Ironspike

the groundwork:50 yr old dominant male new to the bdsm community scene,privately experienced in D/s lifestyle,interests include, but are not limited to;bondage(would like to continue to experiment w/japanese rope techniques & suspension) spank &caress(velvet & thongs),orgasm denial,& humiliation w/redemption, temperature contrasts(ice in a hot tub)etc....
Enough about my proclivities...
I am looking for a female submissive (LTR) who delights in tactile diversions yet can still function in the day to day vanilla world. A predisposition for intellectual discourse is a huge plus...generally speaking, I'm willing to discuss tactics, but the final strategic decisions are mine, as is the responsibility for their outcome. yes,yes,yes,before you can say napoleonic complex I'm willing to admit that I believe the world would be a better place with me in charge.
That said,I hold the positional opinion of the 'loyol opposition' in high regard if there is a common goal .