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Male Switch, 19, Nashville, Tennessee
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Male Dominant, 39, Las Vegas, Nevada
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About IstariAnjinSama
I'm curious. The only way to learn is to ask. I attend the occasional munch. The problem is, I also want to try some new stuff, and all I've been able to find is not so much 'sub' as 'hideously co-dependent', or doms who don't do safe words and insist that there is no 'starting light'.
I'm in the experimental phase. I don't even know if this is for me. The problem is, the old stuff doesn't throw the switch anymore.
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No, I don't like guys. No, I don't want to suck cock. No, I don't want something in my butt. No, I don't try to be dom when I'm so obviously not. No, I don't push my self as a sub when I'm so obviously not. So let's help some folks grow a brain here.
I came to this site to
FIND OUT!!!
and the only thing I've found is a few people (who are not representative. I hope.) who are loudmouth assholes. Being pushy doesn't make you dom, IT JUST MAKES YOU A DICK.
To everyone else who has minded thier tongues and manners, my gratitude.
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Like it says in the profile - I don't know whether I'm a sub or a Dom. It has been suggested I am a sub, but it seems to stem from being polite. If being polite does in fact make me a sub, so be it.
But all too often leads to people assuming that my politeness is their cue to assert dominance, but without at least returning the same politeness. This invariably leads to conflict.
My politeness is not a cue to use me as a doormat. At no time will that be tolerated. In my estimation, and in my experience, that which you desire you must first exibit - in this instance, respect. Ergo, I show respect through being polite. I show it, and I
Do
expect the same in return.
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