nor do I expect you to be.  While I am capable of many things, I am not a solution to your problems.  I do get upset when you think you have to be better ro tangle with me.  So if you have issued and problems. Going quiet is a good way of loosing that tight connection. 

What do I look for in a submissive?

Simple someone who can put up with me. 

I warn people about the pandora's box effect. People read alot isn't the same as life experiences.

I have been approached by multitudes of long distance people and even tho I can influence them from a far. They can not give me what I need from a long distance away.  There is something to be said about 2 people sleeping in a single bed holding on together so you don't fall out of bed. 

What base my decisions on a slave by body type? Laughs. I base my choice on the ability to listen and communicate. 

I who can mold and create so base my choice on age or body shape not very likely. 

I don't want a blank mind. 

It screams teach me,  why are you asking me? To use my techniques for your own wants and desires? 

While I am very good with solutions, I am not your solution to your problem. Problems are not a good foundation for any relationship.

I don't play well with people who wear masks " non physical"  I tend to rip them off and expose them to themselves to show them what they really are.  Thick walls don't scare me.  There is a reason why I warn those who are wanting to tangle with this old soul. 

If your mine, Never expect to shower alone. I will check for lumps and bumps. If I find anything, it an automatic trip to the doctors.

Let me get this straight, you want me to know your soul like a well read book. To know your darkest secrets. To give you a meaningful life filled with emotional satisfaction. To feed your spiritual needs. And than crank it up to a higher lever more than you can accomplish by yourself or through current relationships.  

I am box opener.  I typical warn people about me.  If I was just satisfied by sex or kink, I would easily found someone suitable. Yes, I desire control and the ability to explore who and what you are. Yes, I know I can mold you into what I want but force never is permanent and I like to think the effort I pour into something amazing is permanent. To guide and to grow is a harder path but well worth the effort. 

Can not base a heavy choice on some adult picture. Can't build something permanent on naked pictures. There is something to be said about someone who is really happy to serve. Yes. Attitude matters.and not just the act. 

I like those who struggle to understand and thise who struggle to communicate. They try harder to create understanding.

What do you mean your too old to be spanked? 

While I am many things, I am not the solution to your problems. Problems don't scare me but problems should never be the base of a relationship.

If I can't make you amazing, you really shouldn't be mine. 

Walk with pride and purpose. They is greatness in belonging. 

I really do love inspiring a person to serve well. Communicate is important. Creating understanding is even more important.

Thank God for ball gags. Laughs  I have dealt with people who transition.  Both ways. There was one who kept its balls in a jar and tried to gift them to me.  I have never asked Santa for balls for Christmas lol. Remember it not the transition which isn't important, it what comes next..

Merry Christmas, may your presents not be a pandora's box.

We exist for such a short time in life. So be amazing.

As things wind down a d/s relationship, I send words of encouragement for a few weeks afterwards even tho most likely I am talking to dead air.  It is not an attempt to bring a person back to the relationship. I rather not steal a person's ability to have another relationship in the future.

It is like art, how it is dress, how it acts. Make up is important.  Being Happy while Serving.  Dressing to impress in leather or lace. 

I am not a prince, I have some serious faults. If your a frog looking to be kissed, I am not the one. 

Asking me what I will do with you is a crap shoot cause. I don't put people in categories, scary right to represent you as you and not as a group..

I have had herds of humans.  I still have that tendency finding me alone is rare, unless I am chasing a one. There a certain delight in finding one. There advantages of multiples is better support but everyone needs to put effort into us or it simply falls apart.

Managing a group can be frustrating beyond belief but it has it rewards. Happiness is the goal..

Passion in the things you do. Passion in the soul you keep. 

Don't let crappy people steal your thunder.  Your happiness is worth fighting for.

Move along move along. I am not your wank material.  I have zero interest in fueling your fantasies. I don't want to be in your play or book.

Zero interest in being interviewed for show or podcast. Your hang ups are yours unless your mine. 

With so many things that can go wrong, why oh why do we try again? Simple, when it is working, it is amazing.

The things I do binds their's souls to me. So to say I am into one kink or another isn't quite correct. Kink isn't my goal. My life would be easier if it was. I walk the hard path. 

If your not true to yourself, finding that solidly thing you want is impossible. Pretty words with no weight are just pretty noises.

It found something real and i know it got scared and ran.  There is something to be said about it grabbing its privates and running for the hills.

There was no naked pictures involded, there were no sessions or orgasms. Just simple conversations of who it was and what I am. 

I am scary to some..laughs

Some people don't understand the attraction.. it scares them and confuses them.  Music rings a tone in a person's soul. Good relationships rings true also.

Never celebrated the end of something always celebrated the possibilities.

There is something nice about sleeping in a middle of a pack. Yea the snoring can be an issue. Sleeping on the side get people wondering what side you favor. There is drama about who sleeps where.  But after a while, the pack settles down arms and legs everywhere. It like sleeping in a human blanket. In cold winter nights I miss that..

I have said when things are going great it rarely tells you what kind of person your dealing with.

It when relationships end and the emotional connection is shut off that this is the time you can tell what kind of person your dealing with.

I have ran internet based bdsm rooms and I have hosted brick and motar bdsm events. While I would have love to say, that I have seen more happy couples compared to broken souls.  I can't say that.  I was approached by a group to run a compound for recovering slaves and submissives.  I did declined but sometimes I wonder if I took the wrong path. 

Because of so many broken souls of the past. My end of my relationships tend to be more of the sorry and be happy kind. 

When to sleep, when to wake up, when to shower, what to eat, what to dress, when to exercise, when to work, when to play, when to study, when to read and of  course when to serve.

People might think I am a control freak and frankly I rare care what others think.

I have seen submissive bloom with a little structure in thier life.  

I know what my influence does to couples in relationships.  As want and need become a roaring passion. That neat little box start to melt and holes and cracks just doesn't contain any more.  It easy to say, it won't happen but I rather leave happy people in my wake than broken meat puppets who left to stare out into space.

If you can't stand being hated, this life I lead isn't for you. Laughs.

Of course you going to get push back and have emotional spewing out like a drunkard who has drank too much. Emotional spewing. 

You turned my xxx into a yyy. People got to blame someone. Laughs

Lets fling open all of those emotional scars you so cleverly hide from everyone. You know  poking a beehive is safer right? 

Once you have cried and screamed enough, what part of you is left over?  

Your only mine, if your having nothing left to give and yet u give me the gift of nothing. 

If I can not make you more that what you are, obviously I am the wrong one for you. 

If your are so addicted to me, will you be able to stand what you become? 

If your so intune with my needs and wants can you stand having me intone with you? 

Pitty the one who tangles with me, it going to have a hard life on a hard path. 

Can you walk better? Can you behave better?  Can you talk better? Can you write better?  Can you eat better?  Did you finish reading that book? 

Given intensity over time, the walls will break.  The craziness of you will be exposed to another soul. It is safer to run and hide and pretend that it never happened but the easy road rarely get you where you want to go. How much would you risk to get what you want?

If you find it hard to kick me out of your head than I must be doing a good job. Some people are more afraid of what they are than what they may become. If you use your words to paint lies, how do you build anything long lasting on the the truth? If you can't let go of the ground you hold so tightly with it doesn't matter how hard I kick your ass, you will never get air born. While making a maid out fit out of metal, will get you a lot of attention at the local bdsm meeting. If you don't prepare yours go deal with amount of attention, expect a lot of drama. If you never prepare for that something special who is to blame when it leaves?  Yes, I am older and yes i see the lies and yes understand why you spew them out. 

They is just something funny about a rubber slave and giving them something that gives them Gass beforehand.

If you busy your life with the wrong relationships you run the risk of loosing the relationship you want. 

If you sacrifice someone else's happiness to be that filler relationship so you don't want to be alone. What does that say about you?

Yes being alone is hard but it does provide opportunities to really invest your self into something you desire and truly want.

You can not have your cake and eat it too. If you want that extra ordinary intensive relationship, you can't side chick it. Yet people do it all the time. 

If you don't make the time to have that something special, who is really to blame? 

A lot of people want but if you do not work to make it happen. The odds of it coming true is rarer.

It's mind and body are my play ground. The way it carry itself reflaspects my influence.  It starts to become art. It blooms under my guidance and teachings. We work hard so that the voice it hears is just me in its head. The sessions are not for punishment but to strengthen the relationship. I push it not to see it fail but to show it can handle and amazing amounts of emotions. I invade it's other relationship not to isolated or not remove but to improve. I am not threatened by other relationships. I work hard to heightened feelings and emotions. A soul in fire is very warm and bright..

Be you and be a positive influence..

And always be awesome especially when the crap hits the fan..

To compare or nor to compare. Either way if your nor careful. You will get yourself into trouble. 

Freedom to be yourself, doesn't mean you will be happy. If you over eat your favorite candy to a point where it is not special anymore. Given a bit of structure of when and where you eat your candy. The want of the candy stays strong and the passion for your candy continues on. 

This is what a bit of structure can do for you. 

Some people hide from the hard work it takes to create a strong relationship. There are no short cuts. The better you become. The more you have to deal with others people trying to steal the relationship you put your time into. The grass is always greener on the otherside because it design to attract someone who wanders off.  It not design to create the relationship you desire. 

What I do is people is addictive. The sex, the kink, the structure, the training and of course the passion.

Feeding the emotions, the physical and the spiritual. Are things I understand. Things in balance tend to make the people who tangle with you happy.

Giving structure.  A normal sleep cycle help having energy in the day to do what needs to be done. Eating a proper meal at proper times balance out blood surgar issues. 

Someone who doesn't know anything and refuses to learn is a burden.

Remote and far away is so unsatisfactory. 

The cues we receive when close are so much more that seeing kink and sexual acts..

The leaning inwards when closen

The body melting inwards.

Many people want the good stuff but few are willing to put in the work go make it happen.  laziness and shortcuts are pretty lies compared to hardworking and honest effort.

Easy money? Is worth less than hard earn cash. 

Easy relationships never challenge you to be better.

Easy sex doesn't give you that strong emotional attachment.

If you know so little about me, offering yourself to me get my mind thinking that your skills in picking someone good is a bit off.

If I am your source of security, guidance,fun, excitement and leadership, you better bring more to us than a great big hole in your soul. Laughs.

It is not always about getting you to that point. It about how it affaspects you afterwards.

Opportunity for great relationships don't last forever. Good people are always in demand. 

I have very little in common with people who lives have gone smoothly. It seems they lack a certain apperication of life.

If you fill your life with person who isn't the one. Do you blame the one when that opportunity that never happens? Being prepared makes sense.

We are so use to instance. Hungry just go to a store, sleepy just go to your bed. Bored just turn in the TV. You want a dominant just spread your legs and hope you might get a good one.  Rarely is instant appericated. Growing your own food brings a apperication to the labor and time it takes to fill your belly. Building your own shelter to sleep safely at night bring apperication to what it takes to have a safe shelter.  In the vanilla world, instance relationships rarely work add d/s to a relationship and things tend to get amp up and intense. 

When dealing with the newbies and their desires to have that special relationship, I must remember newbies make mistakes constantly. Training them to be that wonderful submissive means dealing with a butt load of fustration at times.

Are you shamed of your submission? Do you hide your submission behind closed doors? Only in your bedroom? Only in your fantasies 

?. While I understand that for some the shame of it makes thier submission what it is for them.

I am kind of person who loves say that one is mine. Mind body and soul and see it beam with pride. 

Some people are so ashamed of their bodies that they avoid being naked at all costs but submission isn't just a nude thing. It a trust in the leadership and the relationship thing.

The body that responds to my touch is far superior to the perfect looking body.

It not the wonderful times that make the relationship strong. It when things go horribly wrong that test who and what we are and the strength of our relationships.

While social skill and communications is important, touch is also important.  Why touch something that doesn't react or feel?  I just don't see the appeal. There is something to be said about having the ability to steam another person's glasses or having that person delight in your touch. 

Someone worthy of being stolen.  When time and effort is applied to create a great relationshipx there are those who will always attempt to steal it away instead of putting in the time and effort in.  A great submissive is always tempted to be stolen. 

Laughs taking me to church is not such a good idea. So a bunch.of them are sharing experiences welcoming newbie and such. I politely pass the inquiries that happen at these places. Was accused of being shy and reserved. I really don't care what others think of me. Well the person who took me to this church was trying to convince others. I can take care of myself quite well.  I said to the group. A lot of you have that odd submissive attitude. 

Freaken now i am swamped with people wanting me to speak. I talked about the hard path. The need to pick a good leader. The better the leader the more submissive nature can come out. I was asked to speak again but I politely said no.

To preach about a life is nit the same as living a life one wants 

If your busy at work and don't give time to a relationship. Are you really shock to have that relationship  fall apart?

Many scream they want the good stuff. Males, females, trans, gays, bi etc etc..

Life isn't a Disney fairy tail nor is it a porno. There are no short cuts 

Put in the time and effort. Take the hard road. Know who you are and be brave enough to show yourself..

There an old saying. To thy own self be true. 

While most people can act to be accepted as they pretend to be.

How do you find something real and solid if the people are just acting. 

Lots of people are happy to waste your emotions and time for there own amusement.

It one of the reasons why I grumble at the attitude of this is only the internet or I am in it just for fun.