Hi,

First of all, I find the prospect of writing out a profile quite daunting. I mean, where do you begin!? How can you explain how abouts you have come into this lifestyle, what experiences you have had and what you are looking without having your profile simply skipped passed? I find myself sat on my big desk all day, undertaking complex projects, meeting people, devising solutions to problems and all that seems easy than filling out a profile! You know in your mind that you are a sane person, reliable, genuine, intelligent, sensible, calm and above all friendly, but how do you get this across in a profile? There are thousands of people on this site and from my experience, you probably get 30 seconds to pitch a profile, where you pick up only some words which automatically gets highlighted in your mind before deciding whether to hit the contact button or skip to next profile button. Words like "PROFESSIONAL....blah blah blah BEAUTIFUL MISTRESS blah blah blah looking for a MALE SUB blah blah blah who is into CBT, blah blah blah WHIPPING"etc etc and people immediately get into some sort of mental sexual fantasy and hit the contact button! Quite amusing isn't it? I am not discouraging anyone. Maybe that works and I think I will try this. My profile therefore will read as follows:

PROFFESIONAL gent, SMART, INTELLIGENT looking for a MISTRESS or female SUB. Have had REAL TIME EXPERIENCES with some Mistresses and is looking to exploring more. Enjoys, CBT, CANNING, ORGASM DENIAL, RUINED ORGASMS and many more. Have lots of INTERESTS outside BDSM. Very APPROACHABLE and very FRIENDLY.

Look forward to talking to you. Have MSN, YAHOO and even SKYPE.

That was my 30 seconds of pitching!

Talk to you soon.

Take care