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| twenty-six years old. full-time student, part time retail slave. starting my masters program in library and information sciences next fall. a lover of words (written and otherwise), culture, conceptual ideas, imagination.. and recently, of my physical well-being and fitness. a solitary soul; yet hopelessly romantic. introspective and timid, i don't always have an easy time opening up, but for the right person.. it's something i'd very much like to do... i want to find the one who will love, nurture and protect me. until i find him, i must protect myself.
longtime interest/desire/curiosity about my submissive nature, but little real experience (apart from an unhealthy relationship that went on for far too long..). the mental and emotional aspects of a relationship are most important to me. just because i am a submissive and you are a dominant - that does not mean that we are instantly compatible. there is much more to what i seek to understand about myself, than physical gratification.
interested in : friends, guidance, conversation, kindred spirits. breaking down barriers that have prevented me from fully exploring some of my deepest desires. mental stimulation.
not interested in : casual flings. extreme physical pain. polyamory. most importantly, i'm not interested in being a doormat (well, objectification can be discussed later, but you get the idea!) or mindless sex object. my mind is my most prized possession, and i refuse to give it freely, or disregard it for someone else's pleasure.
edit : excuse the.. saucy photos where i'm wearing the button down shirt. i just hit a personal goal and i was feeling pretty good about myself. i'm not usually quite so bold.
edit part deux : please give me time to respond to you message, if you send me mail. i get a lot of it, and sometimes it takes a little time. i might just hop on to check my inbox in between work, school and everything else, and intend to respond at a later time. impatience will certainly not earn you any points.
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James Spader + Maggie Gyllenhaal = the secretary = sexiest thing ever. |
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officially lost my first 15 lbs. Quarter of the way to my goal.
i feel great. certainly gratified to see a drop in the number, but the best things about these lifestyle changes is not on the scale. i have more energy. i'm sleeping better. i'm stronger ( was scared of strength training/weights when i started, now i enjoy it as much as the cardio ), my endurance is up.. and i'm actually feeling confident for the first time in... a long time.
next mini goal : 15 more lbs down by christmas. (halfway mark)
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dom·i·nate
v. dom·i·nat·ed, dom·i·nat·ing, dom·i·nates
v.tr.
1. To control, govern, or rule by superior authority or power: Successful leaders dominate events rather than react to them.
2. To exert a supreme, guiding influence on or over: Ambition dominated their lives.
3. To enjoy a commanding, controlling position in: a drug company that dominates the tranquilizer market.
4. To overlook from a height: a view from the cliffside chalet that dominates the valley.
dom·i·neer
v. dom·i·neered, dom·i·neer·ing, dom·i·neers
v.tr.
To rule over or control arbitrarily or arrogantly; tyrannize.
v.intr.
To exercise arbitrary or arrogant rule or control.
which are you?
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just signed up for my first belly-dancing class. /thrilled
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| Age: 29 |
| Bucharest,
Romania |
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