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Female Submissive, 35, Ontario
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About isshehere
Good day. Buen dia. Bonne journeé. Thanks for stopping by. A little housekeeping if I may. I realize most will not read this but one can dream... If we're going to have any chance of actually getting to know one another one needs to be able to express a thought. Preferably in sentences that are understandable. I much prefer conversation to playing 20 questions. I understand that initial messages are questions but I have zero interest in prying a thought out of you... Expand your thoughts, your feelings, your hopes so I have something to work with. Please have more to say than "I am a slave" as that says nothing about you. I know this will fall on deaf ears but if your only interest is in getting off you're wasting your time.
Ultimately, I am looking to find the "one" that is right for me. In my little world this is hopefully about building a life that has meaning for me and her. It is important to me that she have a life she can look back on and say it had meaning. I have no interest in a girl that only wants to be used all day, every day. I freely admit I am not rich so I am not able to spend every minute fucking to be blunt. There is more to this life than that.
I enjoy conversation about many things. I may not know anything about a topic but I am happy to learn new things. I really prefer the little things in life. Going out for a coffee and talking or not talking with the one... A good meal... Enjoying a good movie on the sofa...
I do believe in consensual D/s. Once there is a level of trust, respect I do enjoy control. Rarely to the level of micromanagement but... I am not a sadist though "punishment" and correction are part of the equation... I do believe in communication. It is expected that our conversations be honest. At this point we are anonymous so we should be free to speak our minds. We both need to respect the other...
Dominance is not about ordering someone about nor is it about devaluing another. It is about creating a connection that allows someone to be who they are. It is about being a complement to the others needs.
So at last dear reader we are at the end of this monologue. So do be good, do find what you need but most of all be kind to one another. We can all be idiots on a bad day but we can try to be kind.
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