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Hetero Male Master, 49,  Houston, Texas
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I seek a real, sexy, intelligent, fun, ,attractive, hwp, submissive female for adventure, growth and partnership. It seems like that is impossible to find here. I would prefer in Texas so we could get to know each other, but I can move you here from anywhere in the US. Money is not the issue, finding the right woman worth it has not not been an easy task.

I am strong enough to be your man. I have the mental and physical strength to command your submission and the imagination and heart to help create an incredible connection and experience. BDSM is about so much more than sex. It is about communication, understanding, connecting on many levels including the sexual one.

The mental and physical aspects of BDSM require different skill sets. The physical part is the easy one - restraints, commands, discipline. It is the mental aspects that make this lifestyle so much more challenging and ultimately so much more rewarding. A true Dom needs to learn about and understand his sub. He must take the time to get to know her and learn how to communicate with her so that he can fulfill her needs in addition to his. Control her mind and her body is yours. Control only the body and the mind gets bored and you lose both. I will make you mine completely - your body and your mind! I want my sub to be happy, content and orgasmic when we are together.

I ULTIMATELY SEEK ONE SUB TO COLLAR FOR A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP. I want my partner who can live with me, travel with me and so much more. I have the financial means to make sure my sub is happy and feels save on all levels. If she works and has a career I am incredibly supportive of that or willing to help my sub find hwat she may need away from here.

Since seeking that one has proven to be quite difficult, my main focus is in that search, but I am open to experiencing and learning which may help me find the one I seek. And, since I am not sure that will ever happen so meanwhile, I seek experiences and connections with newbies, those with experience and even couples, esp cuckold couples. I like to mentor, teach and help others as well.

I am a straight, athletic, attractive, intelligent and successful man. I have a vivid imagination and diverse toys to go along with the intelligence, communication skills and necessary strength to command your submission and the creativity to satisfy your cravings and needs. I utilize conversation, orgasm control, sensory deprivation, physical strength and discipline to achieve my goals. I employ blindfolds, restraints and verbal commandscommunication to teach you, train you, tease you and excite you. I will make you beg .... and then tease you more You will be a good little girl for me, but when you test me and misbehave and I know you will.....then the fun really begins.

I enjoy teach and training and mentoring. Newbies are encouraged to chattext me. I am happy to answer all questions and help you be smart and safe. I prefer subs with intelligence and even attitude (to a point). I also enjoy daddy dom age play, exhibitionism, couples, cuck play and all sorts of erotic and kinky activities!

I have been more aggressive lately and feeling extreme. Is there anyone who can test my limits??

I live in Houston travel often through TX and am mainly in Dallas, SA and Austin. Always willing to make new friends.











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 Dominant Male



 5' 6"

 150 lbs






Actively Seeking:

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Journal Entries:
2/26/2016 7:25:21 PM
why are there so many fakes here?  What do they get out of being who they are not?  Had another supposed female wanting to learn, be trained and/or mentored yet does not want to actually talk.  How can you learn anything about someone else through texts and short ims.  If she is real what is her goal?   So many time wasters here.

2/16/2013 6:16:19 PM

I seek a real person. I am not into game playing, endless emails or posers.

I seek a sexy, intelligent, fun, submissive female for adventure, growth and partnership.  It is very hard to find that here.

Posers, fakes, women wanting to move from Africa or Russia, women lying about who they are... over and over here.  Is there anyone really seeking and not into wasting time.


Please do not write me or respond back to me unless you are real and ready.

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