IsThatAllThereIs

this just in.

i'm a submissive man looking for a woman who shares the same values as myself; a non-exhaustive list of these includes honesty, compassion, optimism and a work ethic. i enjoy books, discussion, current affairs
and the quiet life a great deal.

i'm a masochist but i wish to live a full D/s life, which is to say a life in which the D/s dynamic is implicit and understood and observed within all contexts, but appropriately of course; it is wrong, i feel, to
engage in overt displays of humiliation and play which may confuse and upset strangers, relatives and nonD/s friends. As far as i am concerned as a masochist, and stop me if You've heard this one before, a D/s life does not consist of brief moments of bdsm stretched out over fifty or so years. for me it is about positive affect, that is to say companionship and love, but also about taking care of everyday business such as
laundry, cleaning, cooking, gardening and so on and so forth, with participation in thuddy-whacky-slicey play thrown in here and there as genuine expressions of desire and just plain fun. did i mention that i am a masochist?

i have thought seriously about the way i wish to live my life and i enjoy being around people who have done likewise. i am sympathetic to religious belief but i practice no religion myself. i have no prejudices with regard to age, ethnicity, gender, sexuality or nationality

i have no photograph upon this profile because, while in no way ashamed of my submissive character, i have been bitten once and i am twice shy, however, i have a photograph i shall happily share with You upon Your request. the opportunity to give a day or two of my time in the service of a Superior is also welcome.

i wish each of You the very best of luck in Your search for happiness. should any of You, Dominants, submissives or switches simply wish to say hi then i always welcome new friends.