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I'm going through my emails cleaning out my mailbox. Here's a tip, don't send me stupid shit, just makes u look like an ass and shows what a loser u really are......on a more positive side. Happy Holidays to all and may the new year bring all that u desire. xo |
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My xmas list is getting long, I may need a scroll. lol |
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Oh my, I desperately need to go shopping for my winter warbrobe before I freeze my tushy off. |
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PS: If I read an email asking to chat, demanding to chat or if you email me a 2nd time before I even get a chance to respond that = no response.
Its become a real quirk of mine. I have better things to do than to "chat" with u. Unless I already know you. |
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So last night I found a bunch of emails in my bulk folder going back about 3 weeks ago. I may be responding to some of those so I wasn't ignoring you, even if I'm not interested I do try to respond at least saying so.
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It's funny how a few of the same people email me every couple of years. Not remembering we have communicated before. I, on the otherhand have a very good memory for certain things. Usually if there was some form of communication I will remember even if it was 5 yrs ago. ha |
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So I put up some current pics, nothing fancy just regular webcam pics between classes today so I have something current up. I was sick of looking at my old pic, even though it is sexy. haha |
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FYI: If you write to me it better be more than one line. Don't be lazy, write a proper introductory paragraph, remember those, you know 3-4 sentences about yourself or whatever you're typing to me about. Don't be lame. |
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I will be posting some updated photos soon. I have an adorable new haircut and some luscious added curves. haha. Also, I'm not seeking anything at the moment, not like anyone reads on here but still. |
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I realized all my journal entries were over 1yr old & my life is totally different now. I have not played in forever, I'm really a bit removed from all of this but not by choice. Life happens. Currently, I'm working full time and not for myself anymore and just started school again, so reconneting with like-minded friends and making new ones is ideal. |
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Ok darlings, so this summer has been a roller coaster but that's life- so needless to say, I'm here but not here so to speak.
I'm reading email, corresponding with a few and have even set up a couple of meets which have not panned out.
My main point is be respectul of my timeline- i.e. though I leave my pc on all day- I do have a life and it does not revolve around you.
And what good am I, if I have distractions. So I've been taking my time and getting centered. *exhales* |
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So I found an amazing whipping post who is actually one of my "vanilla" friends. I knew he was open to kink though. We had an awesome time, I gave him a delicious beating using a crop, belt, and one those novelty whips I keep around the house. However, I quickly realized he is serious masochist. *Smiles* He definitely has the highest pain tolerance of any male I have played with.I had to gag him to keep him quiet. *Evil grin* lol |
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Ok, I'm seeking a handy sub for the opportunity of painting my apt. Yes, I wil have my whip in hand. Don't forget I have cats so u cat be allergic. Could lead to regular service. |
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Hello darlings, just an update. So the last 2 weeks have been crazy- my mom is now going on her 2nd week in the hospital and my business partner spent last weekend in the hospital- which has turned my life for the time being upside down. Both are getting better thank goodness. So needless to say, I've had to put my personal projects on hold. I have noticed that I need a service oriented personal assistant through all of this. Also, I have not had as much time to play as i need and its starting to get to me. I need a whipping post.lol |
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So I've been wanting to paint my apt for a few months now- of course now im ready and getting it done is has become a project- much like the food shopping- if it doesn't get done this weekend. Guess who will be working a paint brush- hahaha. I have no time to sit around and wait. |
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Hello darlings, Some people come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. It is what it is. I have a track record of meeting awesome people at all the wrong times. That's life. Can u relate? discuss amongst yourselves. lol |
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So I finally went food shopping tonight, seriously I haven't gone in about 2 mos I think. Sure, I've picked up a few things here and there but not a real food shopping. Of course my cart was full and heavy and I made 3-4 trips to my 2nd fl apt. The only good thing is that I burned some calories. Damn, worthless subs. I'm tired. Sure I can do it but why should I.......... |
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So I had a very nice weekend. I spent it with friends and enjoyed having a long weekend. It's amazing, this year has been so transitional for me, mostly in the area of relationships. In the last 3 mos, I've ended an 11yr platonic friendship, I've ended a 4 yr romantic relationship and it seems as though a short-term relationship is on hiatus. It's a lot of change all at once, at this point I feel good, and am just going with the flow of things. It is what it is. I'm excited for what is around the corner b/c that leaves a lot of room in my life. Cheers to new beginnings! |
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Hello all, Yes, I updated yet again.lol And remember- NO CHAT REQUESTS! I will forget I'm talking to you and I hate it takes up the entire page- Send me an email and we can go from there! |
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Hello darlings,
I updated my profile as I do from time to time. Yes, I had a fabulous weekend!!!
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I'll be in Chelsea tonight (sat) darlings and in the Village tomorrow (sun) for Pride NYC. Hope to see u there. Happy Pride!!!!!!!!!! |
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Ah, so feeling much better these days, after a rough 2 months. I'm actually working less hrs approx 45-50hrs a week........ I'm getting used to not having an assistant, ugh- it is what it is.......I finally have time to put a couple of subs to work. And also, now open to other possibilities in my life, which I'll touch on later. Be well, darlings. |
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So I'm emerging out of my shell after dealing with some bumps in the road. I will be returning emails and should be a bit more active again. Life is good again- as it always is, my opinion just seems to change on the matter. Hope all is well, darlings..... |
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Ok, I haven't been returing emails- yes, I know nothing new but there actually has been a few I have been intending to respond too- actually just adjusting to a new more demanding schedule- I know- yes it was demanding before but now- im actually working almost 70hrs a week whereas before my assistant handled at least 50% of the work- anyway- it is what it is- for now- xoxoxo |
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Ok- everything put on hold- now working almost 12 hr shifts- I desperately need a masseuse- |
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Ok, I'm chipping away at my email, slowly but surely.......It has been a long, stressful week, I look forward to relaxation this weekend. I need a weekend of rest and pampering, like shopping and massage and of course my weekly beauty routine. And my fave Korean BBQ. Let's see if I can get that accomplished. |
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I figured I should balance out my peeves, I must say that there are a lot of quality male subs/slaves on here and unfortunately, I am only one Domme with limited time with a male slave in service to me part-time and can only take on 1 more male. Women, of course are so elusive though I have met a few. |
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Here's just an FYI-I currently have 25 pages of email to get through- If you contact me either wait patiently until I respond or keep it moving. I respond in my time not yours so get a fucking clue. My job is not answering emails so if you see me on- don't ever chat request me- I cannot get any fucking work done with that pain in the ass messenger nor can I continue to answer emails while using that messenger and since it doesn't light up and I have A.D.D - i will forget that we are chatting so don't waste your time.
PS. If you contact me and then contact me again before I have responded to you and I don't know you all that well- that's the express lane to my shitlist.
Be well. |
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Last tip- ok, who am kidding not the last tip but anyway- if you write me include a damn photo and a fucking clear one- you have seen me and I prefer not to stare into a boring ass grey box or if I choose to correspond with you- have the common fucking courtesy to send a photo- I don't care who you are or what top secret job you have- you're not that fucking important to hide yourself- unless you're a troll ok then I understand. haha- if you think you're not worthy then do something about it- ie. hit a gym or get a nip/ tuck but don't be lame and hide like a pussy. |
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- Here's another tip- that u read on probably 90% of profiles so why people don't understand it, I have no clue- No one word or one line emails. That's a waste of me reading it- If you contact me- write a goddamn paragraph at least- including why u are writing to me- If you send me one fucking line telling me something I can easily read on your damn p-file- I am just going to think u are stupid b/c that tells me nothing nor does it spark my interest. |
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My biggest pet peeve- are those morons who don't read my entire profile and ask me the same bullshit over and over again. Don't u think that maybe everyone asks the same damn questions- some originality would be great, just a little- so that's just one way to get on my nerves- quickly. |
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Update: I have received enough applicants. I'm very pleased with those who have gotten my attention and have shown me how eager you are to serve.
Be well |
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OK. darlings, I'm looking again- Only those single, no children, not married, no gf's, no damn attachments-i don't care if your the best slave in the world- no fucking attachments.This is for a domestic positon- requirements: cooking, cleaning, running errands and making sure I'm happy in general. Must have a flexible schedule be no more than 20-25 min away (bergen county). I hate waiting! Oh, must be 6'0 or taller, and preferably under 40. ty, be well |
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Ok, I've been sifting through email. I'm only in Feb. in my bulk mail. Jeez. takes me fucking forever to get through all this crap. I do save the worthy emails. Be well. |
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Happy Easter- I'm exhausted- I believe I have met the ultimate painslut- I have met one other painslut (and I don't use the term lightly) in my yrs- both female- however, this one is just breathtaking- the body is absolutely amazing- is all I can say- |
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Just a little update: I'm not actively seeking any new male subs. I'm only open to friendly correspondance, etc with anyone new and that's all. If we have met/played before I will see you again. I currently have 1 precious pet in service to me and in a few weeks I will have a 2nd pet returning to service with me. I'm very excited to be training pet #2 again. |
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Thank you for all the birthday wishes I received. For those if u that don't pay attention it was on (Sat 2/16) and it was a big one.lol So thanks again to you all, especially to my precious pet. |
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I'm excited for my b-day tomorow, you'd think I have big plans but I don't just going to keep it low key. |
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Ok, I am once again going through my email, not b/c I'm looking but in order to respond to those who are worthy of my time.
P.S Here are a few tips for those who are not having any luck (there really are so many good subs to choose from) 1. Fill out a complete profile. 2 Send more that a 1 liner and less that a book- a paragraph or 2, is appropriate as an introduction. 3. Always have current photos and attach accordingly (u are the one searching, put your best and current foot forward) 4. Address the potential Dom/Domme properly (respect, manners, and potential even if u have no training will shine through always) 5. We can always tell the copy and past, cookie cutter approach so don't be lazy. I'll add more at a later date, hope this helps some of u, should be common sense but I see way to many blank profiles and I know this say spiel is echoed among many- Stop being lazy bitches! |
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Happy Valentine's Day to all!! |
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P.s. My b-day is this weekend and a big one too. Who doesn't love presents?! |
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Random updates: Well the beginning of the new yr has been pretty busy for me. I had to put down 2 pets who were very dear to me (my parents dog and cat). Anyone who knows me, knows I'm crazy about animals and my pets.
Work has kept me a tad bit busier than I'd like to be. For those who have commented about my work schedule, keep your opinions to yourself. If you're not paying my bills, then shut the fuck up. lol
Hope all is well! |
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At this time, I'm not seeking any more inquiries regarding service from sub males. I have my hands full.
I will make acceptions only if you are a gym bunny.lol
Ladies are always welcome to inquire. And for the rest of you, I'm open to making aquaintances.
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Hello all: 1. Reminder, I'm NOT seeking a sissy at this time. 2. If you send me numerous emails before I have responded to 1 of yours, that's an automatic block- you are now stalking me, move on, ty. 3. If I DON'T know you or we have NEVER spoken, don't send me a friend request.ty 4. I'm still responding to emails and getting to know a few. I do appreciate your emails even if I don't respond or we're not a fit. Best wishes to all. |
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I will be sifting through my pages of mail, I have too much to reply individually to all. First, I appreciate you taking the time to email me, sending me compliments, holiday wishes and what not. I will just be deleting those that do not fit my criteria which is plainly outlined in my p-file, you know b/c why should a submissive listen and be obedient, you know. Though I appreciate the gesture, you're clogging up my inbox, expecially those in other countries. Sheesh. I don't care that you can relocate if your not in a 25 mile radius, its a NO. I don't have time to chat endlessly and I've met people from far away, been there, done that. Good luck on your search! |
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I swear, people kill me. So this person (sub) approaches me with the dastardly chat invite- if you actually read my profile it states do not send me and invite unless you have messaged me 1st. (I make exception to women) Then she has the nerve to ask my name, I'm sorry but if you read my profile then you would not be asking. If you approach me, you damn well read my fucking profile thoroughly. Some of you so called submissives are down right lazy. |
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Just an FYI, I will not accept any chat requests if we haven't spoken previously. Miss Jen |
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Happy New Year to all. Best wishes in the New Year.
I must say in the next few weeks I will be most likely taking another hiatus from here. I have reconnected with previous subs and met new ones, always male b/c you boys are serious about what you want. The women or at least the ones that contact me are a waste of my time and 99% fake. Which brings me to this- Be true to yourself and others. I wish you all health, happiness and a kinky new year. xoxoxo |
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I'm updating my photos once again- be patient my dear ones.......... |
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Happy New Year to all and best wishes in the new year. Ok, I have a shitload of email to respond to, please if you have messaged me once do not keep sending me mail. It will all just end up deleted especially if you obviously haven't read my profile. Except for maid2pleaseu- you are the only one allowed to send emails if I haven't responded, ty. Miss Jen |
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Happy Holidays everyone!!!!!!. I've been super busy, just as I was ready to jump back in, I was under the weather and work has excelerated, so I'm just managing my time and chatting with a few, seeing where you may fit best.
Ps. To all sissy's I love you but you're not what I seek. Thank you. |
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Ok, so I got my results and I'm not dying.lol I must just be getting old, you know 30 is coming up in 2 months. So I guess phantom aches and pains have started. I've been super busy with work and I'm also thinking about moving to a bigger place even though I have 3 months till my lease is up so that's been taking up alot of my time. I'm still here, haven't forgotten about you all. |
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Another update: So I finished all my tests today, so just wait and see. Anyhow, I'm sure I may not be able to individually respond, so thank you to all those who took the time to wish me well. And I send the same back to you along with happy holidays! |
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Hello all: I have been under the weather this past weekend so I didn't get a chance to return a few emails. I'm feeling better however, I have to undergo some medical tests in the upcoming weeks, and I'm in some mild pain so needless to say, you'll get a return email when you get it. Be well! |
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Updates: I've been swamped with work lately so I fell a bit behind in replying to inquiries.
1. I'm not interested if you are a Dominant or Switch, please don't email me. I'm only seeking subs preferably slaves.
2. I'm not interested if you're over 40. Don't email me.
3. I'm only interested if you are in NJ OR NYC, if you're not in these areas, I'm not interested.
4. Please respect my choices, I do not like to be rude, I'm sure you're very nice, blah blah blah, however, if you are not in my "criteria" I'm not interested. I'm sure you're special and if I read your email and you happen to be dom, over 40 and out of state, just maybe I'll respond. ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!
5. And don't forget my reasons are none of your business.
I appreciate the thought and thank you in advance!
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Thank you to all those who wished me happy holidays. I hope you all enjoyed yourselves as well. |
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Ok, I'm about 3/4 the way through my mail. I do appreciate those who take the time to email me. Just make sure you read my profile. Thank you. |
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Hmm, ok. Just a few things. 1. If you're not local, leave me alone. 2. Do not bother me with nonsense copy and paste bullshit. 3. If you're applying to serve me, send a photo attached or don't waste my time. 4. If you're a sub and haven't accepted it, save the baby games. Don't even think about bothering me. 5. You want me to give you the time of day, prove it. |
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I do appreciate all the emails, I take my time to review them all. I'll respond to most whether I'm interested or not. |
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Finally, the photos are up, again. Enjoy, some old, some new just how I like it. |
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Ok, I'm actually going through all my email.lol And still waiting for my photos to be up, what torture. I hate waiting! |
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Of course I added new pics and they are nowhere to be found. Sheesh!! |
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Well, I am open to finding a male sub again. Only interested in local, domestic service oriented subs/slave. Thanks! |
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Where are the real women who are not just taking up space with profiles they don't use?
I'm here to just check email and meet some new friends at this point. I have a love hate relationship with this site. Unfortunately, I'm involved so I won't take advantage of the abundance of male subs here. Ugh.
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I just updated my photos, just waiting for them to be approved, ugh. |
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Ok, that sounded a little negative.lol I enjoyed a few nice chats recently. And boy if I were single, whew, I'd have my hands full with all the eager male subs here. |
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Hmm, haven't updated in awhile. Presently, just browsing as always. My recent return hasn't produced much of anything. Most women I meet on here are a waste of time, like I have said before, not to be negative or anything but it's hard to give the "real" people on here a break b/c there are so many that merely waste my time. No, I don't want to email for a yr before you can voice verify, no I don't want to watch you on your stupid cam, ugh!!! |
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So of course, I have returned after a brief hiatus.
Like seasons change, now I seek a female sub to serve me. I won't hold my breath. The only thing I can say is too bad I am not looking for a male sub, they seem to be the only ones who have balls enough to seek what they are looking for without all the game playing like the "women" I have encountered.
I ended up hiring a maid.lol and have yet to find a decent assistant. Oh well....... |
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Well, I have been so busy over the last week that I haven't had much time to come here, still no assistant or house help. I am up to my eyeballs in shit. Since I am in the adult industry - its not a position that I wanted to advertise but damn can't find good help anywhere. |
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Well, this site is like a car wreck, I can't look away. I like to play "truth or fake" with the profiles. Haha.
I got an email from a Dom stating the obvious- this place is a waste to find subs/slaves for R/t. He is so right. Though I am not new to this site been here on and off for 2yrs. And met some great friends and male subs- when i was looking for them. |
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So I get this ignorant message from a moron who has lived I think more than 40yrs on this planet. So he sends a racist comment but the irony is: he has my ethnicity all wrong. HAHAHAHA
Now that is hilarius.
Get a clue- If a person wants to hate, be ignorant, racist- be my f****** guest. But get it right at least. HAHAHAHA |
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Ok, my photos are up finally. So I see to meeting more women of course most are fakes actually I should assume all are until proven otherwise. I read a profile last night of a male dom- it was the funniest thing I have read basicllay making fun of all the bs on here, fakes, people with a laundry list of criteria, etc. It was very true. Thankfully, I met my owner offline and never had to spend my time sifting through the nonsense to find a real compatible person in cyberspace. Unfortunately, it will not be that easy to find a 24/7. Oh well. |
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Ugh, I uploaded them again, lets see if this works. |
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Hmm, I added new photos, now I do not see any. Hmmm. |
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I've decided to start these journal entries mostly out of boredom. Running a business from home keeps me at home most days usually very busy but in my downtime boredom sneaks in. Met a few nice girls but nothing substantial...yet. |
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A response, hmm, seems like a simple thing. Hello, goodbye, thank you, no thank you, not interested. You know, it only takes a second to reply. And is just plain considerate. So we should all take a second to reply to those who actually took the time out to read our profiles and took a few minutes out of their lives to send an email. |
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Ok, I have officially lost faith that there are any real women on here. Just when I give this or any other site like this the benefit of the doubt, the reality smacks me in the face. |
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